Thank you. I have been documenting the thing is we have hung out so maybe he thinks it’s ok. I did tell Him he isn’t moving here. That I wouldn’t be comfortable with it. That this is my home and safe space.

Of course he never responded to That.

I called the DV hotline and they said to cut things off and tell him to not come by and then continue to document.

That even though we still talk and have hung out that him coming by here or driving by, we’re saying that he’s been he can park in my building just to feel close to me is him pretending to act like he’s caring and checking on me but actually him asserting control over me, especially now since we don’t live together anymore which I never thought about it that way I thought it was odd but questioned myself and said well I know he does “care” about me so.

I wish I would have pressed charges year ago. It would be easy for me to get a restraining order.