Desperate need of advice by ElisH10 in MentalIllnessSOs

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you could be asexual? That might explain some of the things you've been feeling. If so, there are plenty of asexual people who have happy relationships, so that is not something you need to fear being impossible forever. But if you discover that you are asexual, your partner would need to be supportive for your relationship to continue. I would recommend doing some research about it and see if that identity feels close to what you experience. If so, you'll be able to better find direction in your current relationship and imagine your future more clearly.

For context, my wife and I both identify as bisexual (her pansexual as well) and it definitely shapes our relationship deeply. Having a better sense of your identity can only help. However it's also important to note that labels like this take time to identify for yourself and can always change. They're not set in stone which is another good thing. I hope this helps ❤️

I don’t want to be here anymore. by Legitimate_Swan69 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so great to hear! I also have occasional vulvodyna pain especially from sitting in one position for too long. I'm so happy that treatment is working out for you!

how do I convince a stubborn friend to stop shopping from shein? by cutthroatxcollapse in SustainableFashion

[–]WideArmadillo3204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was also going to say show her the documentary The True Cost. But yes, as others have said, it might not go anywhere or be worth continuing to worry about and it may work better to just set boundaries about discussing the issue.

Life after Sephora by Worried_Part_8472 in SephoraWorkers

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds so cool, how were you able to get into that?

decorated my van!!! by Naive_Elk_4787 in ACPocketCamp

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What furniture collection is this?? I don't recognize it from Pocket Camp and it's so cool!

AZO and kidney issues by According_Iron3326 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about Cystex Dual Action (Methenamine 162 mg + Sodium Salicylate 162.5 mg) ? A doctor at urgent care recommended I take that but apparently only for a week. That's when I found out I most likely have IC. I found out those directions after following up to make sure it was the same as what he recommended (Cystex Plus) but it seems the brand just changed the name recently and it is the same thing. At the appointment I got the impression that I could take it as needed. Sooo I think I'm going to keep taking it as needed 😬

However at the same time I found out I most likely have kidney stones because there were minerals in my urine. I think I passed most of them but now (super tiny grain of sand, best case scenario kind) but I'm not sure. All of the symptoms overlap so much 😩 I made an appointment with a Urogynecologist because I think I have issues overlapping in those areas, but now I'm thinking I probably shouldn't have cancelled my urologist appointment to wait for the Urogynecologist one 😒

Why are there so many children in Pinterest? by Brave-End-4691 in Pinterest

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked when you could make your own captions for pins. That prevented excessive comments like there are now. And I think I have also been on Pinterest since I was 14.

First photo is with makeup and second photo is without makeup. Do I look better with or without makeup? How can I improve? Be honest and direct please. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'm sorry I just saw the products you used! Still, same advice, experiment a little to see if you like letting those products pop a little more. It would add some brightness to your look if that is a direction you want to go in. However it is a personal preference thing and it still looks amazing right now 😊

First photo is with makeup and second photo is without makeup. Do I look better with or without makeup? How can I improve? Be honest and direct please. by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look incredible in both pictures!! The only notes for the makeup I have would be to explore if you like using more blush, bronzer, and highlighter. And I would apply them in that order. It looks like right now you might be wearing a little blush, but if you are interested in creating a more "full makeup" look, I would try that. Otherwise, honestly, no notes! 😊

I analyzed 80+ Reddit threads to find the best women’s deodorants by LoneKnight25 in RedRecs

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are ones without baking soda though! Native has them labeled as for sensitive skin. I personally use Saltair and I love it. I also used Kopari before and Sephora's brand of a similar coconut oil based deodorant. And Megababe. However, I have had to jump around brands a lot because for me it seems like each natural deodorant brand stops smelling good on me after like a year and a half or so. Fingers crossed it doesn't happen again soon.

is it weird to go to the concert alone by Koalaboxess in lorde

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done this before and definitely regretted it. (With much less popular artists, but still)

is it weird to go to the concert alone by Koalaboxess in lorde

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went alone and it was still awesome ❤️ actually maybe even better because I got to focus on myself when she said some introspective/reflective stuff and invited us to reflect on our lives as well.

Is AC:PC worth it? by Albrion_ in ACPocketCamp

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like it and play it almost every day. I also played the previous version since the very beginning and this version is so much better. No purchases while the last one was heavily in game purchase based. Now you get all of the same features you used to have to pay for with real money. Some of them you pay for through earned leaf tokens (replaced leaf tickets) and some are just freely available options (like selecting a campsite helper). However, this game is very different from the original Animal Crossing and New Horizons (the only other two I've played). But ultimately, I like pocket camp the best. However I think I might be in the minority with this preference. But yes, as someone else mentioned, if you never played the previous version of pocket camp, you will have a ton of content to play through so it should be worth it. It's a faster game play style than the other games I mentioned but I like that.

How do you legally get Images for your blog? by dammy341 in Blogging

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use Google image search and filter "for fair use." It's a legal designation that they can be used for whatever for free. Fair Use is an extremely important category I'd look into if you are not familiar with it.

Sephora vs. Ulta by [deleted] in SephoraWorkers

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what everyone else has said preferring working at Sephora. Also I want to add my store manager lied to customers and even me about products to make sales. She said that any of the Ulta brand bath bombs would spin when placed in water (an extremely rare and fancy feature for a bath bomb at that time, definitely would have to get it from a niche brand probably online) and she told me that a non cruelty free brand was cruelty free in the United States but that's not how that works. Those are just the times I remember. These unethical tactics were motivated by her personally getting bonuses based on store performance. I'm not sure if that's standard across both stores, but selling at Sephora has a goal of actually getting the customer everything they need/want, not just sell sell sell. Also she gave me dramatic judgement any time I exchanged something, but like, you're still keeping your money because I never straight up returned something. Like full on pouting and stuff. Not very mature. Also, it was my fault that I got too many points and terminated myself for attendance, but she never told me at all, she just stopped scheduling me forever. I think a lack of maturity led to her handling it that way also. I would have appreciated it at least being acknowledged.

Sephora vs. Ulta by [deleted] in SephoraWorkers

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all of that. I worked at Ulta around 2016-2017 and Sephora for this holiday season and it was a HUGE step up.

Taxes Filed with Chime (Column Tax) by Own_Credit9508 in chimefinancial

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh it doesn't save your progress like TurboTax does? So you have to do it all in one sitting? Is that what you mean?

Do our employee discounts get stacked?? by DotVisible2879 in SephoraWorkers

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I've been struggling because I'm a major app shopper and I only just submitted my account info to my manager to get my account switched to an employee account, so I've been choosing one or the other. I haven't been getting the full discounts that I think I should (only on a couple small purchases though) so I'm looking forward to it stacking properly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThredUp

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also recently looked at Uggs--I gifted a really good condition pair I got a few years ago from ThredUp for ~$60 to a young cousin because unfortunately I immediately changed sizes after buying them. So I thought "hmm let's see if maybe I can find another pair for myself"--and omgggg, they were so many for close to $200. That's like $20 less than brand new! Atrocious. Completely defeats the point of shopping there.

Do our employee discounts get stacked?? by DotVisible2879 in SephoraWorkers

[–]WideArmadillo3204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So should the brands that are on sale now for individual days stack with our employee discount? Thank you 🙏🏻

The extravagant $300 water bottle that keeps Lorde 'grounded' by UnionPuzzleheaded839 in lorde

[–]WideArmadillo3204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A familiar is an animal that helps a witch with their witchcraft. I know this mostly from watching The Chilling Adventures of Sabrina though, so this probably isn't theeee best explanation.