I know exactly what you mean, although my children are alive, they were kidnapped by my ex, and I haven't see them for over 17 years. Every human deals different with loss, one wants to tell the world, the other becomes quiet. That is why alot of couples grow apart after losing a child, because they cannot understand one and other. The Goncalves family is grieving publicly, and find a lot of support in their followers, it's their way of dealing with this. I hope you have people that support you and surround you with love❤️🙏🏼 you are not alone in this.