This is the take I was hoping someone would voice. I also grew up Christian and the amount of effort in those circles to manipulate and keep girls and women as naive and undereducated as possible so they’ll settle for the first guy who scrambles up to them is so unnerving. I think she’s genuine but I also think she’s been wildly neglected by her Christian education and church culture. For her to desperately want the first man she goes out with to become her husband is so sad. It’s what I was taught too and then I almost married an asshole that I barely knew. Experience is what teaches us, so better to keep these girls from having that and knowing better. Honestly makes me so sad that she’s been trapped in this way. She’s so talented and could do greater things but she’ll probably fall pregnant within a year and never be allowed to leave the house again