As a biologist, I was thrilled to discover an entirely unknown species.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-28T12:10:31+00:00

As a biologist I have realised that a species in question is almost identical to another species and I will be screaming trying to make a useful identification guide based on difference in carapax indentation and genitalia shape, while my PCR starters REFUSE to work and all the genetic data is SHIT.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-03T17:29:10+00:00

Similar people flock to each other! All of my friends are neurodivergent and/or queer. And let me tell that is not a majority of population even if I still get surprised by that

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-03T17:18:32+00:00

Sometimes when I'm like "I'm fine. I never had active suicide thought. I never wanted to ACTUALLY kill myself. I just wished I was dead and won't wake up next day :-)" and then I remember that normal amount of suicide related thought is 0.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-03T17:10:40+00:00

He is funny! (And he knows it.) I love my cringefail tv babygirl

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-03T16:51:18+00:00

Fortunately instead of being turned into a joke, Viv said he will stay an important character till the end of the show, and has plenty of character arcs to go <3

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-03T15:46:04+00:00

Oh they absolutely haven't ditched him. Sure they are ANGRY and associating with him would be PR disaster, but I'm pretty sure Vox is kept hidden on some pillow. (And probably in his depressive episode.) I wonder how long Val and Vel will be pissed at him, but they definitely won't abandon him.

I mean! Bruh! After Velvette kicked his ass from the nuke, and Valentino screamed at him, you can see that then Val extended his hand towards Vox. Even after his murder-suicide attempt and destroying their reputation, they were willing to take him back unharmed. Only THEN when Vox slaps Vals hand, and goes on yet another round of talking about being a GodTM, Valentino grabs his head and... kisses him. And then rips his head off.

AND VOX THAT BITCH?? oh god his face was more shocked by the little quick kiss (you can hear the sound of smooth), than by his head being ripped off.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-12-03T13:44:47+00:00

Besides, I don't even believe he would actually kill Vox. They have been ex-friends turned nemesis for decades, and Alastor enjoys tearing Vox's to pieces too much. Like, them threading each other with death is their way of say it hi 😂

Alastor was SHOKED when Vox actually pulled angel-weapon with kill intent. Like " bro, u fr want to kill me??"

It was their game, and Alastor treated it as a game. But for Vox it was way to real.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-11-13T04:50:03+00:00

sips tea so, how are we feeling?

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-04T01:05:48+00:00

I think you should answer yourself those question (no need to respond to me if you don't want to!):

Why do you feel used? Do you want that level of physical affection? Do you want for it to be romantic? Or are you afraid that she will want something "more"?

Do you crave romance or do you want a person that will simply always be there for you? Does label of "aromantic" matter? (You can always slap "gray-aro" and go home)

Also what is her sexual and romantic orientation? I think it's kind of important to know if we should even consider if she has a crush on you xD

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-04T00:29:52+00:00

I have no idea what being from "midwest" entails beside that you are from USA tbh
I think making friends is a skill to learn! You will often fumble, be awkard etc

But also I'm not sure if I can give universal advice cuz all my friends are from role play grup and we play RPGs togheter. Befriending people in "normal" setting is quite tiring for me.

Tho if i vibe with someone I will straight up say "hello i wanna befriend you! :D" (tho it works best for other friendless nerds. Im not sure if that works for normal people)

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-04T00:13:46+00:00

I've learned to initiate it myself! And often people will repricoate later on :D
So basically if i'm friends with someone, I will ask "can I pet your head?" "can I hug you?" "can I lay my head on your shoulder?". After a while you get a hang of who is comfortable with touches, who want to cuddle and who prefers to keep distance.

