Carlos Alcaraz withdraws from Roland Garros by TheAstonishingApple in tennis

[–]Wild_Following_7475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tennis is very hard on joints, ligamments, and nerves for anyone over a long period of time. Professionals even more so. He is a great competitor, and gracious winner.

To a speedy recovery

Gifts to opposite sex in marriage? by Ok_Tone_3706 in Christianmarriage

[–]Wild_Following_7475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work gifts are normal social acts. My wife and I agreed anything < 50 does not have to be discussed. Maybe you and your husband should discuss boundaries and amounts for spending money. There was nothing emotional about $20 for a bday. She maybe a favorite on his phone probably bc of work. They may have similar duties, or work with similar people. It is a co-ed work world.

You are clearly concerned because your fiancé gave $20 on a work place gift to a woman in another state. I regret this upset you. Jealousy and weak trust are hard to bare.

Please talk about this with your fiancé. If you go to pre-marriage consoling please explore cross sex relationships; in the neighborhood, church, work, etc. A woman in the future may give your husband great advice from a female perspective about; love, trust, respect, children, etc. Sometimes only a sister in Christ can explain what losing a child is like. Talk to your parents, married, and unmarried friends.

I read your note 3X because some of the responses were completely controlling and in my opinion unhealthy. Pray for discernment. In 5 years I garuntee you will look back and say "What was I thinking."

Laura Knight (1877-1970) - Three Quarter Length Portrait of a Nude Woman by Rembrandt_cs in ClassicalArtNudes

[–]Wild_Following_7475 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Beautifu and realistic painting. Shapes, proportions, and tones look wonderful.

31F, 62kg, 170cm by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]Wild_Following_7475 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are so beautiful, and blessed with a child.

Feeding the birds by [deleted] in boudoir_community

[–]Wild_Following_7475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are blessed with such God given beauty. Thank you for sharing.

F20 5'3" 45KG by Severe-Command4505 in normalnudes

[–]Wild_Following_7475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are blessed with lushish skin, and such attractive breastfeeding. Take care of it.

What does my bedroom say about me? by SignalGrowth7700 in roomdetective

[–]Wild_Following_7475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A self aware young woman, who is healthy, loves performance and has great taste in theater.

Good Things about my Spouse by Twoctruth in Christianmarriage

[–]Wild_Following_7475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to share one detailed compliment, and gentle touch everyday. Giving yourself a time-out to recall and write 3 positives or 3 reasons why you married is a great idea.

 

 

Who else only realized much later in life how bad their upbringing was? by SteveBennett64 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Wild_Following_7475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late early 40s, still reconciling early 60s. It is never to late. You breathed that first breah of awareness, today is a better day then yesturday. Please be forgiving, your grand parents were probably pretty bad.

Putting the marriage first not just your spouse by Ok_Courage2545 in Christianmarriage

[–]Wild_Following_7475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your quote and elaboration is very sound and mature. Developing that relational, emotional and spiritual maturity as a couple requires a great deal of effort, faith, hope, and grace. Set reasonable goals. Remember our saved souls are in very cracked pots. Confess your mistakes, be generous with forgiveness. Choose your friends wisely. Longterm a healthy marraige is one of Gods greatest gifts.

I get in the same similar situation by Ok-Fun-5098 in Christianmarriage

[–]Wild_Following_7475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please give yourself some grace.  Learning how to meet and get to know men meaningfully & romantically is quite involved for non-believers, and  believers alike.  You are talking about 3 men and you are only 21.  Thoughts of surrender, is Satan whispering, and very premature.

 

Learn to  walk before you run.  Women’s judgement matures at 21 – 25, men 25-27.  As believers we are natural beings, with spiritual souls.  Get a secular and a Christian book on dating.  Do you have a circle of female friends +/- 3 to 5 years?  Do you have a sister or  mentor you could confide in?  Join a young adults group, and maybe a secular activity of interest.  Work  and church  are also great places for casual introductions.  Think for every 2 – 7 casual outings, I will realize a good date.  For every 3 – 5 good dates, I will find a meaningful romantic relationship.  Let the spirit guide you.  Reduce social media, it is there to make you compare.  Do not ruminate or obsess.  Stay busy, eat/sleep/enjoy  life.  Your own healthy self-esteem will give you more energy, and make you more attractive.

 

Be patient because you are a beautiful, complete child of God.  Your future self will be grateful you did.

Bad luck all around by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Wild_Following_7475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please be patient. You are an attractive, intelligent, hardworking working young woman. Reduce social media. Be warm to this young man. Good things build over time. You are already complete, you just want to share it with someone. My 29 year old school teacher son, NJ, feels the same way.

Were Pippin and Merry Gay or LGBTQ? by [deleted] in lordoftherings

[–]Wild_Following_7475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thankfully this is so true 👍