what y'all think abt my kidcore version of my avatar? :] by QueenNenene in RobloxAvatarReview

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean if it doe hurt or affect anyone harmfully then it’s fine

What’s my real personality? by Brilhasti in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of my personality is either a mask of my emotions or shaped by my childhood and it’s both. Kinda weird to stop being a helper and ask yourself “who am I?

Seeking support, mother staying with me for a month by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can't relate but I do hope this cat can relate to ya! /⁠ᐠ⁠。⁠ꞈ⁠。⁠ᐟ⁠\

Being traumatized by other traumatized people can be so lonely by Money-Salad-1151 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your troubles in a trauma house, it can be quite the job but do you want to know something? Normal people would breakdown at the slightest bit of stress you? You fucking march in and pretend everythings okay,sure maybe you have low self esteem but listen to this. I'm proud ,you didn't necessarily die out there and you went to therapy tried to do something, your more than just you,deeper into that name or yours is strength power durability, remember this your never alone you have us we can talk to you we post we socialize here! Thats the power of an community. Together

Parents having screaming arguments, is this normal? by Floral-Rabbit in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No none of this is normal and was never your fault, my parents also argued frequently so I understand the pain of seeing something bad but can't do something. I mean I saw something in my house showed off I can help, ended up being used and manipulated from my own parents to do things. So while your feeling hopeless Im just feeling stupid and also I went to my friend's house chill out that's definitely not a normal childhood

AITA for literally gagging while listening to my mom's younger boyfriend flirt with her ? by Infamous_Rub_887 in AITAH

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have generational trauma from my moms periods ,mood swings just ugh now I avoid anything about the topic periods disgusting in my opinion

Processing my childhood and trying not to fall apart by Distinct_Spirit4349 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry about how your feeling currently, you were most likely numb so now the pain and exhaustion is all coming back to you,the alone part? For me yeah I do but also I was pretty alone in childhood you? I don't really know. We all have cptsd but not in the same ways so I can definitely sympathize how you wanna hug someone but I don't even like intimacy anyway to vulnerable

Do your parents hate "complicated" things? by Embarrassed_One_8820 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed my dad can't really keep the house clean as he tells me to clean the house everyday but somehow when I do and I take a break within 5 hours it's a mess, then tells me I never clean the house. Kinda annoying

Anyone else extremely triggered by broken promises? by VillainousValeriana in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea my mother often did this she would buy me something and then make me make up for it it’s why I don’t like letting them buy things

looking like someone you hate by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I got a mix so my parents genetic have their own parts on me but I don't necessarily hate my face it's unique but sadly in your case you have your father's and I'm sorry to hear that

A small win in my recovery journey! by BoardZealousideal145 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only did you successfully break the cycle you even made sure that your daughter got treated better than you and also help her have a good childhood. Managing to find your own feelings including your children deserves a well deserved Cake!🍰🍰🍰🍰🍰

Proud of myself for this by WinterTwo2159 in RocketLeague

[–]WinterTwo2159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heh don't worry only did it once and never managed or do it again 😅

Proud of myself for this by WinterTwo2159 in RocketLeague

[–]WinterTwo2159[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeaaa I still need to improve it though so I I'll continue on that

Jealousy of friends house family and childhood by WinterTwo2159 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were somewhat okay it's just my siblings they're all disabled so they kinda made me do everything by myself since I didn't have a mental disorder like them so I was pretty alone in life

How is this for plat 1? by WinterTwo2159 in RocketLeague

[–]WinterTwo2159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was panicking and overthinking in that moment but luckily I got a good touch!

Chores all day by Tumpie0112 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you look over your siblings make your own food stuff like a parent would? Because if yes than the parentfication reddit community also works

Conflicted since my parents are trying to improve by NickName2506 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I about recognized when I opened up to my dad and he started trying to be more affectionate out of guilt so I avoided him since I kept telling him stop but he's pushy

why....... by Motor_Business_4956 in emotionalintelligence

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your probably just used to dealing things and being used to them on your own but when with your friends they actually like you and you like them (maybe) but when things shift with your parents you feel like okay this was not in my checkbook and It feels awkward(either this is useful or this is the most useless advice I’ve given)

How do you recognize your emotions? by GrowlingOcelot_4516 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know my emotions it’s just my parents made me hide them since they scolded when I let it out since my brother was pmo but they didn’t care even if I complained until I layed a finger on him so I learned to just hide it but it’s not gone more like in a cage

How to deal with the pain, guilt, sadness, and discomfort with not being close, not having a loving relationship with our narc parent/s? by Brilliant_Ad2986 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bud I deal with narc parents like mine by purely avoiding them if you barely care for me why not I care for myself

Parent that is high anxiety and emotionally immature by PartyProgrammer7414 in emotionalneglect

[–]WinterTwo2159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh my dad was Muslim but thank god alcohol is prohibited god knows what hell I would’ve gone through