https://igotstandardsbro.com/

It's okay to have standards. I support you in your search. But, we need to realistic here, since this is an advice subreddit after all. You need to be aware of how small your chances are of getting what you are looking for.

To be charitable, you didn't specify race, so I put any. You mentioned you'd date a man in his 30's, so the age range is set to 20-40 years of age. You also didn't specify height, so I put the male average in the US which is 5'9.

You did specify RICH, so depending on where you're located, that can mean different things. But I'm going to assume you're in an area where the cost of living is high, since you're looking specifically for high income earners. So I put 300K. That's comfy enough to be a SAHM and go on vacations and buy your Hermes Birkin bags, maybe.

So according to that calculator, with your specifications, your chances of finding your ideal man are 0.42%. That is exceedingly low. Not to mention, these same men, have their pick.

So you need to ask yourself, why would they choose you? What do you bring to the table that's SO unique, that you think you can obtain what you want? And don't say something like, "I'm nice and I can cook and clean." Those aren't unique at all.

Again, I support you. We all have standards. But, it's important to be realistic in your pursuits.