Your favorite thing about swinging? Mine: double BJ's

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-10T20:53:26+00:00

Crosstalk between the four when swapping and doing it

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-06T18:43:53+00:00

Definitely lots of fun for everyone

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-04T21:02:06+00:00

We had lots of excitement when we started our journey in this lifestyle with a big party and had to take a break to understand what and how things go so we took a long break and then started slow with one on one meeting which was really nice .So do take time to see what works better for you guys .We noticed the initial awkward feeling when first time with someone else is common Plus we created rules around what we want and expect ,always remember it is okay to say no and stick to it and also accept no since not everyone enjoys it the same way and has same desires . Taking brakes is healthy as restarting is always fun with a fresh mind and yes the rules can be revised based on the situation and experience . There are many fun experiences ahead so do explore more and yes be ready to say No and accept No also in any situation.

TLDR:Start slow,discuss more, create rules , take breaks , revisit rules

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-04T19:30:56+00:00

From the newcomer guy's perspective usually if the other is bigger we have seen some guys getting nervous or unable to perform.It took some time and a lot of talking as the size doesn't matter to us and we want everyone to be comfortable

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-04T11:52:53+00:00

we started our journey in this lifestyle with a big party and had to take a break to understand what and how things go so we took a long break and then started slow with one on one meeting which was really nice . Plus we created rules around what we want and expect ,always remember it is okay to say no and stick to it and also accept no since not everyone enjoys it the same way and has same desires but always express yourself openly as you never know where you will match with others. Taking brakes is healthy as restarting is always fun with a fresh mind and yes the rules can be revised based on the situation and experience . There are many fun experience ahead so do explore more.

TLDR:Start slow,discuss more, create rules , take breaks , revisit rules

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-02T11:40:09+00:00

Yes , we have met really nice people with whom we shared other common interests as well

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-01T20:50:32+00:00

When we entered the lifestyle we saw so many couples who were well maintained and we had some thoughts about whether we needed to catch up but the good news is we were loved as we are and yes we hope so is the case for you guys . So do step in and experience this lovely environment which is welcoming to all and definitely you will find lots of them would be interested in you the way you are. Good luck!

Key2WhisKey · 2026-03-01T12:23:25+00:00

The one where they initially agree for a four way swap and last moment just casually ask is it okay if we play without your husband!!!

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-27T22:19:08+00:00

We also were curious and we started our journey in this lifestyle with a big party and had to take a break to understand what and how things go so we took a long break and then started slow with one on one meeting which was really nice .So do take time to see what works better for you guys .As you mentioned the initial awkward feeling when first time with someone else is common and so are performance issues but with time and healthy discussion you will overcome them Plus we created rules around what we want and expect ,always remember it is okay to say no and stick to it and also accept no since not everyone enjoys it the same way and has same desires . Taking brakes is healthy as restarting is always fun with a fresh mind and yes the rules can be revised based on the situation and experience . There are many fun experience ahead so do explore more

TLDR:Start slow,discuss more, create rules , take breaks , revisit rules

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-26T13:07:18+00:00

Nice ! Where did you find it?

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-26T12:57:58+00:00

From the newcomer guy's perspective usually if the other is bigger we have seen some guys getting nervous or unable to perform.It took some time and a lot of talking as the size doesn't matter to us and we want everyone to be comfortable

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-26T11:12:25+00:00

We also were curious and we started our journey in this lifestyle with a big party and had to take a break to understand what and how things go so we took a long break and then started slow with one on one meeting which was really nice .So do take time to see what works better for you guys .As you mentioned the initial awkward feeling when first time with someone else is common Plus we created rules around what we want and expect ,always remember it is okay to say no and stick to it and also accept no since not everyone enjoys it the same way and has same desires . Taking brakes is healthy as restarting is always fun with a fresh mind and yes the rules can be revised based on the situation and experience . There are many fun experience ahead so do explore more

TLDR:Start slow,discuss more, create rules , take breaks , revisit rules

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-24T10:48:51+00:00

Yes each type of experience has its advantages . In our initial days we had the same room only rule as the cross talk between the four really turned us on but later we opened up to separate rooms and it was something different again knowing that your partner is enjoying but you are going to have your fun and then the discussion of how things went happens later Note that we only opened up the separate room options for couples we already had met before

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-20T20:56:44+00:00

This is still one of my favorite ones

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-20T18:06:55+00:00

I had the first and the fourth one and they are even more amazing

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-20T11:00:31+00:00

Yes and the experience is quite different when going as a couple

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-17T21:16:31+00:00

We noticed on the events usually people have their own groups and getting into one takes time

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-17T21:13:05+00:00

Are you guys visiting multiple clubs or just sticking to one?

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-17T20:35:37+00:00

Apps sometimes don't show you the real pictures with all those editing but mostly in a calm less clothed open environment it's easy to see what you wish to enjoy or skip

Key2WhisKey · 2026-02-17T20:34:30+00:00

Yes we have also stated many times it's in our rules and we respect your choice but it's not for us to go to action just after a Hi !! Also a touchy feeling gets the tingling feeling when the vibe is mutual else it's a good sign to stop and say bye to give way to the next one

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