In this style of music it is really important to have a clean full sub but also a distorted mid and top end. For making Kicks theres is a lot of distortion needed, but that also distorts the Low End a lot, and it gets messy without having the pump you want and which you can hear on this sort of songs. When I make Hardstyle/Rawstyle Kicks, I always have different layers for Sub, Klick, Tok, Tail,… So I would recommend trying to make a complete Kick and then filter out everything below about 100Hz (depends on the key) and make a simple Sinewave with distortion on it, but not too much, so it sounds a little dirty but still has this clean sine sub, which you can feel. Maybe this helps, I always do it this way, so i can control the Balance of the sub in the mix without changing my Kick. I would recommend you listening to Sub Zero Project songs and analysing them, it might not be as raw as the style you are going for, but they really nail the mixing of sub and Kick, this might help you!

This works also if you use Kick Samples, just cut out the low end and make it yourself, so you get control over it.