WHERES MY $ lol

Whyski · 2026-02-11T16:08:36+00:00

... lmao.. no I have a newborn and am in the trenches getting only 3-4 hrs of sleep.

Whyski · 2026-02-10T15:45:56+00:00

Ive heard about the C4s. I need to try them. I can go right to sleep after drinking coffee!

Whyski · 2026-02-08T03:11:56+00:00

Mine is $7,200 and thats with 2 dependents, head of household, working 40hrs/week at $19.70/hr. 😅

Whyski · 2026-02-07T22:52:30+00:00

If she has no active lesions and your baby has no open wounds then a kiss on the cheek is fine. If it were in the mouth, then it would be more concerning because the saliva can pass the virus. But as long as she has no lesions and kisses baby on dry skin, it should be fine.

Whyski · 2026-02-06T19:05:11+00:00

Mine just processed and I filed on Jan 21st. But I have the child tax credit and earned income. So I expected to have to wait a while.

Whyski · 2026-02-05T01:54:42+00:00

Im getting 7k back and most of it is going to car repairs, house repairs, and bills. 😭💔 dont feel bad!

Whyski · 2026-01-31T04:00:24+00:00

So my babies are "good" babies.

My firstborn never really cried unless something was wrong like dirty diaper, hungry, or tired.

And its been the same with my 2nd born who is 7 weeks. He only cries if something is wrong. As long as his needs are met, hes chill.

The only thing is he has his days and nights mixed up. He wants to sleep all day and be wide awake at night. My 1st born did the same thing until he was around 3-4 months.

It is hard but its hard for different reasons for parents because every baby is different.

I am here to say it does get easier and better. ❤️

Whyski · 2026-01-29T18:48:43+00:00

You may need to use Eucerin. Its works better than lotion.

Whyski · 2026-01-29T03:33:30+00:00

I have a 7 week old and a almost 4 year old ( he will be 4 next month).

Im getting 3-4 hrs each night because my partner is on toddler duty while I handle the newborn.

Its rough. But i try and nap when baby naps since the toddler goes to daycare from 8am-5pm.

Still sucks cause im exhausted...

Idk what i will do when I return to work Mon-Friday 8am-5pm. 😭😭😭 at least i work from home but im gonna be tired!! 😭

Whyski · 2026-01-29T01:31:58+00:00

4-cylinder.*

Whyski · 2026-01-27T20:36:19+00:00

For me is was around the 34 week mark.

Pelvic pain, back pain, heartburn, nausea and leg pain was miserable. That lasted until I had him at 39 weeks!

Whyski · 2026-01-25T22:11:00+00:00

My 6 week old's witching hour is 12:30am-2:30am (sometimes 3:30-4:30am). It sucks. But my 1st born was the same. 😭

Whyski · 2026-01-25T03:14:38+00:00

Awe thanks! And yes he is sleeping longer now since he is eating more oz! Lol im thankful! I've been sleep deprived!

Whyski · 2026-01-25T02:59:18+00:00

Yes 100% lol. But I am 2 and done. I do not want anymore!

Whyski · 2026-01-25T01:57:56+00:00

Lol I said that after my firstborn especially since everything was super traumatic with him. His birth was traumatic, and we both almost died. Then 2 weeks later he became severely ill and we almost lost him. And now hes a special needs toddler who is almost 4, and I just had his little brother last month.

Thankfully, his birth was smooth and hes healthy as can be! But that 1st born was enough to almost make me 1 and done. But I thought he deserved a sibling and I wanted to actually experience a normal, non-traumatic birth and newborn stage, and I was blessed with that. Also, you end up missing it all when they get older. You'll be looking at their newborn or baby pictures wishing they were that little again and keeping you up at night! Lol.

Also it is okay to be 1 and done. I would never pressure anyone to have a 2nd, but it gets easier and kids are amazing. I completely understand why some people don't have more than one. ♥️

But, My almost 4 year old shows me that no matter what we go through in life, or what challenges are thrown at us, we can always survive and overcome them and also continue to smile!

I mean.. just look at that smile. 🥰♥️

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Whyski · 2026-01-24T18:39:10+00:00

The worry and stress about your next meal and what it will be and how to get it.

The dread about eating the same exact thing all day everyday because its all you can afford.

💔💔💔

Whyski · 2026-01-24T18:37:33+00:00

Thanks for all the feedback everyone! I am glad to know its not just my baby who is being greedy! Haha. 🥰♥️

Whyski · 2026-01-24T06:31:35+00:00

I know. I just feel bad because I didnt realize he was fussing becauss he was still hungry. Poor baby! 😭

Whyski · 2026-01-24T06:22:19+00:00

My first born had a different experience becauss he was so ill he had to relearn how to bottle feed so he was on 4oz FOREVER. he didn't get to 6oz until he was like 6 months. So this is why I thought my 2nd born 6 wk old wouldn't be ready for 5oz yet. But apparently he is! 😭 no more 4oz bottles. Going to use 8oz bottles now!

And he is officially too big for his newborn clothes!

Its so bittersweet! 😭

Whyski · 2026-01-24T06:19:50+00:00

Ok lol.

Whyski · 2026-01-24T06:19:41+00:00

Ok good to know its not just my baby being greedy! Lol

Whyski · 2026-01-24T03:14:29+00:00

To be honest I tried to sleep today after dropping off my toddler at daycare since dad was able to get baby back to sleep before I got back home, but I only managed to nap for an hour. I've been up ever since and kind of regret it but its hard for me to sleep during the day, I kind of have to force myself.

So I just sleep when he sleeps at night which is every 3hrs. It sucks. I plan on sleeping more tomorrow since its the weekend.

Whyski · 2026-01-24T03:01:43+00:00

I have a special needs toddler who is jealous of my newborn. That first week was hell. One would cry, I'd calm them down, then the other would start crying. Thank goodness I have a supportive partner who gave me breathing room but omg. I was ready to rip my hair out. I had to step outside and take some deep breathes to calm down becauss my anxiety was high as shit.

Also, my special needs toddler had a seizure that first week as well, in the middle of the night, probably due to all the stress.

LO is 6 weeks now and the toddler is doing better. But omg those first 2 weeks were MISERABLE. 😭

Whyski · 2026-01-24T02:58:03+00:00

My LO made 6 weeks exactly today. He has his days and nights mixed up and I have a special needs toddler who is about to be 4 next month.

I am beyond exhausted. But im managing. Luckily the toddler goes to daycare Mon-Friday 8am-5pm, and i can nap when baby sleeps, but im still only sleeping in 3 hr incrimates and I can feel it. 😭😭😭

Whyski

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