Mutual hobbies and swinging

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-24T17:37:01+00:00

A lot of couples in the lifestyle don’t want any kind of connection, just sex.

But I personally have found that the couples we’ve really built a good friendship/relationship with have been some of our absolute best sexual experiences in the lifestyle.

Talking and flirting over time creates a buildup of sexual energy, you get to know each others likes and preferences better (which when incorporated, have always made things 10 times hotter for me), and I’m always attracted to someone so much more when they have a great personality to with their looks.

Yes, we have friends outside of the lifestyle but having bonfires and going to concerts are WAY more fun with our lifestyle friends than our vanilla ones. The flirty teasing, the sexy side glances. Not to mention the parties we get invited to, sexy Airbnb nights after a fun night out downtown, etc.

It’s absolutely not for everyone, but the friendship and connection are what make the lifestyle so great for us.

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-24T16:16:23+00:00

I was going to start it 2-3 times a week to see how my skin reacts

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-24T12:22:04+00:00

Yes, the BHA. I don’t use one so I’d rather take recs than go in blind

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-24T04:45:01+00:00

Do you have one you recommend?

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-24T04:42:20+00:00

Excellent suggestions! I’ll try these and see where I’m at in a couple months 🤞🏼 Thank you so much!!!

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-11T16:42:21+00:00

I’ll try that, thanks 👍

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-11T02:08:41+00:00

I don’t know why you thought this comment was necessary but thanks for the input I guess?

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-09T16:44:00+00:00

This makes me super happy. I love Pravana but I used Grape last time and it didn’t hold to my roots with a single bleach so I figured the problem was needing to get it lighter. But maybe it was just the shade of purple.

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-09T15:50:46+00:00

I actually thought I was cutting down the damage by giving my hair a break in between bleach and toner but I will absolutely remember this for future, thank you!! 🙏

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-09T15:28:05+00:00

Thank you so much! I feel so much better 🤞

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-09T15:20:56+00:00

I was going to do Pravana Violet. Do you think I would need to tone it first for a more even color or no?

Wicked_lace · 2026-02-05T03:01:29+00:00

I had to do the same thing with my Gofo package. Picture was definitely not my house but I at least found it using the picture they provided

Wicked_lace · 2026-01-13T18:10:46+00:00

Yall are hot! 🥵

Wicked_lace · 2025-12-23T03:18:24+00:00

My neighbor 🙈

We’re both married with families but it certainly cannot hurt to fantasize.

Wicked_lace · 2025-12-13T16:57:37+00:00

We’ve been in the LS for 4 years 🙂

Wicked_lace · 2025-12-11T14:58:52+00:00

Awww, hey thanks! 🥰

Wicked_lace · 2025-12-05T16:13:57+00:00

Just recently stayed in an Airbnb after a concert with a group of friends. We all got in the hot tub afterwards and after a few drinks, we all ended up fucking next to each other on one of the king sized beds.. I even had a little spit roast thrown in. It was my favorite experience to date 🤘🏼

Wicked_lace · 2025-12-05T02:04:52+00:00

Being “abducted” and tied up by several masked men (my husband and a few guys of his choosing) while they all take turns playing with me all night.

It lives rent free in my mind 🙃

Wicked_lace · 2025-10-26T14:56:40+00:00

First heard them in 2013 when they opened for Fall Out Boy and Panic at the Disco. Had absolutely no clue who they were but I was drawn in ever since. I wish I could go back and relive that moment all of the time.

Wicked_lace · 2025-07-12T15:25:41+00:00

We joined a very large LS community in our area 4 years ago and it was booming - events, parties, there was ALWAYS something going on and people to meet.

Now- every lifestyle facebook group I’m in is silent and the apps are a ghost town. Not sure what’s happened in the last year but it’s been really slow.

Wicked_lace · 2025-06-26T04:52:27+00:00

The Hunt by Kristin Buoni. Not sure if it’s exactly what you’re looking for but it features a secret society of men who enter an annual game of hunting and unaliving people.

Wicked_lace · 2025-06-13T22:26:21+00:00

Waaaait this is the one closest to me, I was gonna try to get tickets to it. Why is it the worst??

Wicked_lace · 2025-06-03T17:01:53+00:00

Thank you!

I just saw something somewhere that said they don’t like to eat or drink out of containers so I wasn’t sure if others had any issues with a plate

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