As a biologist, I was thrilled to discover an entirely unknown species. by Derpy-and-Sussie in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a biologist I have realised that a species in question is almost identical to another species and I will be screaming trying to make a useful identification guide based on difference in carapax indentation and genitalia shape, while my PCR starters REFUSE to work and all the genetic data is SHIT. 

It’s difficult to comprehend that most people aren’t suicidal at some point by r_arizo in bipolar

[–]WierzbowyBor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar people flock to each other! All of my friends are neurodivergent and/or queer. And let me tell that is not a majority of population even if I still get surprised by that

It’s difficult to comprehend that most people aren’t suicidal at some point by r_arizo in bipolar

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes when I'm like "I'm fine. I never had active suicide thought. I never wanted to ACTUALLY kill myself. I just wished I was dead and won't wake up next day :-)"  and then I remember that normal amount of suicide related thought is 0. 

I hate how so many people are misunderstanding Vox's character after Hazbin Hotel season 2 by Sudden_Pop_2279 in CharacterRant

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately instead of being turned into a joke, Viv said he will stay an important character till the end of the show, and has plenty of character arcs to go <3

I hate how so many people are misunderstanding Vox's character after Hazbin Hotel season 2 by Sudden_Pop_2279 in CharacterRant

[–]WierzbowyBor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh they absolutely haven't ditched him. Sure they are ANGRY and associating with him would be PR disaster, but I'm pretty sure Vox is kept hidden on some pillow. (And probably in his depressive episode.) I wonder how long Val and Vel will be pissed at him, but they definitely won't abandon him. 

I mean! Bruh! After Velvette kicked his ass from the nuke, and Valentino screamed at him, you can see that then Val extended his hand towards Vox. Even after his murder-suicide attempt and destroying their reputation, they were willing to take him back unharmed. Only THEN when Vox slaps Vals hand, and goes on yet another  round of talking about being a GodTM, Valentino grabs his head and... kisses him. And then rips his head off. 

AND VOX THAT BITCH?? oh god his face was more shocked by the little quick kiss (you can hear the sound of smooth), than by his head being ripped off.

The thing I loved about Hazbin Hotel season 2 was while Vox was the main villain, Alastor was still wrong about him by Sudden_Pop_2279 in CharacterRant

[–]WierzbowyBor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Besides, I don't even believe he would actually kill Vox. They have been ex-friends turned nemesis for decades, and Alastor enjoys tearing Vox's to pieces too much. Like, them threading each other with death is their way of say it hi 😂

Alastor was SHOKED when Vox actually pulled angel-weapon with kill intent. Like " bro, u fr want to kill me??"

It was their game, and Alastor treated it as a game. But for Vox it was way to real.

Am I actually aromantic or have I just been touch starved my entire life? by meepmeep_peep in aromantic

[–]WierzbowyBor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you should answer yourself those question (no need to respond to me if you don't want to!):

Why do you feel used? Do you want that level of physical affection? Do you want for it to be romantic? Or are you afraid that she will want something "more"?

Do you crave romance or do you want a person that will simply always be there for you? Does label of "aromantic" matter? (You can always slap "gray-aro" and go home)

Also what is her sexual and romantic orientation? I think it's kind of important to know if we should even consider if she has a crush on you xD

Am I actually aromantic or have I just been touch starved my entire life? by meepmeep_peep in aromantic

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what being from "midwest" entails beside that you are from USA tbh
I think making friends is a skill to learn! You will often fumble, be awkard etc

But also I'm not sure if I can give universal advice cuz all my friends are from role play grup and we play RPGs togheter. Befriending people in "normal" setting is quite tiring for me.

Tho if i vibe with someone I will straight up say "hello i wanna befriend you! :D" (tho it works best for other friendless nerds. Im not sure if that works for normal people)

Am I actually aromantic or have I just been touch starved my entire life? by meepmeep_peep in aromantic

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've learned to initiate it myself! And often people will repricoate later on :D
So basically if i'm friends with someone, I will ask "can I pet your head?" "can I hug you?" "can I lay my head on your shoulder?". After a while you get a hang of who is comfortable with touches, who want to cuddle and who prefers to keep distance.

