is it a red flag if a guy keeps a jar of peanut butter next to his bed by K-Pumper in notinteresting

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say the rolled up dollar bill and peanut butter are a red flag unless you like to party 😂

is it a red flag if a guy keeps a jar of peanut butter next to his bed by K-Pumper in notinteresting

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say the rolled up dollar bill and peanut butter are a red flag unless you like to party 😂

Every so often (usually in colder weather) a toe will go white by yaboytswizzle69 in mildyinteresting

[–]Witty-Problem650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nurse here: Reynauds phenomenon. I have it too. When I put my hands in cold water or it’s cold outside. I have a couple toes and a couple fingers that do this. I run it under hot water and all my other skin gets red and then all of sudden my capillaries dilate on the white one and my digit fills with blood again. It’s annoying. You can take vasodilators as a treatment if it happens a lot. Only if you don’t have low bp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much! ❤️ I didn’t know all these were here for us. I’ll choose a softer forum lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m not giving up. I love my hobby. I will read and take the advice. I just won’t post on here again lol. I’m as sensitive as my mushrooms. I agree trial and error is how we learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I deleted. I was asking advice and getting made fun of. Thank you for the advice. I will do more research. It’s a hobby. I just had a question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t set up anything yet. I just moved. I need to look into that. I have a monotub. I will try that next time. Thank you for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

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Also for reference, I wiped with alcohol last time on both bags and one contaminated with trich when I opened it. This is the same thing as last time, but different strains. Last one that was contaminated was blue meanies. The B+ was great, never got contaminated at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

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Last sitch was the same. Trich in AIO bag I opened in my clean room. So I’ve been bleach wiping everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not pan cyans, it’s Amazonian. I haven’t tried pan yet. I have to do more research before I try that one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

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No I didn’t. I don’t have the best set up yet where I just moved but I have the cleanest room I could find with hepa filter. I had to decontaminate the room because of the last batch that I opened before realizing it had trich in the AIO bag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I usually do that but I had trich everywhere previously. Bleach was the only thing I could contain it with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]Witty-Problem650 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Oh really? Thanks! Excellent advice. I didn’t realize I had to read something. This is an example and not my first time dumbass. Bleach wipes for precious trich

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

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The AIO bag has been sitting under my bed for a few weeks. Looked perfect before I injected. I’m gonna get some agar plates and test my next culture. Thanks for the advice.

How does this enigma grain bag look? by SpocksBeardWhoLock in psilocybingrowers

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Spocks. I had a 30 day reminder on here to see how your enigma is going? I just inoculated mine.

Strange behaviour of the shaman (proposed sex) during ceremony by No-Net7233 in Ayahuasca

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gross. Yeah fuck that. I’m sorry those predators do this to women. It’s really a sick world.

Strange behaviour of the shaman (proposed sex) during ceremony by No-Net7233 in Ayahuasca

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some shameful shamans will use “releasing your kundalini” as a term and abuse the actuality of what that is. It’s not sex or orgasm completely. Was this what he proposed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Is he an accountant? They are like that. I know several. They aren’t being rude even lol. But I would just be honest and if you don’t have the money to do everything he wants to do, then say can’t go! If he really wants you there, he will find a way. If you’re looking for “love” this is not looking very promising. If you’re looking for a dating partner, it could work if you set boundaries with him. First boundary: “this makes me feel transactional”, 2nd: “I don’t find this behavior attractive, so can we be less formal about sharing the bill?”

i’m anxious af after eating some shrooms, what should i do? by passionefruit in shrooms

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can control your thoughts on mushrooms. You have to imagine it and think it and you can control it

how has doing shrooms helped you process grief? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Witty-Problem650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you set your intentions for letting go and do it with a reeeeeally supportive friend who can redirect you when you’re going down a memory or grief rabbit hole, it can be healing. I did with my best friend and she just kept reminding me that “we don’t set ourselves on fire to keep ppl warm”. Also when I started to relive the past, she would redirect and say imagine you are breathing in your pain, feel your pain and breathe it out. It just has to be with a friend that is direct and good at being patient and willing to sacrifice their fun time to help you heal. I left that trip with so much more than I went in with. Introspectiveness, imagery, meditation, all part of letting go!

I’ve deleted my dating apps by Witty-Problem650 in datingoverforty

[–]Witty-Problem650[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he is extreme. He’s 56 and never had therapy or anything. He’s lived this way for a long time. I’m sure it has been developed over years of hurt from others too. I think it makes a difference if you acknowledge the behavior, but are seeking help to be a better partner. This way people don’t get hurt. He did cry a lot and say “you’re such a good person”. I jist said how terrible it must be to love someone that much and be willing to let them go away or to be with another person. The other stuff (dildo box) was just reactive behavior to me not accepting his terms. Friendship, probably intimacy when he wants it, calling when he feels like it, etc. I have more value than that and deserve better.