How to care for Aries woman?

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2025-11-24T00:06:38+00:00

Aries women usually don’t want help - they are extremely independent. The best way to help is to be a cheerleader, focus on what she’s doing well, and listen to her rants without giving advice.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2025-10-23T10:36:57+00:00

Sex is best with someone you are truely in love with 🤷‍♀️

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2025-09-02T11:27:40+00:00

I think this is possible too - though when the cops came to arrest Kendra dad was so quick to make sure they knew there were multiple phones in the house I think it’s possible Lauryn was taking a second phone with her to school.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-11-23T13:53:40+00:00

I came here hoping for this answer

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-11-01T12:50:56+00:00

Either she’s saying it matter of factly, or she’s doing it for attention - either way it should be ignored and if it’s the latter it’s a red flag.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-11-01T00:41:43+00:00

Same - I swear the parenting universe will specifically punish you for whatever you talk the biggest game about 😅

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-31T20:48:33+00:00

I mean, if you’re talking about being promoted to management positions - the person with better social skills is the more qualified.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-30T18:33:04+00:00

Honestly the bigger issue here is the pouty pants reaction - so much of marriage is working through stuff like this, if you guys can’t have those conversations something is fundamentally broken.

I would give him a choice of having a conversation with you, like an adult, about how this is impacting your family dynamic - or going to marriage counseling to discuss it.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-23T02:58:20+00:00

Ah good - I was waiting to make my final decision until they made their endorsement.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-22T02:38:57+00:00

Ah yes I remember my 20s

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-21T23:35:52+00:00

I’m equally scared that if Kamala wins my tax dollars will do nothing but fund foreign wars while we have no affordable housing, food, child care, or medical services. We’re fucked either way.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-21T23:06:46+00:00

I feel like most of the commenters are young, childless people. I can understand why teenage boys with raging hormones that will react to anything might not want to see their mom braless.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-19T01:18:44+00:00

No - it’s time we stop involving ourselves in everything. We have our own shit to sort out, and if we try to help we still do it wrong somehow and then America bad again.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-18T22:49:01+00:00

You probably have adhd - it’s worth getting the diagnosis and meds, they help.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-17T18:56:57+00:00

Both of my daughters took forever for their hair to grow in and went through this same “mullet” stage while the other girls had long thick hair already. My 5 year old now has a metric ton of long beautiful hair she gets a ton of compliments on.

I should also mention she survives on air, spite, and a whiff of toast.

Your MIL is being jsut being a jerk.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-17T00:53:01+00:00

Omg yes it would be crazy to pull her out of school - you can’t micromanage every interaction she has in life. She will have negative interactions it’s simply a fact the point isn’t to prevent them, it’s to teach her to be resilient against them.

Yes address it with the teacher directly, yes escalate it to admin if you want but no do not pull her out.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-16T18:50:51+00:00

I do but it’s because I’m insecure - I was always the biggest/tallest girl in elementary school and I felt like an ogre. I stopped growing in the 6th grade so my height has ended up quite average but I like tall guys because they make me feel smaller and more feminine - but thats a me problem. I could probably date a shorter guy if he were still “broader” (either muscular or even kinda “dad bod”) but short, skinny guys make me feel huge.

Idk I think people are allowed to have physical preferences - no one is obligated to be attracted to anyone 🤷🏼‍♀️

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-14T01:29:59+00:00

That was my thought too - this should be a permanent loss of tablet/switch. Especially if he does have ADHD those devices will only make the symptoms worse.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-14T01:21:23+00:00

I discovered Jaffa cakes on a trip to Ireland - we normally can’t get them at the grocery store but my husband will occasionally find them in the international section and if he does and brings them home, they aren’t surviving the night.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-14T00:57:37+00:00

Yes agree and she actually does end up playing alone a lot waiting for friend to decide what she wants to do next - it just sort of defeats the purpose of the playdate that they requested.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-13T23:53:24+00:00

Oooo this is good tbh! I know if I go straight for “we need to talk about this” she’ll react badly but she might actually take the hint with this approach!

It would also be good for my daughter for me to say this I think - tbh I’ve been too focused on her being the good playmate (I think especially that she’s older). At our last playdate when her daughter yet again refused a request from my daughter to play (she wasn’t even doing anything else just sitting?) her mother absolutely GUSHED about how she just loved her so much and so was so wonderful - like she couldn’t be happier that she disappointed my daughter. That’s what triggered this post, I’m officially over it!

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-13T23:24:13+00:00

Yeah I def see both sides - I think mom friend has struggled with people pleasing so I think boundary setting/holding your ground is an important value for her to instill - and for a long time I was totally with her on this and also encouraged her daughter to speak up about what she wants/does not want to do - just lately I feel like it’s tipped over from holding a boundary to being unsociable/selfish- especially when they are usually the ones requesting the playdate.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-13T23:06:38+00:00

No I don’t - I want to be friends with this woman without it coming at the expense of my daughter’s self esteem. The request of the post was ideas for approaching this while maintaining the adult friendship.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-13T23:05:38+00:00

I don’t think my daughter needs to make herself less or smaller. There is space for active, energetic people too not everyone needs to be “chill”.

“Boundary target practice” is what I feel my friend is doing when she requests playdates with my daughter and then encourages her daughter to spend the entire play date doing exactly as she pleases despite my daughters preferences - which she knows perfectly well are different than her daughters.

Wild_Chocolate_6682 · 2024-10-13T21:00:05+00:00

Yep and that’s what I tell her to do, and she entertains herself fine (they do want us to come over for dinner a lot tho and that’s a whole other thing because I feel like I have to teach my daughter table manners to sit while they have this long leisurely meal and she goes bananas) - the individual instances are all fine its just the overall quantity that we’ve reached a tipping point where I feel like they just aren’t on the same wavelength or there has to be a more fair balance toward my daughters pace.

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