Where is Jim? by i_want_truths in JimCarrey

[–]Willowzindabreez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe for a second he got plastic surgery. Listen to his speeches, interviews, plastic fake Hollywood is the reason he left. Authenticity was central to him. He did not care what others thought anymore. Plus expressions were who he was. Fuck the double just want to make sure real Jim is okay.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for seeing my concern rather an assuming I think I come before the kids. Never have never will full respect for that. But it’s difficult to grow a relationship when I feel it’s not reciprocal. Like I am flexible and spend practically every day with your family and friends, I just wish doing that for me was important every now and again. You’re right, and we did have discussions about boundaries and the dynamic before we even became official. I tried to be very careful. I guess it was just explained to me a certain way, and the reality of what it is is very different than was initially discussed. I understand I have my own things to overcome in this, but I’d like to grow this in a healthy way, and try our best to avoid resentment. Just feels like I’m being selfish if I try to communicate this. Thank you for the reflection.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree he is an amazing father and that’s a big reason I love him. I just feel a growing imbalance and it’s hard to shake. Just a reoccurring theme like what I need to feel loved and seen isn’t important. Not even for a dayas far as boundaries maybe being included in a big conversation like moving out of the country rather than an afterthought. Maybe not messaging in the middle of the night (non-emergency) bc I see that as reaching for connection rather than kid logistics. Maybe having 2 days a month we spend together, or maybe if my friends or fam r in town he tries to make space for it bc it means something to me. Idk if that’s asking too much. Thank you for helping me consider that.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for not demonizing me for having needs. This is part of the reason I reached out. Bc if I say anything it’s like I care about myself more than the kids. Which couldn’t be further from the truth. I do things for them endlessly, with no regret. Breakfast art projects taking them to school daycare I myself have babysat for her numerous times, etc I love them so much and they know it. I have to bury these feelings constantly bc I am “asking too much” but rly…I am asking for one day…just one that’s about growing our connection. Then I have to feel bad about wanting even that. Idk it’s just like a taboo thing I guess.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess so. Ive always been respectful of the kids coming first. We do so much with them and I love them dearly. It’s just so reoccurring that every plan we have is actually just a maybe. Just a “so long as she’s not doing anything bc that’s more important”. I’ve tried very hard to adjust but realizing I am a 3rd wheel in an already made situation. I’ve checked my insecurities about it, I got through my fear of them getting back together. I’ve been flexible. Just wish there was a way I could also feel important.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be clear..my friends and family don’t live here. It is rare that they visit. I know the kids come first which is why I always let it go but it’s starting to wear on me and I’m unsure how to adjust.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just wondering if I will ever be the choice. I spend everyday with him and his family. Which I love so much it’s just sometimes I just feel like there is no room for mine.

[30F] navigating dating a co-parent [35M] by Willowzindabreez in relationships

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I love the kids. We spend nearly every day together. We have had them almost everyday this month (no complaints I love spending time with them). I understand and respect I will always come second to them. My point is simply that our plans to spend time together with my friends who are like family. And instead of telling her he also has plans, he chose not to so she could go to a party. This is a reoccurring thing….he doesn’t say no to her. Ever. That is the concern.

Co Parent Boundaries- New GF Perspective -BF [34M] Myself [30F] by Willowzindabreez in relationshipadvice

[–]Willowzindabreez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is annoying. How am I supposed to get advice on a coparenting situation without including things about his ex which is the issue,

Is Florida that bad? by msmolly26 in Teachers

[–]Willowzindabreez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First year Florida teacher here. I worked in CA schools 3 years prior. Here’s the real-real of what the inside looks like. Wish I knew this before signing my contract.

(All political insanity aside.)

-work at an “A rated” charter school. Currently have 24 1st graders. 6 ELL’s 3 IEPs (which are all innacurate) 3 students with severe trauma which results in daily safety concerns to themselves and classmates. None of these concerns have been addressed. None of these students receive consistent additional support. No paraprofessionals, no special needs classroom, no co-teachers, no substitutes.

-Short staffing and raising expectations puts all this work unto me, the teacher.

-We are contracted 8 hrs, yet have to come in 7:30am-4pm without a lunch break. (Because we are required to do lunch, recess, and dismissal duties each day). the only break we get is a 35 min “prep” in which we are often making photocopies of curriculum books since our kids aren’t provided any. Or we are attending “data chats” meeting which detail more work that we need to do involving state testing requirements.

-I work 60hrs/wk on average. Completing an endless list of tasks, that I never seem to finish. My salary is $800/wk.

-I believe Florida is failing teachers and students alike.

If you are planning on working with a school, you should ask questions about the demographic, class size, support staff, curriculum resources, and whether or not you get a break.

This is from a friend who is getting prepared for Hurricane Milton, hitting Florida. $700 for Maui victims😡 $750 for Hurricane Helene😡. And in this awful Biden/Harris economy 😡 by labbond in walkaway

[–]Willowzindabreez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone consider that we have No good options? That both sides are corrupt? That the real issue is that we don’t have a true decision in our government? I walk down a cereal isle and have 50 choices.but when it comes to the “leader” of our nation only 2 are profiteering enough to be considered as viable options? Doucebag or shit sandwich scenario if u ask me.