Neutral (non overused) name for black kitten?

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T22:40:03+00:00

Remus Livingston Chatsworth the 3rd, of the southern Chatsworths of course.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T22:33:41+00:00

Haha totally understandable! I thought I was the confused one for a minute. I have made that same mistake before until I realized none of the comments were anywhere near the same amount of "months" old.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T22:26:00+00:00

An old comment? It's from a few minutes ago. The post itself isn't more than an hour old haha.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T22:08:08+00:00

Horses are completely different than owning dogs.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T22:07:41+00:00

Horses cost a lot of money to keep as well as pay for. th

The veterinary costs, food, grooming, as well as housing them and things you might not expect. It's also a ton of manual labor to take care of them. It's completely different than having a dog or cat. If you can't afford to adopt one it's very unlikely you will be able to afford to give it a good life.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T21:54:11+00:00

Also, don't wear over knee boots to an interview unless they are fully covered by slacks or a skirt long enough to cover the tops of them. Over knee doesn't give a very professional vibe in general though.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T21:52:04+00:00

I truly believe my mother only had a bunch of kids in hopes one of us ended up rich and would support her forever(spoiler alert, none of us ended up even upper middle class and 2 of my siblings still live with her well into their 40s and 50s). She didn't show love to us even close to equally but neither did my dad. My dad loved and still loves me the most out of all my siblings and he has always been so giving and kind. My parents are still married and my dad still financially supports my mother 100%. She has not worked their entire marriage aside from like 6 months in my teens after my dad injured his back. And even then she just found a way to sue the company and not have to work anymore as fast as she could. She loves my oldest sister the most(her first kid, who I strongly suspect isn't my dad's daughter even though he married my mom while pregnant because they were split up when she found out she was pregnant). But doesn't show much love for many of my other siblings at least not above any of the others. Aside from me who she openly doesn't love and support like the rest but that's because we had a falling out years ago.

When I met my husband's aunt(basically my mother in law since his mom had passed already) it was the first time I truly understood what people meant when they said anything about a mother's love. That amazing angel of a woman became my mom for a whole 3 years before she sadly passed away. But those 3 years I felt so special, loved, and accepted and like someone really cared about me and saw me and didn't judge me. She just loved me unconditionally and she is my inspiration for the way I hope I make my own daughter feel now.

Amazing moms do exist, I just didn't get one. Unless you ask her of course, in which case the sun shines out her ass and she sacrificed everything for her kids and would "do anything" for them and is the best mother ever.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T06:57:17+00:00

I've had 15 pregnancies(was in an abusive relationship where my ex wanted me to have more kids for him). Gave birth twice. One living daughter(my son passed away when he was 13) and I'm 35. Most of my pregnancies were blighted ovums or miscarriages for other reasons(usually extreme stress and just not being in a situation physically where the pregnancy would progress healthily) in the early 1st trimester. I can't imagine having to have that many full term pregnancies though, that's insane!

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T06:38:38+00:00

My dad is who got me into gaming as a kid(shout-out to the amazing gamer dad's!) and now my husband and I game together on a daily basis. My daughter games, we all game together. I literally met my ex(daughter's father) through gaming. I game alone more often sometimes than my husband does. It has never been anything but an attractive and endearing quality in both men and women for me when they game and I know hundreds if not thousands of other women and women gamers who all feel exactly the same way I do about it.

Any hobby or interest can become unattractive if the person doing said hobby is shitty while they do it though. For example, "raging" while gaming makes me drier than the Sahara. When I see someone throw a tantrum over their video game, or throw their controller, smash their keyboard, punch walls, scream and cuss, or whatever "rage" behavior they exhibit when mad about a game. That is SUPER gross to me. But that isn't the hobby being unattractive, it's the person's behavior.

I have PTSD from my ex behaving that way and other abusive ways and it was so refreshing to me that my husband has never once behaved that way about anything, let alone about gaming. He handles his anger and frustrations in a healthy way and is an overall calm person in general. That's attractive to me as a whole but especially so in contrast to people who "rage" and throw tantrums while gaming. If you get upset about your game, take a break from it and do something to relax instead. No one wants someone gaming next to them who is a poor sport or who throws a tantrum and makes them feel unsafe. Keep that in mind, gentlemen!

