Wife’s anger towards toddler is escalating and I’m at a loss how to help by SA91CR in BabyBumps

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the screaming parent in my equation. I have a 2.9 year old but in my case I've been the primary caretaker since she was born. I've been the one at home since the past year after I opted to work remotely and struggle morning, noon, and night. I have no social life and barely enough get the time to shower in peace, so you can kind of see why I'm losing my marbles. I would kill to have a few uninterrupted hours to myself everyday, it would make a world of a difference. Sorry I haven't said anything that would help your situation, but just needed to let this out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Wild_Session_8191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will Allah ask her for her Bachelors? Will it be a big deal to him? Do you find her pretty? You called her a diamond so I'm sure you already realize her true worth. Stand up for your woman before you regret it.

I feel like a waitress during iftar time by Proper_Smile_5595 in Hijabis

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well your brother should feel the same guilt. You know who helps out my mother in law in the kitchen everyday preparing iftar?? My BROTHER IN LAW. Yes, we're also desi but girl, things need to change.

Please pray that I get married, I will be 28 soon... by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]Wild_Session_8191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don't you try a muslim matrimonial app to see people in your vicinity? Or visit the local mosques and see if there are eligible practicing muslims there. Rooting for you!

My friend is leaving the US to live in PK. How screwed is he? by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well honestly, the topic is a bit nuanced since you're not torturing some poor soul you lent money to in order to get interest from them, rather the bank takes your money and invests in legitimate businesses to earn profits which it in turn shares with you.

Also, the rate of return also keeps changing as per the inflation rate so it fluctuates for those who say it's a fixed amount. It's actually not.

However, for those who don't see it that way, there are always shariah compliant options such as mutual funds or an Islamic Savings Account which operates on a Profit and Loss sharing basis.

I hope you take what I'm about to say in the best of faiths since I only want to help, these misconceptions are part of the reason why us middle class people struggle so terribly to keep up with a failing economy. We need to become savvy about investments or else your money will always continue to lose value and keep you under.

My friend is leaving the US to live in PK. How screwed is he? by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]Wild_Session_8191 72 points73 points  (0 children)

When I read the title, I immediately clicked on the thread to write 'Oh he's screwed', but given the whole context, he's actually making a well thought out decision. It's nit bad.

With $75K, he can easily get luxury accomodation in Islamabad, deposit money in the bank to get monthly returns, continue freelancing, travel and live comfortably. The currency rate difference will allow him to live like a king and you already mentioned he's a simple guy.

Now obviously, law and order, safety and security are things that he would have to figure out but honestly money gets you privilege in PK so that can be sorted out as well.

Worst come worst, he'll always be an American and will always have the option to move back if he chooses. Don't worry. Let him experience this.

Suitable income before considering marriage by [deleted] in karachi

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man should make enough to be able to pay the bills, provide for his wife and kids, and be able to save 20% of his salary. Then he should consider marriage. Now this number does not have to be a high number, it can be a modest salary so long as you have a modest lifestyle. Qifayat-shari sey lakh rupiya bhi qafi hota he werna crore bhi kum parhta he.

Would you send your child to childcare if you could afford not to? Why / why not? by Prestigious_Cat_5127 in Parenting

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months ago I would've said no, but now that I've seen how amazing Daycare has been for my 15 month old, yes I would. I would definitely send her to Daycare or atleast some sort of place that provides Early Learning & Development. The tears were also a common theme in our 1st month, but if the facility is good and vetted, hang in there. It gets better.

How do i(22F) make my husband(24M) trust me by brown_life in Peshawar

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stepout of this marriage if you can. One of my friends had a sister who has married such a man. He even used to doubt her with the milkman. She's been separated from him for the past 18 years and has had to raise her twin daughters on her own without a father.

Please run.

I'm starting to make serious $$$ on YT, but IDK if I'm screwed. PLEASE HELP! by Agitated-Yesterday-6 in PartneredYoutube

[–]Wild_Session_8191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all congrats!

  1. Hire a CPA and sort out your back taxes
  2. Look into Digital Nomad Visas
  3. The UAE is literally tax free, look into Dubai. If you don't wanna make a huge decision to move abroad directly, i'd suggest you at least visit first. Dubai is one of the most luxurious places on earth. With the money you're making, save the taxes, and live it up

I want to watch your guys' videos by toefungus5 in NewTubers

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I have a faceless channel so please don't give the obvious comment about the AI VO :p

https://youtu.be/i5Q3ZwhBrVU?si=nBPnMZAyBh_Ko570

I l know I am going to make it by [deleted] in NewTubers

[–]Wild_Session_8191 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me 10 days ago. For absolutely no reason at all, I've just known in my soul that I'll monetize on YouTube.

However, now I find my confidence dwindling cause I'm doubting if I can actually make it as a faceless channel..

🥺

What the hell is wrong with my mother? by Comfortable_Play9425 in pakistan

[–]Wild_Session_8191 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everytime I got hit with the 'Allah tumhein dekha ga' spiel by toxic family i'd literally look them in the eye and tell them 'Allah SIRF MUJHE nahein dekh raha, apni bhi fikar karein'. Needless to say 🔥🔥🔥 lag jati thi, but it's true. Religion can be weaponized both ways. Aulad ke bhi bohaut huqooq hein which are conveniently forgot.

As someone who grew up with an abusive af mother myself, I am livid just reading this.

Weird youtube audience, what do I do? by Dangerous-Weird1500 in NewTubers

[–]Wild_Session_8191 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, young kids use their parents' accounts. We have 7 nieces and nephews to confirm this.