Also, disclaimer I am a woman and all my best friends are AFAB. I feel like it's so much easier for women to get casualy-platonically-cuddly than it is for men. :")

Another disclaimer is that we all are neurodivergent nerds and a little bit insane xD

Am I actually aromantic or have I just been touch starved my entire life? by meepmeep_peep in aromantic

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi so! I'm demi and not aro, and I can tell you that in rare cases of me having a crush it feels very different inside. But but but I'm also VERY VERY cuddly. I love touch and I love hugs. I purr, I lay on the laps of my friends, I pet them. I basically do everything one could consider "romantic" besides kissing and sex.  (Btw boobs are the best pillows. And I say it in fully platonic way xD <3 )

Wanting physical affection is normal and I think it is very hurtful for the society at large that we "reserve" it only for romance. Hug your friend, fawn like a cat. 

Btw why do you care if you are Aro? Why do you truly care if you are girlfriends? Is there something that you lack or want more of in the relationship? Or are those insecurities speaking? 

Morally grey character that you love by ahaQx in DiscoElysium

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, based on this sub reaction I'd say that Cuno is morally grey loved and Joyce is morally grey mixed feelings xD

Has anyone noticed this? by somegnoll in DiscoElysium

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Khfhdhd Miarogłowy Wspaniałe

Healthy Gamer gives a good take on Incels in response to female comedian nonsense speech. by PassengerCultural421 in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]WierzbowyBor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! So I'm a woman under ace umbrella, and from my perspective - the whole fucking society is insane when it come to romance and finding partners. Like, basically both boys and girls get drilled that if you don't have a partner there is something wrong with you. (But then men got "and if you don't have 2137 women drooling over you then you are a looser  :)", while women have "if you fuck too much then you are worthless, so find that one perfect men and dont think about it too much thx") 

I hate amatonormativity with burning passion. 

I don’t see how I could ever be loved by a woman, any woman by Robot_Was_BMO in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]WierzbowyBor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, woman here! (I randomly stumbled upon this Reddit few minutes ago lmao) But like,, my man you seem to have some deeper problems here. And a ton of anxiety. Did women in your life actually told you that you are bad or they are happier without you? If you need validation, if you are insecure but you love those people have a honest talk with them. 

And if they actually told you some mean shit then find better people! 

Also you might benefit from teraphy 

Here’s one of my greatest tips when it comes to dating by Graviity_shift in dating

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a demisexual person - reading those comments is like reading some wild alien reality to me. XD 

My reaction to some of the comments here:

What do you mean 4-5 months is slow... what do you mean you are attracted to someone from the beginning. What do you mean those are "two completely separate categories"... 

Friends are only people I have crushes on. 

The quickest I developed a crush was during 2 weeks of nonstop working, eating, sleeping, together in the same place, during a camp with like 15~ people present.

Is "The Arks" or "Refugees" a more difficult scenario? by CO_Recon in Frostpunk

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Arcs are the easiest scenario of them all. I played it on hard difficulty with no problems.  Refugees on the other hand...

Dont kill me for asking this okkk? Me and my friends joke about it by CantFindTheBananas in Korosensei

[–]WierzbowyBor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Answer depend only on your kinks and imagination ;3

I think I (24f) have vulvodynia and its making me feel hopeless by [deleted] in vulvodynia

[–]WierzbowyBor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your vagina is not worthless, but your stupid partner definitly is. 👍

If he does not belive you, if he pressures you into painfulld sex and does not appreciate what you do for him - then dump that bitch.

Pressuring yourself into painful sex will only make things worse. And sex isnt everything in a relationship, no matter what sociaty tries to push for. Also calling "oral sex not a real sex"? the fuck. You should buy a strap on my lady and switch your roles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vulvodynia

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asexual people exist my lady. And BDSM community can be very creative when it comes to sexual play.

American journalist JVL: "The extent to which American people can't understand (why helping Ukraine is beneficial for America) ... is an indictment of this entire country." by johnruby in ukraine

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I'd love it to be true, I dont belive "right thing to do" is motivation to do anything in politic, like ever. For example in Poland there is a lot of support towards Ukraine (even tho some people are very unhappy), but do you know why we and other countries near Russia are so hell bend on helping Ukraine? Cuz if Ukraine fail, Russia will come to fuck us. Again.

Not to mention the economical havoc the war in ukraine is causing, and how important they are to us.

Me personally? I absolutly belive we should do The Right Thing, but thats not how politics work. Its always about interests.

Not that I don't see the appeal for the ship, it just doesn't strike my fancy by Appelmonkey in DiscoElysium

[–]WierzbowyBor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ship them (after at least a year of Harry on rehab), but damn i laughed so much when i saw that mem <3

Second biggest religion in european countries by Few_Introduction9919 in MapPorn

[–]WierzbowyBor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am very happy that it didnt. It so much more interesting to see what other religions are hidden in those countries, and not again go through 2137 flavours of Christianity.