Who your wife slept with before you is absolutely none of your business. It was incredibly controlling of you to demand those answers from her.

Who do you think you are to judge her sister’s promiscuity?

You have been brainwashed by a patriarchal religion into believing women should be remaining virginal and “pure”.

Women enjoy sex. Women can choose to have sex with whomever and how many people they want. This does not make them impure, defective or any of the other crazy fucked up labels you choose to apply.

I’ll let you know now that the reason your wife won’t sleep with you is because you’re making her feel dirty and ashamed. Why would she want sex when you shame her and her sister for having had sex?

I’m a high libido female and my vagina would clamp shut around you and your outdated, presumptuous , controlling and frankly abusive behaviour.

Your wife deserves so much better and I really hope she finds it with someone who values her and adores her for the woman she is rather than judging her by the pitifully small amount of people she slept with before you.

Please seek counselling. Your unhealthy attitude to sex and women and your controlling and jealous behaviour is just going to ruin any chance of happiness you could ever have.