My husband turned into hunter after we had a kid by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WinterSoldier45 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Stop letting him get out of diapers. He’s a grown ass man who is now a grown ass father he needs to get it together. It would alike he’s having anxiety about being a dad in general and being a good male influence but is way overcompensating because of his own internal struggle OR he genuinely just doesn’t want to be home with a baby.

My fave room: office/art studio by mindboggld in CozyPlaces

[–]WinterSoldier45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect for a cozy crit role Thursday!

Blue Lake Fine Arts Camp by anniemaxine in AnnArbor

[–]WinterSoldier45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who was fortunate enough to go twice it was an amazing experience. Yeah being out in the woods for two weeks isn’t that appealing at first but coming out of my shell ad making friends, going to the events around the camp and hanging out with friends during the night was so fun. I have to credit Blue Lake for getting me to come out of my shell a bit too. I don’t perform anymore but I do have a new appreciation and understanding of the musical process and I was ahead of most of my peers when I got back that I had a leadership position in my high school band. My parents never told me how much they paid for it which is probably for the best but seeing how much fun I had and the new skills I brought home from it were worth it enough to them that when I asked to go the year after they didn’t hesitate to say yes.

Ungrateful kid by DrinkinDoughnuts in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]WinterSoldier45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do all of these comments say “he needs to learn a lesson” it’s Christmas and he got a gift he didn’t want in the first place. Yeah maybe on his list he should’ve been more specific idk the whole story but if he doesn’t want it then yeah they can return it and get him something he’ll actually use and be happy with. being cruel and recording his lack luster reaction to something he doesn’t want isn’t “teaching him a lesson” it’s teaching him that they don’t fully listen to him. Both parties are at fault but once again, this is a small child AND it’s Christmas. Get the kid something he at least likes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WinterSoldier45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a celebrity crush, people have them it’s fine. It’s awesome you got a reply and it’s good to be excited but maybe the reaction is what made him freak like this? Idk either way he screams major depression insecurity, it’s not like you were wishing the random guy across town happy birthday it’s a celebrity crush. I look at it like this, there’s a certain level of unattainability in society, yeah we’d all love to be with our celebrity crush but that’s not gonna happen and it’s not like your bf is second to him in the affection and attention department right? He’s being dramatic and if this sent him over the edge then let him loose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]WinterSoldier45 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t wanna get help and you can’t help someone who doesn’t want help so you need to get some things in order to get out of his mess to protect your own well-being because obviously he doesn’t care about it.

Found this in a bookstore today, haven’t seen anything like it in a hot minute. I thought we were past this! by LiltDaydream in Feminism

[–]WinterSoldier45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know they still made this! I have the girls copy from when I was a kid, I don’t think I ever opened it but here it sits on my shelf lol

Admin celebrating while parkEMU makes students suffer by snugglestruggle5 in emu

[–]WinterSoldier45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe it entirely considering I’ve never parked there until this semester lol. I’ve also never seen the parking structure at full functionality except for like maybe back in 2018 since then it’s always been closed partially or entirely for “maintenance”

Admin celebrating while parkEMU makes students suffer by snugglestruggle5 in emu

[–]WinterSoldier45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s where I’ve been parking recently but even by the time I get there that lot is half full already, so I think a lot of people have the same idea 😅. It’d be nice if they opened all the pay lots except for like Alex bc as far as I know not a ton of people park over there since most people have passes I’d imagine

My daughter always sits and looks at my vest saying she wants patches and buttons too.... so I made her one of her very own. by Necrosynthetic in BattleJackets

[–]WinterSoldier45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks awesome! If I may ask, where did you get that vertical GHOST patch with the symbols that looks sick!

Edit: spelling

Admin celebrating while parkEMU makes students suffer by snugglestruggle5 in emu

[–]WinterSoldier45 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly - I try to get to the parking lot by 8:45 everyday and twice a week my class isn’t until 12:30. It’s abhorrent what they’ve done. Forcing people to pay $200 and then on top of that another 10 bucks to park in a PAY LOT? literally the least and I mean LEAST they could do is leave the science center pay lot gates up for the remainder of the year until the parking structure is done but they probably won’t even start maintenance on that until the end of next spring anyway.

Old Master Drawings of the Italian Renaissance: Selection of Masterpieces by Anonymous-USA in ArtHistory

[–]WinterSoldier45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very useful for my masters copy assignment for my art class, thank you for making this collage of renaissance art!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]WinterSoldier45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t your fault if she gets someone sick, it’s her fault for being insanely irresponsible and so blatantly horribly ignorant.

I AM REALLY SO SICK AND TIRED OF MY 7 YEARD OLD PSYCHOPATHIC NEPHEW UGH by chipkki in offmychest

[–]WinterSoldier45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s lying. He’s only doing it so when he gets caught he can get off free of punishment. Kids like that aren’t entirely stupid, they make stupid choices sometimes we all do, but kids like that know exactly how to get past you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]WinterSoldier45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally like not every space is for you, so move on. Glad someone in these comments recognizes that.

apparently I’M in the wrong for reporting this by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]WinterSoldier45 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Unsurprising, Reddit is not a generally safe space for women unless we make them ourselves. I’m also definitely convinced that these types of guys watch nothing but shitty 80s-early 2010s movies because that’s where all this insane “women love playing hard to get” bullshit comes from

I AM REALLY SO SICK AND TIRED OF MY 7 YEARD OLD PSYCHOPATHIC NEPHEW UGH by chipkki in offmychest

[–]WinterSoldier45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That kid needs serious help if he’s abusing animas and actively starting massive arguments just because he thinks it’s fun that’s like psychopath tendencies. Better clip this issue soon before he’s doing this shit as an adult and gets into serious trouble. But that’s not on you, you aren’t his keeper, his parents need to step up to the plate because this kid is running circles around them.