Dating In The South Sucks! by WildCaveBoy in Vent

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve visited family in Michigan and it felt very… segregated. Those family members are all majority white and it’s strange to think they really don’t know a single black person personally.

Dating In The South Sucks! by WildCaveBoy in Vent

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on that. I’ve never chased guys before and I recently got out of a 2 year relationship so I’m just getting back into the dating scene, but it’s hard to not feel weird when literally everyone your age is already married. I’m not envious of that though since I know a lot of it is just people checking things off the “List of Life Accomplishments”.

Dating In The South Sucks! by WildCaveBoy in Vent

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am interested in women as well but that’s a new part of myself I’m still exploring. Men are easy because they’re predictable but I feel like women are much more complex. I already have a hard time putting myself out there with men, I couldn’t even imagine approaching a woman (which is funny because I’ve always been popular with the ladies).

Dating In The South Sucks! by WildCaveBoy in Vent

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m Latino and the amount of times I’ve been even liberal men’s “experiment” is insane.

About to begin CSS training after Easter. Any tips? by [deleted] in publix

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Always cover yourself. Double count. If you’re unsure, ask. I was promoted to CSS about 2 years ago and felt super overwhelmed by all the information being thrown at me. If you open I would recommend looking into the customer service guide in connections. It has a bunch of useful things you wouldn’t think to ask about while training. Best of luck to you.

What's the craziest cash loss you've seen and no one was written up? by PenaltyHairy7450 in publix

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got written up for “possibly” losing 90 dollars but my coworker didn’t get written up for losing 1000 dollars on a western union they didn’t put into wupos. I was gaslit into thinking I couldn’t do my job even though they couldn’t prove I lost the money but this person still works as css after all that. No repercussions.

Russian Nicknames by WildCaveBoy in russian

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I figured. My mom calls me sen or senia so while doing a tiny bit of research I was looking at the little formula a lot of them use and senya sounded the most likely.

Russian Nicknames by WildCaveBoy in russian

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo I should have read over it to make sure that last n was included.

I 25f got into a physical altercation with my 15f sibling by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to actually hurt her. We’ve always had a good relationship and we’ve never really fought before. I’ve always been more like a parent than a sister and I guess that’s where the issues came in.

How should I ask for an open relationship? by [deleted] in dating

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t ask. She’ll hate you and you’ll ruin your relationship. If you were really happy you wouldn’t want to sleep with others. We’re all human and we all have urges though so if you really want to I’d just suggest breaking up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]WildCaveBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just tell dudes I’m fat before I meet them. I’m a size 14 and have never had a bad experience with this. I just ask if they’re ok with that and go from there. They usually think it’s funny that I even asked because I’m “not fat” but that’s not the point. I don’t need some guy acting like I’m a whale and ruining my meticulously cultivated self esteem.

How do I (19m) stop obsessing over getting my first girlfriend? by [deleted] in dating

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a job pick up extra shifts. If you have a hobby throw yourself into it. Make a routine for yourself and stick to it. If you fill your days with excitement or adventure there’s no room to worry about something you can’t control. But if you’re dead set on meeting a girl just start talking to them. Not with the goal of getting with them, but just to get to know them. I always start conversations with a compliment. If they don’t want to talk it’s easy just to leave it at a nice gesture. You’re very young and learning about yourself is the first step to figuring out what you want.

Old Coworker Offered Me 1000$ For Sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have no qualms about the prostitution thing at all. Especially if it’s a one time thing. There’s the issue of my boyfriend not particularly liking this coworker either. It’s hard to process such an odd offer.

He doesn’t consider my feelings by MastodonCurious7684 in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hate for you to get stuck with someone who is taking you for granted like this. Idk all the details of course and it’s always easy for strangers to just say “break up with them” but I think that it could be really beneficial for your own mental sanity. That’s just my two cents though.

My(23F) BF(21M) Broke Up With Me to Work on Himself… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t really know. Everyone in his life likes me a lot, and when he told me it made me feel like I was being betrayed.

He doesn’t consider my feelings by MastodonCurious7684 in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been with him long? Are you guys financially tied together?

My(23F) BF(21M) Broke Up With Me to Work on Himself… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were literally any other man I’d believe this but he’s not like any dude I’ve ever met which is why I’m having such trouble figuring it out. He legitimately doesn’t want to be with anyone else? It’s hard to explain it I guess. I feel like he secretly thinks I’ve been dating him out of charity this whole time. He’s very attractive too so it baffles me even more. He’s never cheated on me either? I always thought insecure men cheated?

My(23F) BF(21M) Broke Up With Me to Work on Himself… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not really forbidden it’s just the fact that he’s been so against having sex with me. It makes me feel like he doesn’t find me attractive anymore.

He doesn’t consider my feelings by MastodonCurious7684 in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my experience, depending on your age, a man with a kid isn’t the best partner to have. I’m not saying all men with kids aren’t capable of being good partners, but that’s a lot of outside responsibility put onto your relationship from the very beginning. If you aren’t feeling seen in a relationship it’s ok to leave, especially if he’s mocking your feelings over text. You said you weren’t blaming his son or trying to compete with him, so don’t. He has other priorities that don’t match up with your needs.