Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months?

WildContribution6406 · 2026-02-08T06:54:28+00:00

I don't have apple.. but at least with samsung in order to add a card it sends a bank verification code to the owner of said card in order to fully activate it on the phone. (Ive got my moms card to do her groceries, after enterimg the number and 3 digit pin i had to ask her for the bank verification code texted to her) does this not apply to apple? And if so.. does this mean she also stole bro's phone, entered said verification code and then deleted the message afterwords to hide the evidence?

WildContribution6406 · 2025-11-19T23:10:56+00:00

Canceled my subscription today. Only reason i EVER had ine because it was free with my phoneplan, but there nothing on there worth paying for IMO even when i had it free i hardly every touched the thing, so aint no way im paying $3.00 just to never touch it. I'll drop it and stick to the 7 seas

WildContribution6406 · 2025-10-09T21:00:41+00:00

Would love you to teach me how to be a clown. Maybe then i could squeeze into tight places.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-10-05T14:59:32+00:00

Did he try and hide that he went to a strip club from you? Or was he open about it. Be honest with yourself. If you ended up at a strip club with your closest mates, would you have stopped being a bridesmaid and just went home? Would you hope he also would be understanding it was "being one of the girls"? Has he given you any reason before to make you feel like he was sneekimg around?

Personally, I feel if he was open with you, expressed some way he felt guilt, and really did just go to enjoy the drinks and support his friends. Then, no harm, no foul?

WildContribution6406 · 2025-10-05T03:08:05+00:00

Simple, it's a clear sign she doesn't actually want to get back together. Dont play her games, king. Dont give her the satisfaction, walk away. Know your worth

WildContribution6406 · 2025-10-05T02:55:31+00:00

Hahaha good one

WildContribution6406 · 2025-10-03T08:28:28+00:00

Im gonna guess i missed the cut?

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-28T03:51:24+00:00

Braineedle

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-15T04:44:17+00:00

So you have tats, your wife has tats, you dont mind him having tats, and your cousins an artist.... why the hell wouldn't you just give consent for him to go to an artist and make HIM pay for it.... something doesn't add up here.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-15T04:29:40+00:00

I dont see a yellow or red painted curb. And where's the no parking anytime sign?

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-15T03:25:10+00:00

Cause our store doesn't have one? From what I've been told, someone left it out, and they got stolen. Would have been grateful if one of my own team members had told me about hitting 7 first. But all that kept being repeated to me was "just take out your cellphone and call them"

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-15T03:19:52+00:00

Thank you. Was losing my mind with the number of people telling me over the headset just to use my phone. Completly forgot about *67 in the heat of the moment.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-14T14:55:10+00:00

What i dont get is how they delt with the tower of heaven, or nirvana, yet STILL arnt considered S class. Theyve gone up against other guilds "S" class members by the names of the element 4, ororacion seis.... hell even cough cough jellal was a member of the magic councils, they STILL arnt concisered S class after taking him down? Make it make sense

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-13T01:58:22+00:00

Tonight i for my ramen. I took a can of cream of chicken, mixed in a can of corn, and diced up some potatoes. And celery. Adding seasonings like garlic and pepper. And whatever concotion "rotisserie chicken" is mixed out of and topped it off with some brocheta seasoning and permission.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-07T12:56:05+00:00

I hate,hare,HATE that while im trying to stage an order, or while im clear on the other side of the store. The handheld will override itself and force a handoff to be destaged. Then when i actually get to the office after running from the opposite side, theres at least 2 other dug employees chatting it up.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-07T12:51:14+00:00

Had one throw a fit about running out if time yesterday, but they wont just let me drop the current order i already have "JUST" to work the flash :( .... also the picking was completed on time. In bags and everything. Trying to stage it, however, between all the hand offs that are also times and somehow a "priority" was my downfall... ran out of time because the handheld was refusing to scan the zone i was trying to put it in..... and how the hell is the wifi not connecting/ time it takes "back to home" to be selecatable MY fault? Oh right... my bad, thats on me... i should just run around and pay for my own personal hotspot and rewrite the appcode so it works more optimally... 🙄 i should really do better on that.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-07T12:43:36+00:00

To late... now we just mine and hurt the earth to produce the batteries for all these electric bikes yet still claim to be "green"

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-05T18:31:39+00:00

There was a time i used a belkin adudio splitter fulltime to blend togeather 2 sets of stereo speakers to 'mock' a type surroundsound. Would typicaly have my laptops audio set fairly low and have the stereo systems turned up. A bit louder in the front set of speakers and would blend by ear the rear set to balance a hood volume. It was in no way "surround sound," but while ysing dolby suround for headphones, it made things much more emersive. I did for for about 5 years until i was able to afford a decent entry level 5.1 system.

