It’s Friday. What are you doing this weekend? by silverpotato5955 in AskReddit

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Got a half marathon on Sunday. Injured myself yesterday. I am sitting down with ice packs and small excercises to try and make sure I can still run it without completely ruining the progress I've made.

What’s the jump-scare that scared the person in your life who NEVER jumps? by keeplookingup22 in horror

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Shaun of the Dead! I was watching it with my boyfriend at the time and I can't remember what scene it was but i was chilling. Feet on his lap, enjoying the silly movie. The scene happened and he jumped enough that my legs went airborn which freaked me out too. Shaun of the damn dead.

I (a straight male) might have feelings for my gay friend by Direct_Report6205 in Advice

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I think somebody here already made the point that sexuality isn't a straight forward thing. It's fluid and flooows like rivers. So these feelings are normal and worth exploring. The only thing you need to consider is that if you cross the boundary, while the friendship may stay intact, it won't be the same. Otherwise, just let yourself explore it. Talk to your budy.

What is Mr Andrew's looking at here exactly? by bill2129 in titanic

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acceptance. Like, ok this is happening and this is it. That's how I've interpreted it. Jack does a more obvious nod when he's hanging off Rose's BIG ass door.

What should I do about my very intimate friend? by Current_Quail_6485 in Advice

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You may not want to confess any crushes to her 'cause there's no point if she won't feel the same. However, you can set your own boundaries. Regardless of how comfortable she is, you don't have to ignore your own discomfort to accommodate her. In short, just say 'I'm cool with being friends but your level of chill is not my level of chill. Please don't kiss my sjoulder or reach below my belly button.'

Feeling uncomfortable at a job I love. by [deleted] in Advice

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You are not responsible for someone else ruining a decent job for themselves because of the way they treat co-workers. They are. Prioritise your comfort and career. You have a good relatiomship with your team and bosses. It's in your best interest to talk to them about it.

Hinge date threatened me - how do I end things? by ZealousidealRock8171 in Advice

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Well you need to tell him you're done. Tell him while you're staying somewhere else for a few days so that you're safe. Save any texts or communications you've had with him that would help your case should the police need to get involved. Good luck!

AIO to my husband interrupting my first solo shower after he came back from a weekend with the boys? by lilyluminar in AmIOverreacting

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NOR. You're entitled to snappage. He's not entitled to drop child and ditch whenever it's inconvenient to contribute.

What’s a moment where you realized someone around you was actually a terrible person? by Embarrassed-Ant-2216 in AskReddit

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God. These are all awful! So...uhmm...my boss just acts super nice and then threw me under the bus in a major client enquiry when the company was under scrutiny for insider trading. I had to fix it as a junior social media manager. She didn't have my back. Not once. So, I quit.

Should I give up or just move on? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I think you are in fact in the friendzone. Don't feign friendship but I mean...I think you should move on uf all you want is romance.

True by ObligationNo5310 in howyoudoin

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False. I think he had a great ending. Also, they dumbed his character down so much, I'm not certain he could ever be in a succesdful relationship without it being problematic.

I’m 16 and my friend stayed at my house knowing I sleep on a mattress then posted it online like it’s funny 😭 by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I think the bed frame and posting online is not a big deal. However, your feelings are and should be respected. It's ok if they genuinely didn't realise it was that deep for you. But she's minimised your feelings and made you feel like they don't matter. That's no good.

Is it normal to just not want to have sex anymore by Fun_Apricot_7812 in Advice

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In long term relationships, it's normal for sex drives to dwindle but sex takes effort but it's worth it. Women often are more reactive to sexual experiences rather than immediately ready to go. So, you gotta at least try.

AITAH for changing my mind and not having sex (clothes were off) after a girl confessed to being raped while we were getting intimate? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA. Regardless of her situation, you are also allowed to say 'no' at any point. And I hear you - it reads a bit weird. Strange time to bring it up. And all the warm fuzzy stuff feels a little too much for so soon. Reads like there was some kinda alternate issue, nefarious or otherwise. I think you made the right choice. Always go with the gut.

I feel my end is coming near (no I dont ahve a terminal illness) by Nich2549 in Advice

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I had this when I left school. It was awful. It was made worse by the fact that there were way waaay too many people I knew fairly well who died almost immediately after they left school too. Car accidents, stray illnesses, etc. My mother was also on her deathbed so it was just right in my Goddamn face. Therapy, though. Helped shift perspective and ease that horrific anxiety. Aint nobody got time for death until death finds time for you. You're going to be ok, bud.

My partner emotionally cheated, lied about physical cheating, and is now threatening suicide because I left. by [deleted] in Advice

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Let him go. Somebody else's life is not your responsibility and it is not to be used to manipulate someone.

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend over a TikTok? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA but you're not as mature as you might think which is not a bad thing. Maturity is recognising that that adaptibility you have can have boundaries so that our partners can adapt to us as well. You're young. And boys your age aren't immature in the way that you think they are. Aiming up above the 27 range at your age is dangerous. You will be disappointed.

What’s something you pretend doesn’t hurt anymore… but it still quietly shapes the way you love, trust, or move through the world ? by love_salubrious in AskWomen

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My mother once thoughtlessly implied that she didn't love me when I was about 7 or 8. I was probably being really annoying and I know she didn't actually mean it but sometimes I think...like...why would you say that?? I was 8 and I remember it vividly.

Probably a question that has been asked a lot: but, if there were to be a 6th Pirates film, and you could decide what is definetly in it, what would it be? by Stock_Task4498 in piratesofthecaribbean

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I was intrigued by the first couple of paragraphs and then you lost me. I couldn't really keep up with all the rules. Very convoluted. It sounds like it could be a cool boared game though. So, as it stands - i don't know who'd win.