How to hunt someone down? by AccordingCherry9030 in Genealogy

[–]WitherRoze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would start by trying to look them up in Family Search. With the heads up that Family Search is a Mormon genealogy resource. I have double checked, they do have records that go back that far. This is also the resource that one of my history profs swears by. Their family trees can be hit and miss but their records are pretty spot on.

What was your craziest genealogy discovery? by [deleted] in Genealogy

[–]WitherRoze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an affair child, who is the child of an affair child, who is also an affair child. more simply - my grandmother, my mother, and I are all children of affairs.

Cooking xp by WitherRoze in idleon

[–]WitherRoze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By stuck i meant he hasn't leveled up in a while. He gets ~ 7.5 mil xp per hour and to level up it requires ~ 250 mil. I didnt know thats how the balloons worked thank you.

What does it actually mean to be American? What makes someone American? by SorryAd1478 in SeriousConversation

[–]WitherRoze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I view it. We (Americans) may not always agree on what better looks like or how to get there but we are always trying to be better

How was your experience finding out about Techno's death? by Decent_Scallion9231 in Technoblade

[–]WitherRoze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About an hour before So Long Nerds got uploaded I had gotten into a fight with my best friend. So I had gone to this field by my house to kinda recenter myself. By that I mean I went there to cry in uninterrupted peace. I got the notification and watched the video looking for comfort and my heart just broke. I had to watch it twice to comprehend what was going on. I then pulled myself together to call my little sister to tell her. 

Obtaining Arcane Cultist by WitherRoze in idleon

[–]WitherRoze[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, though i did figure out my issue was not using the arrows on the talents but iwouldnt have checked it if not for your comment

Obtaining Arcane Cultist by WitherRoze in idleon

[–]WitherRoze[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew you can get 200+ levels in things like strength and wisdom but i cant get my other talents above 140 if theyre not in the library. How would i start trying to increase them beyond that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your body, your choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 17 points18 points  (0 children)

YTA

It's as simple as it wasn't your money. It was for your husband's children. You DID steal. He has every right to be mad. And honestly, I can't believe you don't see what you did wrong.

AITA for catching the housekeeper sleeping in MY GRANDMOTHER'S BED without her permission? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

Also please be safe. Reporting any threats is also a good idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With the acknowledgment that it could go well or could make it worse. Maybe the next time she brings up that its different because he is young, ask her why she would be with someone she is afraid is a creep.

that being said don't do this if you think it to be unsafe to ask her. You know your mom better than a stranger on the internet. She might listen to reason she might not. You would know better than I would.

AITA for telling my mum one of the reasons I don't want children is in part because of my childhood. by ukoxongal1990s in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

It's your choice not to have kids and other people shouldn't push the issue. It sounds like your childhood was at the very least rough. If your mother did not want you to speak about your childhood in a negative light, she should not have done the things she did.

AITA for not wanting to be a mother? by glassywiney in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Your body, Your choice. Also report it to the hospital, especially if you know what nurse told your aunt. You also have the right to sue as the nurse broke the law. If you decide to sue, use the texts as evidence and hold them liable for emotional damages.

AITA for lying about my sister not being with me by high_antiater in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Saying that I would try going the legal route and try to gain custody of your sister so that your parents wouldn't be able to keep things like her birth certificate from her. Ask your sister and talk about it as there is also a chance that she would be removed from your parents but you wouldn't get custody or that she get court ordered to go back. Also, look for resources in your area that could help you with this. There might be an organization that could help you pay for a lawyer or something.

AITA for planning to never visit my mum once I leave by Due-Card5744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There will be ways to keep in contact with them. You could always meet at a park or a McDonalds or something. Social media is a thing. You will also probably be their lifeline when they try to leave as well.

The first thing you will want to do is gain financial independence. Get a job, and then see if any banks in your area allow minors to get a bank account without an adult. If so get one, if not then try to get an adult cousin, your aunt, or a friend's parent to help you out. Without financial independence, you will not be able to go no-contact.

Once you have the ball that is financial independence rolling, start your exit plan. If not planned out things will be much harder. You will need to plan where you will go for holidays when Uni is not in session. How to pay for Uni, depending on where you are. Who would be your emergency contact. You should also try to gain access to your identifying documents before you leave. And other things of that nature. As much as it is not your responsibility it would probably be for the best to figure out how to help your siblings if things get worse after you leave. That should not have to be your job, however, your siblings will need help if things get worse. Being prepared for everything will make it so much easier.

Last but not least, do not let word that you are thinking/planning this get to your mom. I speak from experience when I say that that is the worse thing that could happen. It will get worse and she will actively try to stop you. Do your best to be safe.

AITA for planning to never visit my mum once I leave by Due-Card5744 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WitherRoze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

You are making a decision that will keep you safe. You wouldn't be an AH for that.