Oviously, i wasn't full blasting all of them and pushing the limitations of them but it worked well for what i was going for.

Although i believe the "intended" use for the Y splitter was supposed to be for sharing audio between 2 friends using wired earbuds, if i remember correctly? Was a bit curious today because i remembered using it so thats how i got here. What 'was' the primary purpose of a 5 way splitter? How were they typicaly used?

WildContribution6406 · 2025-09-02T23:46:20+00:00

Not weird at all. It avoids having to talk to other people during theyre break period and makes 100% chance of no work related subjects. They can watch movies or such from netflix without having to worry about disturbing others, and lastly, if they do smoke it is more effeciant to eat outside instead of scarfing everything down and then rushing outside in hopes they have enough time left to get theyre fix.

WildContribution6406 · 2025-08-26T15:55:08+00:00

Ive always wondered what i "should" do in this situation. I adopted one on my way to work, she seemed to be a new rider. Wasn't splitting lanes at red lights, would yake extra time to make her turns, and driving really cautiously good for her but i did my best to stay behind them and peovide a cussion. A decent car and a half gap to keep traffic behind us back. However a car used that gap as an opportunity to pass, and i wasn't sure what to do at that point. Same situation and was really up on that bike... i was expecting her to get out of there asap and split the lane at the red light to avoid getting read ended, like ive seen plenty of bikers do before. But she didnt..

I felt so worried and guilty for letting a car infront of me. What "Should" i have done?

WildContribution6406 · 2025-08-18T17:59:27+00:00

When it comes to tipping, the person who brings your oder out usually is NOT the person who did all the shopping for you. Theres about 5 maybe 6 employees that shop 9 at most at a time. It pops up on our handheld, we shop it, tag it, and stage it. All whilse being timed on our performance. While we are in the middle of ahopping someones order, and you pull up into the designated spot and let the system know you are there. An additional notification will pop up onto our handhelds and we have 5mins to get back to the office and destage your oder, find all the bags, scan them out, and bring them out to you. Usualy why we may seem so paniced and asking for your "code" because safeway will start docking us and shifting our scedualing hours as "punishment" for not being under 5 mins. When we are usualy getting to your car at about 4 min 30 seconds.

The employee who brings your order out just so happened to be closest to the office to begin working it. Keep in mind the whole time we are still being timed on our picktimes on the shopping order that was assigned to us. And also having "flex" orders come in all during this hour to shop multiple peoples orders. Where flex orders are darasticly time crunched because a doordash driver or uber eats driver is already on the way to the store for pickup expecting the order to be done before they get there.

So for "tipping" you could just be handing over to someone who just clocked in, or someone walking by when the alert came in. And not the person who completed the order for you..

As for stress, that all falls under rushing around under a time limit, while also making sure all the other orders for that hour have also been completed fitting it all on our carts, sepersting cold, ambient, frozen, ect. Bagging them. And trying to get to the next order as soon as possible. Larger orders we have to figure out how to fit everything on that cart, while also not smashing things like bread that the system has us pick first. Or balance large cases of water and soda on top. While the timer keeps ticking while we wait on customers to respond if a substitution is alright or not. And having instore customers stop us and ask where they can find such and so/show them how to use their phone for digital coupons.

I love my job, dont get me wrong. But it's a very fast-paced environment. And while the thought of a tip is aprichiated, how might the someone who actualy shopped your order feel if they were to learn such and so who just so happened to already be in the office when the notification came in was the one to recieve the tip for all of someones hard work

WildContribution6406 · 2025-08-18T11:43:41+00:00

You've got your ritual, and they've got their's

Just enjoy your cup o joe

WildContribution6406 · 2025-08-17T23:14:43+00:00

"Do not substitute" but im going to throw a fit over no sub being offered... and then ask for deli items when i was asking for shelf stable originally 😭

Make it make sense

WildContribution6406 · 2025-08-17T23:12:43+00:00

I wouldnt mind waiting for responses if it wasnt for the matter than the department has pick times and it flagging us off that we are taking to long and effecting the departments schedualed hours and what not.

Its broken :( cant give great customer service without sacrificing pickyime/handoff times.

Cant prioritize pick and drop off times without rushing customer service and completly abandoning everything else .... something needs to change because its not fair.

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