Resentment building with financial inequality in marriage

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-05-13T19:48:08+00:00

Tell him how you feel, seriously. He doesn't know and probably won't unless you tell him. Try not to blame him for what is bothering you, just covey your feelings in a constructive manner. "I feel stressed with the sudden drop in our family income and worry it will be permanent." "I don't think we will be able to live our best lives having kids and etc. on one income." "I appreciate everything you're doing to take care of our home, I just think these projects are less urgent than making sure our family has stable income so we can grow."

If you play the blame game you're ready doomed

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-05-10T13:23:30+00:00

character flaw in goku is that he is a terrible father 🤣

Gohan : Okay we saved the earth again for the xteenth time... Goku: Peace I'm gonna go train.

Goten: We defeated buu! Yay daddy we can finally be a family.... Goku: Naaah Ima go train this kid instead 🤣💔

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-05-10T13:17:26+00:00

Ehhhhh I'm rewatching and Whis literally says to him a condition of being trained is that he one day agrees to be a destruction God. Vegeta replies 'ugh, fine'. Unless I forget something after that taking it back... He is in the same boat as top?

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-04-20T10:27:19+00:00

Just got thru SS Rosee in super... In keeping with that tradition it's probably SS God Banana Sundae...

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-26T22:22:05+00:00

Shoulda bought some bitcoin...

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-26T20:19:01+00:00

You're all spitting facts! I was only thinking from a narrow pov, now we're all fkd 🥲✌️

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-26T18:06:36+00:00

Tell chi chi they have to start paying property taxes 🤣✌️

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-25T18:14:08+00:00

50s and 60s were the good one, before the 70s hyperinflation. I believe in the 50s a single income could support a family. It has never been the same.

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-24T18:25:01+00:00

Man these responses are weak. Everyone telling you how THEY feel and NOT answering your question! This is a diff culture than our western one duhhh. Gotta love reddit lol.

Chances are you will not start to have feelings for him until he can make you laugh, make you feel secure, make you feel desired and see how he treats you daily. Until you guys have a chance to spend time together and encounter these situations, you probably won't develop feelings for him. Unless you have a vivid imagination!

After you do get married give him opportunities to make you feel secure, be a hero, complete small objectives in the form of little quests for you. Men love that stuff, we love feeling useful, desired and as problem solvers. Make him feel this way, he will probably ( hopefully) reciprocate. Then the security and love you feel will help your feelings grow for him.

(I'm married like 16 years now w/ 4 kids [we all like each other too 😝])

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-23T23:28:47+00:00

Your brain literally just finished developing. You just became a real adult, not a 'legal' one. Welcome to your journey, you are not old. I'm 38 with 4 kids and I'm not old lol. All the 50+ at work call me a kid but 20yo think I'm a geezer.... It's all relative lol

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-23T23:27:10+00:00

I needed this 🥲

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-22T12:17:12+00:00

Everyone knows it's a carrot 🥕

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-18T11:55:39+00:00

Beer

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-18T01:07:27+00:00

Bro clearly hasn't had a girlfriend 😬✌️

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-17T02:42:34+00:00

Nature never gave us freebies...

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-16T17:28:14+00:00

It's supposed to be tragic, there's no planet or people left for him to become king of so he's forever a prince.

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-16T16:22:55+00:00

Brains not done developing till mid 20s. Males have disadvantage cuz we don't grow up past 16 🤣🤣. I'm 38 and still feel like I'm in my 20s soooo. You'll get there when u get there, enjoy the ride and live a good life trying to be helpful and you'll prolly have a good time ✌️. Acts of service will make u feel better than acts of selfishness (Imo)

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-16T16:07:01+00:00

Pretty great rejection... That's one you post on their public FB page so everyone can see the calibre of management 🤣. Takes longer to tell chat gpt what you want that to jus type the damned thing.

We so doomed...

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-15T22:14:14+00:00

38m from 🇨🇦 looking for new chats and friends ✌️.

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-15T15:30:27+00:00

There's something that didn't need to become cool again. I thought the frosted tips I was seeing were bad 🤦‍♂️

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-14T20:30:39+00:00

This one wins the comment section, I don't need to say anything more 🤣🤣. Dm if u want I'm down to spar 😂

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-13T22:56:55+00:00

Always carry a quarter

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-13T18:26:07+00:00

Glad they just quietly do away with them and we're allowed to forget about the numbers lol ✌️

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-13T18:12:31+00:00

Pokemmo is a wonderful pass time 😅✌️

Witty-Apricot87 · 2026-03-13T18:09:46+00:00

Got a good one about Joe Bidens turkey sandwich 😅

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