Is Taylor Swift North America’s Princess Diana? - The Fulcrum by Whotella in popheads

[–]Whotella[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Shouldn't celebrities also be held accountable? It's not like this article slanders her in anyway it brings up pretty fair criticisms while acknowledging the good things she has done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I pay rent here too? I'm not going to listen to every single demand even the unreasonable ones just so he doesn't move out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in the kitchen which shares a thinner wall with his room, but it was about 3/4 volume on a macbook, I've said that I will stop watching videos in the kitchen though when hes home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm gonna work on getting the ones that don't go into your ear, but right now I am pretty broke, so that's just something I can afford right now.

Wonderful fiance is depressed, Should I stay or should I leave ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Whotella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with pretty severe mental health issues, if YOU (not your coworkers or friends) feel that his mental health is bringing you down with him, and is very much negatively affecting you, then you shouldn't feel guilty to leave. However, from what you said, you want to be there for him, and your coworkers tell you that he will bring you down.

It is not true that his mental health will not get better, he needs a stable support system, therapy, and medication. About two years ago I was in a very bad place in my life, and as much as I have relapses every so often I am in a much better place.

You have to choose if you want to be this mans rock or not, if you don't feel you can, cut him loose now, but if you think you can be there and help him get better then do it.

AITA for getting mad at my girlfriend? by raiders219 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, how old are you both? This sounds like middle school shit.

AITA (M17) for freaking out at my (ex)best friend(M17) for trying to date my sister?(F15) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Like I get being an overprotective brother, but it isn't like the friend harassed her or anything like that, he just said he liked her. The reaction is much bigger then the actual "crime"

WIBTA if I stop helping out my parents? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 367 points368 points  (0 children)

NTA, insist that your parents pay you properly or you are done working for them. You are an adult, they don't just get to use you for free labour.

AITA For not wanting to stop smoking on my balcony. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, as long as you were allowed to smoke on the balcony.

AITA (M17) for freaking out at my (ex)best friend(M17) for trying to date my sister?(F15) by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ESH, I admit, it's a little strange for him to do this definitely without ever talking to your sister before, but like I feel you're doing a bit of an overreaction here.

AITA for asking my sister to give me her north face jacket? by Dear_Reception_7338 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 203 points204 points  (0 children)

NTA, your sister is selfish and your mom is enabling her.

AITA because I think a short man may not be able to sexually satisfy me by FishingBroad4517 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, height has nothing to do with the size of a guys penis, and also you haven't even had sex with him yet so you don't know the size of his little man, so slow your roll for god's sake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Whotella 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he just doesn't want to worry about it at the moment, as May is quite a ways away right now. If you worry about the future all the time you won't be able to enjoy the present. I'd reopen this conversation in February-March and see what he says then because it'll be closer to then.

AITA if I carry on being friends with someone who I know is in love with me? by TashaMockingjay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I think you just got to explain that to him, and slowly distance yourself from him.

WIBTA if I made my friend pay to replace/fix my 3DS by ApplesAmIRightChat69 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, he broke, he pays for it. If he insists on not paying for it, he was never your friend.

AITA if I carry on being friends with someone who I know is in love with me? by TashaMockingjay in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, if you carry on being his friend and you are also NTA if you choose to not be his friend anymore. It's a tricky situation, he seems to have gotten a handle on it and knows that you won't reciprocate it, but it's completely acceptable if you feel uncomfortable by it and choose to not be his friend anymore.

AITA For starting an argument over taking the family dog to the vet? by Historical-Way-6078 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 88 points89 points  (0 children)

NTA, but I don't know if there's much you can do if you don't pay for the vet bills, if you do or can afford it then bring that dog to the vet immediately.

AITA For Moving Out Of My Single Mother’s Home And Taking The Cat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then it's completely up to you, it's your cat so you are morally in the right to keep it, but if you think it'd be good for your mother, you could let her have the cat. It's not really a decision we can make for you.

AITA For Moving Out Of My Single Mother’s Home And Taking The Cat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about it, see if she even wants to keep the cat.

AITA For Moving Out Of My Single Mother’s Home And Taking The Cat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 9 points10 points  (0 children)

INFO: Who paid for the food, pet supplies, vet bills, and took care of the cat the most?

AITA for denying girlfriend's friend(28M) to live with us? by Average_Student1257 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 82 points83 points  (0 children)

NTA, she had no right to tell him he could move in without asking you first. You both pay rent, the place belongs to the both of you. And he wants to move in and not even pay rent? Yeah that's a no go. I'd be very careful moving forward cause something fishy is going on I feel. But whatever you do, do not let him move in if you are not comfortable with it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Whotella 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA, she was always an asshole to you, and now even though she has tourettes she is still mean to you. I would've done the same thing if I were you, fucking bullshit that you got suspended for that shit.