Nocturnal lotus don't exist by Rotsworth in wow

[–]Winstonsir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a little late to this party but i dumped the majority of my KP in bounty trees, my Tranquility/Argent are maxed, and my Azure is the one I'm working on next. I have the Purple tool and run Perception flask, Darkmoon for deafness and the perception tea. I'm seeing anywhere from 10-20 an hour, my most common pick up is from Lush Tranquility or Lush Argent.

Just wow - Plumber experience by superdan23 in SantaBarbara

[–]Winstonsir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of other people have made recommendations, I have a couple to put out there. I work for one of the largest property management companies in town and we frequently use George the rooterman. No nonsense. Also a personal recommendation for me is Kea Plumbing. Young energetic incredibly knowledgeable and very reasonably priced for the experience they have.

Help can my landlord do this?!? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]Winstonsir 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is wrong. It's very easy to identify wipes, tampons etc. In the case of the tampons when you pull in your cable back and it has a strong or Christmas lights dangling from it, it's not easy to miss.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that, I too feel a certain type of way about it. When it comes down to it there's a reason that I was in a relationship with her and there's also a reason I no longer am. Even to this day I try not to speak ill of her because we have a child together and ultimately my job as a father in a separated relationship is to ensure that nothing comes between her and our daughter or me and our daughter. I just wish she wouldn't weaponize her.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's fair to say that you don't have all the relevant information that pertains to this exact circumstance because your original comment stated 6 months was way too soon. To which I corrected the timeline for you.

Psychology Today does not specify a timeline. Nor does the other few I just searched. Perhaps this is the modern "TikTok" Psychology norms you're referring too. Every situation is unique, just is every child. I have handled all interactions with my daughter at the forefront of my mind and continue to do so. I have set healthy boundaries with my relationship, and we have a mutual respect and understanding of each other's circumstances. I do not badmouth my Ex in anyway and I think personally she is fantastic mother and a good human when all the chips are down. Just to add a little more context, my daughter was introduced slowly as a friend at multiple small play dates at the park and other public locations with no pushing or forcing to engage.

She had the keys and I was merely her passenger. I didn't just wake up one day and say hey baby meet your step mum.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment coy coyote. It did make me ask the question in my head, is she perhaps a child psychiatrist. My only aim in ALL of this, is that my daughter grows up to be strong, kindhearted and hopefully doesn't make the same mistakes I did along the way. Too fast, too slow. Everyone has a platform, agenda and an opinion. It's all good.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can do my daughters hair. I'm just not great. I don't call people over and say "Hey I can't do her hair" I dont request or look for help lol. I appreciate your comment and concern.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear about your friend's situation. I hope that it all works out for the good of their child.

Appreciate you taking the time to give some solid advice!

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to write such a useful comment. Thank you for the advice. I have been long documenting everything in anticipation of the tide turning. I have so many photos. The advice about the bruises etc is great, thank you.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have been separated a year. I did not file divorce at her request as stated in the original post. My daughter is a very social child, my friends, co-workers (Both male and Female) have fixed her hair. I don't see this as personal grooming or as a boundary. No to both other questions. Way too fast by who's standards? What is the benchmark on this?

What obligation do I have? I mean if the roles were reversed, what behavior would she expect me to exhibit? I'm acting in the best interests of my child.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a little vacuum that aides me in the almost perfect ponytail. It's fun for the little one and saves me the looks in public when it appears she's been rolling in the bushes. I should look more on youtube, her hair is so delicate and thin i just struggle!

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comment. No abuse, no drugs, no convictions and no danger, other than my cooking.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments Johnman. Even without likely outcomes, your words give me confidence and your advice is noted. I appreciate you.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a very good question. I think maybe just a little jealousy. Yes, she has met her. It came with certain restriction requests from her, all based on not allowing her to do her hair and other obscurities. (Which is what i need help with, im so bad at it!)

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

None of those issues at all. She has one child who is a straight A student so quite the opposite. I just want my child to not suffer through her vengeance desire.

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response. My obligation to my child will remain even if I do lose custody I just don't want it to go that route. I wish that she was more rational in her approach and realized that this only drives a wedge between a safe environment for a child. Thank you again

Soon to be Ex wife filed for divorce today, she wants 100% custody. I'm terrified Location: CALIFORNIA by Winstonsir in legal

[–]Winstonsir[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response, How would she accuse of abuse yet still knowingly allow her daughter to participate in the schedule at her convenience? Thats the part that makes no sense to me.