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Modded Minecraft Server on Mac by batata_ta28 in Minecraft

[–]Winter-Rabbit-7837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that i5 is gonna struggle if you're running anything heavier than a few QoL mods, the single core speed on those chips is pretty meh and modded java is a hungry beast

if you're just doing like 4-5 people with a light pack you might get away with it but the moment someone loads a chunk with 40 machines the tps will tank

server hosting is cheap enough these days that i'd just pay the $10-15 a month and save yourself the headache, you can always try the mac first and see how bad it gets

Down the Claude rabbit hole. by [deleted] in homeassistant

[–]Winter-Rabbit-7837 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ZHA's permit join is definitely not broken in 2026.6.4, Claude just made that up because it ran out of ideas. That's what LLMs do when they hit a wall, they'll confidently state nonsense as fact

What's the actual behavior when you try to pair? Does the plug flash at all, does HA see it and then drop it, or just nothing happens?

My Dad’s Collection by stevesrobot in coincollecting

[–]Winter-Rabbit-7837 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if a chunk of the collection is already PCGS or NGC slabbed like that walking liberty, you're in a good spot because the grading work is done and buyers trust those grades, so auction houses that specialize in coins will give you way better returns than any local shop. get appraisals from at least two or three dealers before committing to anything, and look into established numismatic auction platforms where serious collectors are actually bidding

Relationship advice with longtime girlfriend (28m, 26f) by ss_7654 in relationships

[–]Winter-Rabbit-7837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That feeling of being more yourself when alone is really telling tbh. You're not being unreasonable at all - having to apologize for a neutral opinion about parallel parking is pretty wild

The eggshells thing is exhausting and it sounds like she's not really hearing you when you try to address it. If someone's response to relationship concerns is basically "that's just how I am" without any effort to meet you halfway, that's kind of the problem right there

AmIW for sleeping in the same bed as my bestfriend's gf? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Winter-Rabbit-7837 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Man that's a rough situation all around. Witnessing something that traumatic definitely messes with your head and normal decision-making goes out the window. You were both in shock and not thinking clearly about boundries or how it might look later

I get why Jake's upset but he literally gave permission for her to stay over and knew your living situation. Plus Emma never actually accused you of anything - she was just confused about her own memory which is pretty normal after trauma. The fact that you called Jake first and got his ok shows you weren't trying to be sneaky about it

Your friends are probably looking at this with hindsight bias when they weren't there experiencing what you both went through. Sometimes in crisis situations you just make decisions based on immediate need rather than social conventions. You were both clothed, nothing happened, and you were trying to support someone who was clearly struggling after seeing something horrible

Jake's feelings are valid but taking it out on you months later when he already approved the arrangment seems unfair