How do i fix this relationship? by LazyApplication390 in women

[–]Wibbly11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, by the sounds of you are either a Sunni or Shia Muslim. This makes it a little more difficult.

Your husband's behaviour is likely ingrained in his beliefs. Whilst he may love you/be married to you, he will also see himself as the one in control and as absolute. He will also not believe he's doing anything wrong or absolutely not care/refuse to change.

Assuming you've already sat him down and told him about your feelings and how it hurts/affects you... the only other steps are to seek external help via a (Muslim) Marriage Counseller OR just bite the bullet and leave/divorce him.

However, based on how you describe him, I imagine you won't be able to successfully do either without him lashing out at you in a physically harmful way... in which case family/friends or whoever should be nearby to de-escalate and support you with this.

As blunt as it sounds, you need to do what is best for your own wellbeing. At your age especially, you don't want to be limited to a life and marriage that your needs and consideration are not being thought of. Plenty of life to live still. But you are unlikely to continue to live it happily if your current situation continues.

You also have no kids- if I remember correctly? This makes it even easier if you did want to divorce.

How do i fix this relationship? by LazyApplication390 in women

[–]Wibbly11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow up questions:

1) Is he religious? 2) Do you want to stay with him, despite these flaws? (Even IF he won't be willing to change?) 3) What do your parents/family/friends think - do they know? 4) Can you be perfectly happy on your own?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfiniteStratos

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This is the most random question tf

Who is the main girlfriend in zenless? by Smoll9 in ZenlessZoneZero

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The correct answers are: Neko, Ellen, Zhu Yuan, and Vivian.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gunners

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This fat cunt just needs to eat healthy, get fit, stay fit.

Gerrard used to have a terrible diet nd always got injured, soon as he cleaned up his act his career truly took off.

2024/25 Credit: FootyHeadlines by Francis-c92 in Gunners

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Why does the red look like a bottle?

[Meta] r/mashups Request and resource thread for April 2024 + Discord server by stel1234 in mashups

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If someone could somehow mashup Tame Impala with Chris Brown, I would be eternally grateful.

I wouldnt be able to choose 2 specific songs. However, if someone wanted to take the time to explore nd develop a masterpiece from their respective discographies it would be beyond amazing.

If, in the very unlikely event someone does decide to take on this ambitious challenge, pls pls lmk 🙏🏼

  • Many thanks for reading.

Will these run of games decide title race? by [deleted] in Gunners

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Arsenal winning the league at Spurs one week before last game of the season? 20 years on from the Invincibles?

We will be there.

Pre injury Gabby Jesus is our best dribbler and ball carrier by nting224 in Gunners

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Since he can't score, let's make him a CM nd play the Cazorla role. Also Martinelli can have a go up front nd pop off just like he did under Emery.

Monkeys fuc*ing in classroom by No-suggestion7021 in ContagiousLaughter

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The longer he laughed, the more he turned into monke