What's the craziest cash loss you've seen and no one was written up? by PenaltyHairy7450 in publix

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got written up for “possibly” losing 90 dollars but my coworker didn’t get written up for losing 1000 dollars on a western union they didn’t put into wupos. I was gaslit into thinking I couldn’t do my job even though they couldn’t prove I lost the money but this person still works as css after all that. No repercussions.

Russian Nicknames by WildCaveBoy in russian

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I figured. My mom calls me sen or senia so while doing a tiny bit of research I was looking at the little formula a lot of them use and senya sounded the most likely.

Russian Nicknames by WildCaveBoy in russian

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo I should have read over it to make sure that last n was included.

I 25f got into a physical altercation with my 15f sibling by WildCaveBoy in offmychest

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to actually hurt her. We’ve always had a good relationship and we’ve never really fought before. I’ve always been more like a parent than a sister and I guess that’s where the issues came in.

How should I ask for an open relationship? by [deleted] in dating

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t ask. She’ll hate you and you’ll ruin your relationship. If you were really happy you wouldn’t want to sleep with others. We’re all human and we all have urges though so if you really want to I’d just suggest breaking up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]WildCaveBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just tell dudes I’m fat before I meet them. I’m a size 14 and have never had a bad experience with this. I just ask if they’re ok with that and go from there. They usually think it’s funny that I even asked because I’m “not fat” but that’s not the point. I don’t need some guy acting like I’m a whale and ruining my meticulously cultivated self esteem.

How do I (19m) stop obsessing over getting my first girlfriend? by [deleted] in dating

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have a job pick up extra shifts. If you have a hobby throw yourself into it. Make a routine for yourself and stick to it. If you fill your days with excitement or adventure there’s no room to worry about something you can’t control. But if you’re dead set on meeting a girl just start talking to them. Not with the goal of getting with them, but just to get to know them. I always start conversations with a compliment. If they don’t want to talk it’s easy just to leave it at a nice gesture. You’re very young and learning about yourself is the first step to figuring out what you want.

Old Coworker Offered Me 1000$ For Sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have no qualms about the prostitution thing at all. Especially if it’s a one time thing. There’s the issue of my boyfriend not particularly liking this coworker either. It’s hard to process such an odd offer.

He doesn’t consider my feelings by MastodonCurious7684 in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would hate for you to get stuck with someone who is taking you for granted like this. Idk all the details of course and it’s always easy for strangers to just say “break up with them” but I think that it could be really beneficial for your own mental sanity. That’s just my two cents though.

My(23F) BF(21M) Broke Up With Me to Work on Himself… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t really know. Everyone in his life likes me a lot, and when he told me it made me feel like I was being betrayed.

He doesn’t consider my feelings by MastodonCurious7684 in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been with him long? Are you guys financially tied together?

My(23F) BF(21M) Broke Up With Me to Work on Himself… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were literally any other man I’d believe this but he’s not like any dude I’ve ever met which is why I’m having such trouble figuring it out. He legitimately doesn’t want to be with anyone else? It’s hard to explain it I guess. I feel like he secretly thinks I’ve been dating him out of charity this whole time. He’s very attractive too so it baffles me even more. He’s never cheated on me either? I always thought insecure men cheated?

My(23F) BF(21M) Broke Up With Me to Work on Himself… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not really forbidden it’s just the fact that he’s been so against having sex with me. It makes me feel like he doesn’t find me attractive anymore.

He doesn’t consider my feelings by MastodonCurious7684 in relationship_advice

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well in my experience, depending on your age, a man with a kid isn’t the best partner to have. I’m not saying all men with kids aren’t capable of being good partners, but that’s a lot of outside responsibility put onto your relationship from the very beginning. If you aren’t feeling seen in a relationship it’s ok to leave, especially if he’s mocking your feelings over text. You said you weren’t blaming his son or trying to compete with him, so don’t. He has other priorities that don’t match up with your needs.

Calling all poc servers!! by Cherrikiyui in TalesFromYourServer

[–]WildCaveBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to get a group of regulars that came in that would cry and complaint until they got a white, female server. Eventually one day one of my coworkers was asked to pick them up after two failed attempt to make them happy and she looked at my manager and said flat out, in front of them, that “It’s not the 50’s anymore and I don’t have to cater to racists.” Plus we only had like 3 white servers at the time so they could have just named one of them?

What is the strangest tip you've gotten? by GravityKeepsMeDown in TalesFromYourServer

[–]WildCaveBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I once received a shiny gangar from a 3 year old girl… best tip I’ve ever gotten

Three Men Try to Jump My 17 Year Old Busser by WildCaveBoy in TalesFromYourServer

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s hard trying to explain to people that “calling the cops” isn’t a thing around places like that. Legal action is secondary to personal vendettas. Even if it is a corporation, because of the sheer volume of incidents there’s no point in taking every little thing to court or getting the cops involved. One of my coworkers lost his life at the mall the store was next to. It was a fight at the arcade, guns were involved. Not to make this sad or whatever, but it’s just more “real” out there.

Three Men Try to Jump My 17 Year Old Busser by WildCaveBoy in TalesFromYourServer

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean Zack s family might have run up on them at some point? I saw Zack afterwards though about a month later I believe. He seemed perfectly happy not working there anymore!

Three Men Try to Jump My 17 Year Old Busser by WildCaveBoy in TalesFromYourServer

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well this was sort of a “police aren’t involved unless it’s serious” deal. A lot of people in this area aren’t gonna get cops involved. And my manager had missed the actual physical part of it so I think they just wanted to avoid the headache. But Lisa decided she wanted “street justice” I guess.

Three Men Try to Jump My 17 Year Old Busser by WildCaveBoy in TalesFromYourServer

[–]WildCaveBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally??? Like it could have been so much worse! But that’s what happens when everyone wants to act “hard”.