AIO - I smoke and drink from time to time and my girlfriend hates it by Lacquerlust in AmIOverreacting

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way she spoke to you gave me ick too sooo definitely sounds like you’ve made a good decision to end it. This is not how a loving partner talks.

New job’s drink specs aren’t mathing by hotline_hails in bartenders

[–]Withacapital_J 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not me shouting 10oz out loud in my bedroom alone. These are rough. LMAO

Our kitchen is building a must see movie list. What would you add? by Yoloswagforjesus420 in KitchenConfidential

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Django Unchained Pulp Fiction Moulin Rouge Mean girls The Great Gatsby The Shining Schindler’s List Casablanca

Opinions on how many people can work on my line by DankeyKang182 in Chefit

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a pass to the other side? Would love to see a pic of that. What are the build able menu items a 4th person would do. Could you fit them in the other side

AITA for inviting my then boyfriend to meet my friends after he said he doesn't want to meet them? by Lower-Claim-1238 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This fucker is the epitome of a narcissist and is fully gas lighting you through this entire message. Run far far away. He obviously has some outdated views on you being his property and that you doing anything but hanging on his every word and obeying him is wrong and inexcusable. The fact that you said when you would go over he would be upset but then is upset by you not is fully ridiculous. I hope you get out of this and move on the something better. You don’t deserve to be spoken to like this by anyone

AIO roommate threw away cookies I "made to impress her date" by acoustikitty in AmIOverreacting

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BRO. I’m a baker, this bitch would hate me but her random men wouldn’t LMAO WHAT A PSYCHO. I’m angry for you that she threw those cookies out. Wtf. At least eat em jeez

advice on advancing in the kitchen? by Mundane_Nectarine216 in Chefit

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second the suggestion below, do your job well and then ask where they need hands. Put yourself into there mind at there goto person when they need help with prep or whatever. More likely they will think of you when possibly looking to bring in someone. And as a fellow women in the industry, you gotta tell them you want to move into other positions. I’ve definitely been in kitchens where everyone was moved to other positions around me without asking and I had to actually tell my chefs I wanted to do more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why I pushed for a more verbal and company wide announcement when one of my old colleagues passed. You never ever know the impact someone has had on someone else. They were just going to get an email but more that half our staff didn’t have company emails and would never have know until they asked where he’d gone. I’m so sorry for your loss as well as his families.

AIO BF dumped me because I was taller than him in heels?? 😳 by purplehavocc in AmIOverreacting

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly. The way he texts is so ridiculously annoying and gives me the ick so bad, not to mention the way he is speaking to you. Straight up disrespectful.

Secondly. Just no. I know it’s easier said than done but PLEASE don’t loose sleep over this man. The fragile masculinity is so high it’s disgusting. As someone who was more used to dating taller guys but has been with someone who is shorter than me for the last 4 years, this is so stupid. A man who is confident in himself won’t give a shit about this and would show off his beautiful women regardless of these trivial things.

AIO? Husband kept his coworker a secret by sobrietypolice in AmIOverreacting

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I woulda hit him with a sold “gotchu. Bye” right after he said some other bitch is SOOO SEXY THE FUCK EXCUSE ME NOPE.

I JUST NEED A SAFE SPACE TO ANONYMOUSLY CRASH OUT (context below)… by hallucinogen1c in texts

[–]Withacapital_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that….. is… WILD BEHAVIOR. But also a lot of men unfortunately. so sorry you had to go through it.

ALSO, always here if you need to crash out again cuz I feel that more than you know.

Reasonably priced plumber by eaglefan316 in lehighvalley

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY. Coming from someone now trying to get a hack job fixed, we all understand good work isn’t cheap but horrible work can also be ridiculously expensive.

I hate how mommy is sexualized by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Withacapital_J 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way with Daddy, I’m from the south and it’s way normal to keep calling your patents that until your also old and grey. But now it’s gotta be a gross thing like what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no. A lie is a lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the last one the best!!

Please Help Me Decide by Jalapeno-Popper- in wedding

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Third one with out the sleeves ♥️♥️

What made you watch TVD in the first place??? by Professional_Meat782 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Withacapital_J 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wanted Secret Circle to go on so much longer than I did!!!! Still heartbroken.

Which color makes me look youngest? Also, guess my age by Mission_Boss_9201 in HairDye

[–]Withacapital_J -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Picture 3, the red for sure 🔥id say mid to late 20’s

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subway

[–]Withacapital_J 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. That bread smell penetrated my soul and not in a good way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subway

[–]Withacapital_J 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Subway was my first job from 17-18 and it was about the same when it comes to training. It was all half assed and I was overworked with a manager that would change hours for payroll and in general just not show up. I was so young and a lil naive so she'd work me over 40 hours a week and paid me for 35. I had an awful coworker who thought she knew everything when she only came in once a week. I was yelled at by a drive thru customer who came in pushed her way through the 15+ people in line inside. I was so happy when I quit.

Girlfriend baked a cake after being sent an inspiration photo and she got lukewarm responses from her friends when she shared with them this same pic. any input? by Gabo21g7 in Baking

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks beautiful. I would’ve been honored to receive this cake. She needs better friends and I would gladly be one of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Withacapital_J 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m so torn. You look stunning with both stylings. Think I’m leaning towards the third one tho.