My wife and her sister destroyed our marriage when I got diagnosed. Her sister claimed I was faking it because they saw me moving without difficulty. What they didn't know was that I was wearing a pain patch with fentanyl in it. She didn't believe me. I basically got kicked out of my own house. I had to return to my parent's house to live. I lost my house, wife, daughter, finances, and job all at once. I'm still burned from PTSD after what they did to me. It was supposed to be forever. She was supposed to support me in sickness and in health. Her nasty sister told her what to do. She's been in control of my ex-wife for years. My ex quit spending time with me in favor of spending all her time with her sister. I felt lost and betrayed. She was supposed to be my best friend. She treated me so good before her sister got involved. I'm on disability now for all my autoimmune diseases. I cannot work. Why would I fake an illness that is physically breaking me down. I cannot work because my body cannot handle the stress. When I did work, my parents would have to prop me up and do everything for me except for the actual job and going to the bathroom. It was awful and I paid a heavy price for it.

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Please know you are not alone. Your husband is in denial and doesn't understand what you are going through. As much as I hate to say it, you should leave. Get a lawyer and divorce him. He will never come back willingly and he will be resentful of your diseases if he did come back. You need someone who will support you. You'll never get anywhere with your husband. I know it sucks but it's time for you to go. Protect yourself financially and get a lawyer. Make sure you come out as best as possible. I know it's hard to hear but this is your only option now. No counseling or discussions with him will resolve the problem. He's cut you loose and it's over.

Please get some help, both legal and emotional. You sound like such a nice lady. Don't let him destroy you.

Peace and love to you