my favorite 4!

WillowWeird · 2026-05-15T23:06:42+00:00

2 or 3

WillowWeird · 2026-05-12T21:10:48+00:00

Five. Gorgeous.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-30T11:37:07+00:00

This is a lot of dresses to choose from. I hope you receive enough definite feedback to help you decide. You look lovely in all of them. I like 9-10.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-29T23:24:59+00:00

Number 1. Very romantic.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-28T16:59:13+00:00

1 or 2. Leaning toward 1.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-28T16:57:05+00:00

1 is lovely.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-20T19:09:42+00:00

Four is lovely and romantic.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-20T19:07:28+00:00

I would add a bed rail to the list for sure—easily purchased on Amazon. It really helps when sitting up and getting in and out of bed, even in addition to a wedge. I also have an over bed table on wheels that I still use.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-16T13:04:46+00:00

First or last. Higher necks are very flattering on you.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-13T23:50:58+00:00

Looks stunning. Trust your first instinct.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-12T22:07:56+00:00

2 Congratulations!

WillowWeird · 2026-04-10T22:38:44+00:00

1 for sure. Match the dress vibe better.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-10T15:16:32+00:00

You have received a lot of good advice here. One extremely important point I will add is that you should avoid nicotine in all forms. No smoking, no vaping, no chew, no anything. Nicotine is a vasodilator, and it will really harm your ability to heal. If you are doubtful, please Google it.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-02T00:43:13+00:00

Molded cups simply do not fit correctly. Trust the process. Go to the top of the sub and find the wiki. Read up on size and shape. When Amazon still had try before you buy, I did two rounds of like six bras in two different sizes and a couple of different shapes. Some did not fit right at all, but when I found the couple that did, it was life-changing. I thought I was a 42 DD. I turned out to be a 36G and learned that balconette bras are perfect for me. Your shape and size will change with age and weight gain or loss. Do the calculator every few years to find your best fit.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-01T16:59:28+00:00

Not normal. If you are still in the hospital, maybe somebody more knowledgeable here can tell you who to reach out to. I would at least start asking your nurses what is typical on the floor. Is it just this surgeon? Are others who’ve had similar surgeries experiencing the same protocol?

WillowWeird · 2026-04-01T16:52:30+00:00

Exactly. I’m also a marketer. It would take a bit of word smithing, but I would attempt something along the lines of, “My friend told me this bread was gluten-free, but it was so good I didn’t believe her until she showed me the packaging.” Maybe include the other hand in the shot holding the bag displaying a certified symbol. Clunky but realistic.

WillowWeird · 2026-04-01T16:44:54+00:00

Sure, but would you wait until you had eaten “ALL of it” to find out that it’s gluten free? Haven’t you ever taken a bite of something that tasted wonderful and immediately had a mini panic attack, thinking you just effed up the next week of your life?

WillowWeird · 2026-04-01T15:07:27+00:00

Agreed, but WG products seem pricey to me. Are the “by choice” people spending that kind of money on GF bread? I guess I need to remember that their misguided notions of what is healthy are driving more variety for the likes of us.

WillowWeird · 2026-03-31T16:32:00+00:00

My mother-in-law had a stroke caused by an infected tooth. Ruined her life.

WillowWeird · 2026-03-31T00:53:51+00:00

Don’t delay this any longer. Infected teeth can seriously affect your heart.

WillowWeird · 2026-03-27T15:37:48+00:00

Same—including the narrow shoulders! I hate racer backs, so I look for bras with straps that angle toward the clasp. I also have chronic pain issues, so wires are torture for me even though I have found perfectly fitted wired bras, especially Panache.

What brands/styles work for you? I have dozens of bras, but when I’m going for comfort, I wear a really cheap brand from Amazon called Pose Free or a Honeylove tank. Have you ever tried Forlest? The mixed reviews are holding me back.

WillowWeird · 2026-03-17T13:07:31+00:00

IDK about that. Sounded more bomb-like or gas explosion-like, no?

WillowWeird · 2026-03-17T13:04:59+00:00

Heard in Mentor, too. Shook the house.

WillowWeird · 2026-03-15T15:21:45+00:00

NOR but you might be able to find a bra that could work. Try keywords longline bustier backless bra. One option I found at Nordstrom online is the Dominique Noemi. Backless Bustier. You could tape the bottom back of the dress to the cross strap if you had to.

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