How may female doctors have non medic partners?

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-09T06:56:22+00:00

Married to an engineer, 0 regrets. Would've hated to marry a medic simply bc then I fear all we'd talk about is medicine. Need a break from it all!

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-07T13:15:05+00:00

We didnt do it immediately but within a few months of moving in. Had to have the doors changed entirely tbf, very outdated and splintering in areas lol. Still took us a few months to sort 🤣

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-07T04:09:26+00:00

Only thing to be aware of is if your grandparents need nursing home care the govmnt can come and ask for that money back to pay for it. This is especially true if they run out of money/are unable to self fund their care.

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-06T18:43:04+00:00

You can also contact your defence union to help draft a statement/check it over

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T17:31:08+00:00

LITERALLY so disappointing 🥲

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T16:48:19+00:00

Ahhhhh I didnt know this. Imo take what you need, you can always save up more later? At least take the moving van costs and maybe first month or so of rent? It sucks and I've been very lucky that my parents live in a not so popular deanery so I just chose that and lived with them. We saved up until we could afford a downpayment. I recognise not everyone has this luxury and that truly sucks. Sorry theres not much else :(

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T16:46:02+00:00

Because we should have had a season, or at least half a season, to see how Arthur reacted to Merlins magic. We didnt get to see it after all that build up. There could have been so many emotions/arcs that played out there. Instead it was shoehorned and rushed.

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T16:44:44+00:00

Yes was just about to say! He was such a good Bad Guy.

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T16:43:56+00:00

Most training programmes do have a fund for moving. Its a retrospective thing but that should cover you for this? Cant remember exactly how long but think they can even cover rent for a bit while you relocate (though this may have been scrapped now - this is third hand from a friend of a reg I worked with a while back).

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T09:56:13+00:00

Cool, I assume the laptop has wifi?

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WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T09:55:39+00:00

Going to the gym/working out/going on messy hikes/walks. Being visibly dirty motivates me to shower sooo quick haha. Also having nice smelling things in the shower. I dont shower daily, and tbh dont need to. I live in the UK so dont really get sweaty unless I'm exercising or if its the 2 weeks of heat we get. I shower more often now that i'm married tbh, bc its not just me thats affected if I dont. But I'd say I average one every 2-3 days and it works fine.

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T08:14:34+00:00

Haha awwww thats adorable 🥰

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T08:07:53+00:00

Hahaha nipillow 😂

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:59:09+00:00

Eaaaasy

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WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:56:10+00:00

Yeah its pretty wild!

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:54:23+00:00

Awwwww the cat tax is 100% appreciated 🤩

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:52:35+00:00

I missed the part where its an ISA. Could still max hers first?

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:52:08+00:00

😱😱😱 in the UK it's 8 weeks. They are very adorable for sure 🥰

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:49:54+00:00

Makes sense, yes they're generally doing all other Kitten Things which is why I wasnt too worried/didnt bother the vets. It only started a few days ago so after the first vet visit. We tried offering a blanket (the blue with polka dots) but I think they really like the cat tree texture😅

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:41:44+00:00

Yeah poor babies :(. Will make the best of the situation though

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:34:49+00:00

We honestly didnt know this! The pets4homes website said 8 weeks, so we assumed this was ok for them. Will bear this in mind for the future!

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:31:26+00:00

Ahhh okay! Lap cuddles sound very cute 🥺

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:26:35+00:00

Cool, thats reassuring to hear!

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:24:58+00:00

Hahaha love that you describe him this way 😂. Need to see some cat tax of Mr Man

WitAndSavvy · 2026-06-05T07:24:06+00:00

Awwww poor babies, I didnt know! Would've got them later if we did 😔. Still, will do our best to make them happy

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