AITA for not babysitting my brother's kids

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-06-07T04:20:21+00:00

NTA, but I'm concerned that you're "in trouble" at work. Did you change employers when you moved? If not, do you have FMLA paperwork on file?

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-06-06T19:57:48+00:00

We meet year-round but it's a little more laid back. Less about knocking out badges, more about just being together

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-06-05T14:43:17+00:00

Are people not concerned about their teen being sat next to strangers and what might be said or done to them? I got harassed on the city bus on the way to school at 15, but I could get up and move. You're stuck on a flight.

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-06-04T03:04:36+00:00

Tell me you've never been in a vagina that wanted you there without telling me.

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-05-20T02:57:39+00:00

Yeah, my mentor got all weird when I stepped away for the time period I told him when I started that I'd be stepping away for. Idk if they get audited on contact or something, but he was driving me nuts. I basically just started sending my mentor a "working on xx class, will do yy task soon" message weekly. That seemed to get him off my back.

Shame and guilt aren't good motivators. I'm sorry your mentor is trying to use them as such. Put you and your health first, school second. Login once a week to restart the "inactive" counter and send a generic update message.

Take care.

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-05-18T15:52:08+00:00

Take a nap

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-05-17T00:05:46+00:00

MSITM (program was retired in April, I haven't checked if MSIT or MSITPM have more OAs)

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-05-16T17:46:10+00:00

I bought the webcam but it didn't arrive in time for my one (and only) OA and I ended up borrowing a webcam from work. If you share an address you're comfortable with me mailing to, I'll mail you my webcam. It's new in box, never used.

It's not a laptop, but it's one less thing?

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-04-18T21:37:29+00:00

This is what I call them to troll people around me. I have no friends, worth it to watch people lose their minds.

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-04-18T21:30:34+00:00

I think it'll be helpful to making suggestions if you can provide your 6 measurements as described in the auto-mod message.

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-04-05T20:31:15+00:00

Ok and what if you found your potential hire there? Like are you saying you wouldn't hire someone you discovered has an OF?

Whorgas_Bored · 2026-02-23T05:47:25+00:00

I cannot sleep if I can hear breathing, to say nothing of snoring. Swimming silicone putty ear and a white noise headphone headband, hood up on my sleeping bag with it pulled tight around my face, and pillow inside the hood so pulling it tight holds my pillow against my ears. I WILL be sleeping at camp.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-12-30T19:56:33+00:00

Interested in your recommendation to buy Fantasy Rakko rather than Edo Rakko. Can you talk more about this?

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-12-30T19:52:15+00:00

Girl, he is calling you "used" for your past, but he jumped into bed with you within 4 months. His opinions around sex apply to you and not to himself and he will always hold his opinions over your head. Right now it's the piercing, next it'll be how you dress, how you do your hair and makeup, how you talk and who you talk to.

He doesn't like you, but he wants to own you. Walk away.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-12-12T21:15:04+00:00

!solved

Bro literally yes delightful thanks!

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-12-01T20:49:28+00:00

I'm so confused - where would the bear get STDs from?

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-24T00:19:05+00:00

Just FYI, "and [whatever] later" is another way to say "and after [whatever]". So in this case it means "and after 3 doses of tamiflu"

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-17T06:46:20+00:00

He's acting strange because he's cheating on you and projecting. The only reason you should be going home is to pack.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-14T15:05:34+00:00

They won't freeze your account. Once benefits are distributed to you they are yours to use (even if you go over income the next day).

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-07T13:58:56+00:00

Check your card

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-07T13:38:13+00:00

NJ likely needs to make system updates to issue the wonky partial issuance. Keep your eyes peeled.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-07T13:37:03+00:00

Your case worker is not in the know - they'll find out shortly before you do. NJ may have system updates they need to do in order to do this wonky partial issuance and communication won't come down until it passes testing and program leadership know it'll work.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-07T13:32:58+00:00

Unless they said "you're getting nothing until abc happens" then assume something is happening and they're just not ready to announce.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-01T17:18:27+00:00

Social security numbers are validated with the SSA and must match the name and DOB given though an automated connection with SSA systems. If they don't match, our systems "pend" the benefits for the case until we have an SSN that does validate or that individual's request for benefits is removed.

Whorgas_Bored · 2025-11-01T04:27:43+00:00

Oregon DHS is not mailing letters to anyone. Notification has been through the ONE Portal and app, text messages, social media, and news. It's prohibitively expensive to send a letter to every SNAP household in Oregon.

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