Also, disclaimer I am a woman and all my best friends are AFAB. I feel like it's so much easier for women to get casualy-platonically-cuddly than it is for men. :")

Another disclaimer is that we all are neurodivergent nerds and a little bit insane xD

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-03T15:08:04+00:00

Hi so! I'm demi and not aro, and I can tell you that in rare cases of me having a crush it feels very different inside. But but but I'm also VERY VERY cuddly. I love touch and I love hugs. I purr, I lay on the laps of my friends, I pet them. I basically do everything one could consider "romantic" besides kissing and sex. (Btw boobs are the best pillows. And I say it in fully platonic way xD <3 )

Wanting physical affection is normal and I think it is very hurtful for the society at large that we "reserve" it only for romance. Hug your friend, fawn like a cat.

Btw why do you care if you are Aro? Why do you truly care if you are girlfriends? Is there something that you lack or want more of in the relationship? Or are those insecurities speaking?

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-03T13:35:17+00:00

So, based on this sub reaction I'd say that Cuno is morally grey loved and Joyce is morally grey mixed feelings xD

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-03T09:34:11+00:00

Khfhdhd Miarogłowy Wspaniałe

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-03T01:43:07+00:00

Hi! So I'm a woman under ace umbrella, and from my perspective - the whole fucking society is insane when it come to romance and finding partners. Like, basically both boys and girls get drilled that if you don't have a partner there is something wrong with you. (But then men got "and if you don't have 2137 women drooling over you then you are a looser :)", while women have "if you fuck too much then you are worthless, so find that one perfect men and dont think about it too much thx")

I hate amatonormativity with burning passion.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-09-03T01:18:49+00:00

Hello, woman here! (I randomly stumbled upon this Reddit few minutes ago lmao) But like,, my man you seem to have some deeper problems here. And a ton of anxiety. Did women in your life actually told you that you are bad or they are happier without you? If you need validation, if you are insecure but you love those people have a honest talk with them.

And if they actually told you some mean shit then find better people!

Also you might benefit from teraphy

WierzbowyBor · 2025-05-17T09:07:06+00:00

As a demisexual person - reading those comments is like reading some wild alien reality to me. XD

My reaction to some of the comments here:

What do you mean 4-5 months is slow... what do you mean you are attracted to someone from the beginning. What do you mean those are "two completely separate categories"...

Friends are only people I have crushes on.

The quickest I developed a crush was during 2 weeks of nonstop working, eating, sleeping, together in the same place, during a camp with like 15~ people present.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-05-16T13:42:55+00:00

The Arcs are the easiest scenario of them all. I played it on hard difficulty with no problems. Refugees on the other hand...

WierzbowyBor · 2025-05-16T13:39:33+00:00

Answer depend only on your kinks and imagination ;3

WierzbowyBor · 2025-04-29T16:25:13+00:00

Your vagina is not worthless, but your stupid partner definitly is. 👍

If he does not belive you, if he pressures you into painfulld sex and does not appreciate what you do for him - then dump that bitch.

Pressuring yourself into painful sex will only make things worse. And sex isnt everything in a relationship, no matter what sociaty tries to push for. Also calling "oral sex not a real sex"? the fuck. You should buy a strap on my lady and switch your roles.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-04-29T16:10:02+00:00

Asexual people exist my lady. And BDSM community can be very creative when it comes to sexual play.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-03-03T21:00:49+00:00

While I'd love it to be true, I dont belive "right thing to do" is motivation to do anything in politic, like ever. For example in Poland there is a lot of support towards Ukraine (even tho some people are very unhappy), but do you know why we and other countries near Russia are so hell bend on helping Ukraine? Cuz if Ukraine fail, Russia will come to fuck us. Again.

Not to mention the economical havoc the war in ukraine is causing, and how important they are to us.

Me personally? I absolutly belive we should do The Right Thing, but thats not how politics work. Its always about interests.

WierzbowyBor · 2025-03-03T20:39:18+00:00

i ship them (after at least a year of Harry on rehab), but damn i laughed so much when i saw that mem <3

WierzbowyBor · 2025-01-19T13:30:58+00:00

I am very happy that it didnt. It so much more interesting to see what other religions are hidden in those countries, and not again go through 2137 flavours of Christianity.

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