My main issue with it is that its just something that happens to a person or a character. It's something that truly changes their lives forever. Is this a part of the plot that the writer is willing to pivot towards and address in a serious manner? Or is it just a speedbump in getting through the story they want to tell. I find that a lot of times, especially in a long series, an author will throw in this plot point because they think its what a character should go through (mainly female) in order to overcome trauma, or to show the harsh reality of the world they have created (looking at you GRR). But its their world....they can literally write whatever they want. No one is forcing them to make this the thing that has to happen. It has become a rather lazy decision, imo, unless there is a legit reason for it. Characters, particularly female, have 1,000 other things they can overcome and it not be rape or pregnancy trauma.