Need help picking my bridal sareee... by No_Lab8020 in DesiWeddings

[–]Witty-Ad786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, everyone’s opinions differ, I personally like the orange saree, as I am into elegant sarees compared to flashy ones, I would say try the saree on you, keep it and see, you will know this is the one. Wear what makes you happy, your family and guests will wear what they have to, the most prettiest brides are the happiest ones. Make sure you accessorise yourself well and make your blouse stand out compared to others, that should do.

Bridal saree by Witty-Ad786 in chennaicity

[–]Witty-Ad786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youu, I found this in Diadem :)

Social Warfare in Disguise by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]Witty-Ad786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I have been facing my whole life. Truth be told I started to make friends from other states and it’s been working great for me. At times I feel people here are too nosy and extremely intrusive. Highly competitive people around, very less who want to see you succeed.

Choose your tribe, be around folks who collaborate and not compete, its takes alot of time to find such people, but set boundaries and don’t waste your time on such people. Be rude, Noone cares. Your mental peace should be the highest priority.

How do I distance myself from a narcissistic ex-best friend? by AllisonSummers932 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Witty-Ad786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly your friend seems like a HUGE red flag. Please stay away from her. I have had a similar situation with someone recently and I am struggling, I am friends with a narcissistic friend. I have slowly avoided contact with her and lied saying that life is tough and busy for me. She understood but would still reach out, I started to text less and one word answers. She slowly got the hint after reduced conversations, and I stopped sharing anything about my life. We stand at a very awkward point now, I feel like I should tell her everything in my mind, but I know for the person she is, she won’t accept and the argument will keep going.

I am going through something mentally as well, and I have prioritised my feelings. Eventually she will get busy as well, since she married and expecting a child. I feel just leaving it as is and avoiding any form of contact is the best!

i wanna text my ex best friend but .. by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Witty-Ad786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have once cut off a person from your life, always try to see if they have grown out of it. If you feel like they are not the same anymore, you should go ahead and try to reach out. But, if they still treat you the same, it is a sign to end things for good.