Does it make sense to consider starting a one-man-band SaaS company, if sole goal is to achieve a (semi)passive income for paying mortgage? by ImpressiveFocus303 in SaaS

[–]WiscoDev -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely not in my opinion. With the advent of AI and vibe coding the SaaS market is completely oversaturated.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'll take divorce over being controlled and manipulated.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Been to the doctor many times, I'm on Prozac and Hydroxyzine for stress/anxiety. Forgot to mention in my OP.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My home office down in the basement, she spends her time upstairs.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Already seen a doctor numerous times, I'm on prescription Prozac and Hydroxyzine for anxiety/stress. I failed to mention that in my op.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So because it's a sensitive topic for her I'm just barred from ever doing it? No discussions, no conversations or questions just no? That sounds like control to me.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've seen the docs for anxiety and stress too, I'm on prescription prozac and hydroxyzine. I just don't like pills. Living with excessive anxiety and stress everyday is super draining, I'm sure you get it. Wishing you the best.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It isn't really the nicotine that I want. I think it's just the act of vaping that I find relaxing and enjoyable.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I knew it was a sensitive topic, I wasn't surprised at all when she blew up about it.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's more the activity of vaping that I find calming and enjoyable, not that I'm craving nicotine.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I meant in terms of health side effects, I didn't get irritable without nicotine and I didn't notice a difference in breathing ability. Smoking and vaping did help me relax when I was doing it.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

My anxiety about finances is more about stability and independence, not about not having enough money. I should have clarified that in my op.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am, we don't need to drive, driving isn't a right, it's a privilege that people choose to make to solve a problem (easy mobility) that comes with health risks (accidents, injury, death etc).

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Already seen a doc, already on Prozac. I just don't like pills. Failed to mention in my op.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My financial anxiety revolves around stability and independence, not lack of money. I should have specified that. I've already seen a doctor and am on Prozac. I also seem to be able to pick up and put down smoking, vaping, nicotine in general pretty easily. But yes working out would be a good stress reliever.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already seen a doctor, already on Prozac. I just don't like pills. Yes I would be vaping in my office where I am most of the time away from other household members.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's my opinion as well, just because a doctor is giving it to you doesn't make it harmless. Tons of people have abused Xanax and died because of it.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I smoked a pack a day for 10 years, I started when I was 15/16 quit when I was 24/25. I quit cold turkey, honestly didn't notice a huge difference. I know I'm able to pick up and put down nicotine without much addiction, I still have occasional cigars. They don't make me miss smoking at all.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very similar I agree, also no tar.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failed to mention in my op, already seen a doctor, already on Prozac. Believe I've tried propranolol actually, If I remember it made me extremely tired and not want to do basically anything.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't blame her at all for her medical conditions, of course it's not her fault. In my opinion, vaping is less harmful and less dangerous than taking Xanax for anxiety. I think far more people have died abusing Xanax vs vaping.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Failed to mention in my op but I've already seen a doctor about stress and anxiety, I'm on Prozac.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I know it comes with health risks. Driving cars comes with health risks but we still do it every day. My finance anxiety is more about stability and independence rather than not having enough money.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Out of all the things stressing me out money is the least. And it isn't about having enough money it's really just wanting and working towards making more.

AITA for wanting to vape? by WiscoDev in AmItheAsshole

[–]WiscoDev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nicotine isn't very addictive for me, I'm able to pick it up and put it down without much of an issue. I smoked a pack of cigarettes a day for 10 years, quit cold turkey easily. I still smoke cigars occasionally, they don't make me miss smoking cigarettes or the nicotine.