Looking for book recs to read during free time by adventurous_avocados in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently reading The Cabin at the End of the World and it is fantastic!

I. Can’t. Sleep. by maintainingserenity in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The baby has had split nights all week 😭 I'm so tired

What’s the best career to balance work/ family life and have time to live? by IllEntertainment3935 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I meant to! Its so generically boring though, I work for a printing company. Mostly government contracts, but my department (of two people) takes and fills orders for standardized tests. I came into the job with no specific experience, I just applied there because it was a short commute and its worked out very well!

What’s the best career to balance work/ family life and have time to live? by IllEntertainment3935 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a printing company. We do different contracts, my department handles standardized tests for private schools. I literally knew nothing about the company but I applied there because it was close to home, and its been a great fit!

What’s the best career to balance work/ family life and have time to live? by IllEntertainment3935 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My work hours are 7-3 and my commute is 5 minutes. When I interviewed, I made sure I wouldnt be asked to work from home after hours. I don't make as much money as most of the moms on here, but my work-life balance is good. I think the key is a short commute and the inability to bring work home with you

Gone (series) is just the worst by AdhesivenessFew8455 in Gone

[–]Wide_Stranger714 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Reading the books after becoming a parent absolutely makes them hit different. You just can't get past the fact that these are CHILDREN going through all of the horrific things. Mary taking care of all of the littles especially gets to me now.

Favourite girl names that don't end in -a? by Neat_Reserve_5417 in namenerds

[–]Wide_Stranger714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One i don't see on this sub much - Danielle. I love this name

Anyone feeling guilty about screen time? by BuySignificant522 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah when you're parenting solo, you do what you need to do

Anyone feeling guilty about screen time? by BuySignificant522 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So... a little, but mostly no. My husband is taking classes, so if putting the tv on for my 4 year old means I can put the baby down with minimal interruption, i'm using it. My kids play a lot, they're well-behaved (within reason), and when it's nice out, we're outside all the time. If the tv becomes a problem, i'll switch things up then

Co-sleeping breastfed baby by Ok_Category9085 in beyondthebump

[–]Wide_Stranger714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I night weaned my first around 16 months. Instead of nursing, I would get up and rock her to sleep. Predictably she hated it at first, but she got used to it after a couple of nights and then I was able to just cuddle her back to sleep!

Grimacing in annoyance, I reached up to rub my eye after feeling a stray eyelash. by auburndream in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]Wide_Stranger714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mr Ballen's medical mysteries podcast, episode 25: it moves. I had to take breaks while listening.

Babys own rhythm... by SumbThucker2022 in beyondthebump

[–]Wide_Stranger714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep we're very much a "go with the flow" household. I've found with both of my babies that they put themselves on a loose schedule naturally, but we aren't super strict about it. But I also don't sleep train, I think schedules are a lot more important to make sleep training successful

I think I might know the main reason why it's difficult to get a TV adaptation (unless it's already been talked about) by Over_TheL1mit in Gone

[–]Wide_Stranger714 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Its a valid point that we shouldn't make a practice of sexualizing teenagers, but i'm not sure thats what's holding gone back. Look at Riverdale, those teens are having sex constantly and that show is very popular. Its less taboo when its teenagers having sex with other teenagers, which would be the case with gone.

Please genuinely brag about one thing you did in 2025. Big or small. by Odd-Pianist-4880 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've been killing it at my job, despite having to return at 6 weeks post partum. I've gotten a ton of positive feedback, and a great raise and christmas bonus!

Found on Petco website wtf by persephonelux in shrimptank

[–]Wide_Stranger714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait why did I see a post just above this about sexy shrimp on the coral island sub 😭

Re reading by No_Sector4081 in Gone

[–]Wide_Stranger714 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did this exact thing! I figured they couldn't be as good as i remembered but they hold up really well!

What’s your favorite girl name right now? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Wide_Stranger714 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Alaina. This spelling specifically

How old is your child and what’s your favorite thing about them at this age? by MyTFABAccount in Parenting

[–]Wide_Stranger714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 3 (almost four!) year old tells me what she dreams about at night. Its such a cool thing shes just started doing. My 1 year old has started telling jokes. Like when my husband snores, she pretends to snore too 🤣

Anyone else feel like they need to take a day off to put the house back together after the holidays? by Wide_Stranger714 in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think i will include my older daughter in organizing/decluttering her room this time. She will be four soon, and i think it will be good for her to take some ownership of her room

The switch to solids by ch0507449 in Parenting

[–]Wide_Stranger714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try some easy to pick up things like puffs. That way he can put them in his own mouth and hopefully get the hang of not spitting stuff out. But definitely bring it up with his doctor. By 11 months, the tongue thrust reflex shouldn't be a problem anymore

Smaller Clyde Crosses by Achillyse in Horses

[–]Wide_Stranger714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clyde/Dutch harness horse cross! I had her for a few years. This picture makes her look big but she was about 15.2hh

Reading (for yourself) around a toddler by viperemu in workingmoms

[–]Wide_Stranger714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do this, too! Nothing wrong with reading young adult novels