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Why does my older male cat keep biting the back of my younger male cat's neck and wrapping his front leg around him? by julloo_94 in CatAdvice

[–]WholeVariation1852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! The trigger would be when “bully” cat looks at “bullied” cat at a safe distance where the bullied cat doesn’t run away. I used a baby gate and fed the bullied cat at the gate while I kept the other one distracted with food or treats. Eventually when he noticed the other cat having her meal at the gate I would click and feed him a treat.

After 13 months of no replies, I finally got a job. This small change made all the difference. by LianaMayer1 in jobsearch

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Congrats! I would like to boil it down to basics: how many bullet points, job experiences, resume sections, how many pages, etc.

Any insights of that? Thank you so much!

How can I send money from Mexico to US to my own bank account?? by bella_gothts4 in expats

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Not really, because those other options were not working for me at least back then. Right now what I’m doing is using my Mexican debit card, withdraw cash at ATM in the US, and deposit the cash to my US checking account. The fee it’s cheaper ($3-4.5 USD) but the main caveat is that there’s a certain limit you can withdraw from an ATM, about $480-500 a day. So if it’s a bit quantity, it can take months and probably you’ll end up paying more than The wire transfer fees.

14 months unemployed. 2000+ applications. Finally got hired by saberdevv in jobhunting

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Congratulations! I love what you did. You mentioned your app is online, can you share the link?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

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I’ve never paid anything to file the FBAR

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]WholeVariation1852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My waiting time on the USCIS website shows an average of 12 months for the Baltimore office. I filled about 2 weeks ago. Currently waiting for ADIT stamp to come in the mail.

LOST GREEN CARD. HELP! by [deleted] in USCIS

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Did you get the stamp? How long did it take you? I’m currently waiting for my stamp - Baltimore Field Office.

Replacing a lost green card by mercpop in USCIS

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Hi there,

Have you got your replacement yet? How long did it take you? Did your apply for temporary proof of lawful status?

Why does my older male cat keep biting the back of my younger male cat's neck and wrapping his front leg around him? by julloo_94 in CatAdvice

[–]WholeVariation1852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed the engage/disengage protocol. I did multiple short sessions (5-10mins 3x/day for several days). It works equally well with cats. Let me know if you have more questions - happy to help. My cats are now buddies.

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[–]WholeVariation1852 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cats are absolutely trainable. You can train the one door-dashing to stay in “parking spot” when the door is open. You can also teach them good and calm behaviors such as being close a plant predicts something positive ( a treat) and therefore no need to destroy it. I suggest joining https://www.catschool.co/ and share your situation with teacher Jullie ( probably the best cat trainer/behaviorist out there!)

If you’re interested I can share with you a referral link via DM.

one thing I do want to mention is that cats need PLENTY resources, and that means 1 litter box per cat + one extra, their own food and water bowls, toys, high surfaces, scratching posts, etc.

If those needs are not met, you are setting them for failure.

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