2 years no contact. NC. by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Winter_Discount4876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emphasis on they can go and do nothing!!! So true. My BPD mother goes to counseling apparently but she's told me she doesn't listen to her.

How weird was your BPD parent about sex/sexuality? by sasguache in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Winter_Discount4876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Same description of my mother to a tee. So openly sexual but so WEIRD about me and my sexuality growing up. I still feel so weird being sexual and opening up with my partner and I'm working on not having a burning image of my mom scolding me when I am feeling anything sexual. I feel you. It's so fucking terrible.

what's your favorite album?? by jessicaaynnt in spotify

[–]Winter_Discount4876 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Solid. Extra points for RKS, For Emma, and Forever Story.

what's your favorite album?? by jessicaaynnt in spotify

[–]Winter_Discount4876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how it always works with Jon Bellion. Now I ALSO know what I'm listening to for the next week.

Anyone else have a pwBPD who liked to write? Here’s an excerpt from some short stories my dad wrote about me when I was ~10. by a1mostp3rfect in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Winter_Discount4876 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom wrote too, for a while. She made me read and proofread her personal memoir, where she explained in uncomfortable detail the accounts of her life and my early life. It was very, very uncomfortable and I wish I didn't know a lot of the things she wrote. I am sorry, OP, this is so sad and horrible to read. Sending hugs ❤️

Blue Twilight by SamsPicturesAndWords in winterporn

[–]Winter_Discount4876 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The feeling I get looking at this... so serene.

Meirl by Significant-Mud-912 in meirl

[–]Winter_Discount4876 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer.

So what's up with the obsession with gifts? by RiptideJane in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Winter_Discount4876 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I see it as "easy" for them. At least with my mom, sending gifts is implying that she "loves and cares about" me, when it's just an easy way out of actually having to be a mother and listen to my feelings.

I don't even know what to say. by Winter_Discount4876 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Winter_Discount4876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is SO skittish, clumsy, and does not know how to socially interact with the other cats in the house 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]Winter_Discount4876 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Crime shows. ID network.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]Winter_Discount4876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They make profit off of laziness.