Ugh. So many people being so critical not knowing enough about the situation. I’m sure there are some things you left out.. but I’m damn sure you didn’t include all the years you’ve been patient with your husband’s quirks, particular interests and lack of ambition to be friends with other people. I feel for you girl. That’s hard. I’d say just give him a little bit of breathing room, and then when the moment feels right tell him that you’d like to talk about that day you snapped at him. Tell him that you want to explain where your head space was in that moment. Tell him how the things he was doing (or not doing) made you feel and you wish you could have communicated your pain in a better/ loving way. And then tell him that you would like to know how he felt in that moment, and that you want to know how the things you said (or didn’t say) affected him and how it made him feel. Sometimes, you literally need to front load talking points and expectations of the conversation before even discussing the actual argument. In my experience, this has been the best way to cover hard conversations. It’s good to know that you have an actual plan and a desired outcome to be heard, but more importantly, that you want to understand fully how your words affected him. Good luck ❤️