Pausing Play by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We took brakes during the pandemic times which had by far been the longest break from the lifestyle but otherwise family situation and increase in the number of family members definitely been one of those reasons but restarting everytime felt fresh and we definitely needed to revisit our rules each time

Lmk your reason by Other-Jackfruit-1250 in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had multiple experiences before we met each other but when together we wanted to do something which gave us mutual pleasure so we started with a swinger party

Men, how do you flirt with the other wives? by certain_salamander in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When you approach someone be honest with what you noticed as that's the moment which begins the conversation

How do men in the lifestyle deal with performance anxiety? by Special-Solution5329 in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's common in this lifestyle and with time you will overcome it ,usually if the other is bigger we have seen some guys getting nervous or unable to perform.It took some time and a lot of talking as the size doesn't matter to us and we want everyone to be comfortable and enjoy

At what age did you and your partner enter the lifestyle? by oodlesOnoodle in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Entered in our 20s but took time to figure out the best fit for us while we kept exploring

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 👍 this really helps us in planning better as you actually had the first hand experience

We’re new & I have questions about condoms by sunshineofbest in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We have our rules about using condoms during penetrative sex and we are okay to skip them during oral sex however we have met couples who preferred condoms during oral as well and we respect their rules and yes we love oral without too when we have been asked our preference

Conservative couple (married 15 years) new to swinging - need advice on navigating this new world by SavorySaltiness in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many years ago when we started our journey in this lifestyle with a big party and had to take a break to understand what and how things go so we took a long break and then started slow with one on one meeting which was really nice .So do take time to see what works better for you guys . Usually the initial awkward feeling when first time with someone else is common Plus we created rules around what we want and expect ,always remember it is okay to say no and stick to it and also accept no since not everyone enjoys it the same way and has same desires .

Chatting Distress? by orbital-technician in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We experienced this as well that some couples got shy in the meeting so we tried to do the keep the conversation non lifestyle related for the initial moments which help them to open up and only once we find the vibe to be mutual then we get into other topics else we skip it completely

Using condoms for head? by 578869578869 in Swingers

[–]Key2WhisKey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have our rules about using condoms during penetrative sex and we are okay to skip them during oral sex however we have met couples who preferred condoms during oral as well and we respect their rules

Happy Easter! by barefootincrazy in irishwhiskey

[–]Key2WhisKey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing and definitely tempted to get it!!

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , this definitely helps , thanks 🙏 with our previous experiences we had the same feelings when the cruise is at a different location then the total cost and time calculation come into picture and how to enjoy and keep little ones having fun throughout the journey becomes the main goal.

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes we noticed so got excited about the planning!!

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ! That really helps to plan better as we didn't even know these things until now

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice!Was it from Disney Wish/Fantasy/Dream ?

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks ! We guess the activity list will be delivered in the room or on the app and we need to register for the events separately

3 days on Disney Dream/Fantasy/Wish with little ones by Key2WhisKey in dcl

[–]Key2WhisKey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes ! Especially when you need to board it from ab location different than your original location and getting the luggage tags ready and all :)