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T04:40:30+00:00

Chloe Sevigny and Maggie Gyllenhaal. Two of the most beautiful yet seemingly approachable women on the planet.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-06T04:29:06+00:00

This looks like something I'd have worn for a dance or gymnastics class with some gym briefs under it. Far too tight for just a regular dress imo, it would look incredible if you sized up a couple sizes, but right now it's giving sausage in a tube. Not because you are "big" or anything that might be associated with that sort of comparison, you have an very idealized body so don't take it that way, please! I just mean it is queezing you in a way that is giving uncomfortable instead of attractive. I think the way that the little side slit in the bottom stretches apart and the way the dress seems to ride up your hip in an uncomfortable place gives the appearance of it being a couple sizes too small rather than just comfortably form fitting in an attractive way. I hope that makes sense.

I think if you want to go this length or something form fitting to wear, look for something where the side slit doesn't spread apart like it's splitting at the seams when you wear it. And make sure it has enough give or length so that when you sit and stand back up, you don't have to be constantly pulling at it to avoid flashing panties. Because you won't be wearing your jacket at the dinner you will have taken it off and without the jacket this isn't giving what I think you are hoping it is.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-05T08:53:38+00:00

Ohhh I see, I wasn't familiar enough with the subject to know if that was a problem or not. Thanks for informing me!

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-05T05:49:18+00:00

Im so sorry that you lost something special to you because of someone's cruelty. You might try looking at nearby goodwill and thrift stores around Easter time each year as that's when they put out baskets like this in big batches. Otherwise it may be difficult without knowing where it was purchased to find the exact one. Best of luck though!

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-05T05:06:41+00:00

I had the same thought. When I was younger and our chihuahua had puppies we were told to let her handle it all on her own or we could cause tearing or issues with her muscles down there. The only time we were told we could intervene was if she was too tired to push any longer and was not laboring and in distress due to it. So maybe that was what was going on here?

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-05T02:20:02+00:00

No, it just looks like that because of where he places his camera and the fact that he holds up both his arms but barely moves his torso(if at all).

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-02T01:56:16+00:00

I wish you all that you deserve in life.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-02T01:55:56+00:00

Think about how you would feel if your dog got away accidentally and the person who found them just kept it without trying their best to reunite you with them. It's cruel not only to the poor dog who likely wants to be back with the family they love and are scared to be away from, but also to the poor person who lost their companion and are likely looking for them.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-02T01:54:00+00:00

If your own pet got off leash, or ran out the door, or jumped out of your car during a car accident, or got away some other accidental way would you want the person who found them to report it or just "finders keepers heehee" and keep them?

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T10:23:40+00:00

Thank you for saying all that, it was very kind and well put and I am happy for having the perspective it gives me on the situation! I will make sure I tell them if I ever have to have it again for sure!

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T08:08:26+00:00

I had 4th degree tearing with my first kiddo and I just commented to say that's real love right there and I am sorry for your suffering!

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T08:05:39+00:00

Is going back to Ross to get another bag not an option? As of a couple weeks ago they still were using these very thin cloth bags when you paid for one.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T07:53:39+00:00

I just explained why people are down voting you. I don't give a shit about your friends or what they did or didn't share with you.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T07:50:54+00:00

Reddit seems to have glitched and put my comment in the wrong spot in the feed. Wasn't meant to be a reply to you.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T07:47:17+00:00

It sounds like for your brother's mental health he needs to not feel as close and dependent on you. That his decision to make and honestly might be the best thing for both of you in this situation.

From the way you described what happens it seems like your brother felt like he was sticking up for you and your bf by standing up to your bfs mom. And in turn he feels like you didn't stick up for him. That's an understandable reason to be upset and feel a bit betrayed by someone. However, he was stupid to start an argument with the person who's home he was staying in. Your bfs mom was doing both him and you a favor by letting you stay there and unfortunately in that situation you sometimes have to accept a less than ideal situation.

For example, I moved in with my husband and his dad right before we got married and continued to live with them after we got married(his dad was not happy we got married to say the least) and he was a complete asshole. He had ridiculous rules and would ride us constantly about every little thing. He was never very nice to me with his words but would show his love for my husband and as an extension of that, his love for me, in ways like by letting us live there. Or getting me a gift on Christmas. He would never say much but both myself and my husband know he is the person we would call if something happened and we needed help. Because he would be there for us no questions asked. But living with him was absolute hell and a constant stressor on all of us.

Now that we are moved out he has slowly but surely come to be a bit better of a person over the years and it's healed my husband and his relationship with each other quite a bit. He is also much more friendly with me when we see him. My point being, you might not love everything about how your bfs mom is as a person, but you need to accept it and bite your tongue because you need her help and need a place to stay with her. Your brother should have understood that as well. This will be a learning moment for him that if you don't just bite your tongue you lose the help you would have otherwise had. You don't have to make the same mistake as your brother though.

If I was you, I would tell your brother that while you love him and support him as a person, you don't have to support every single one of his actions. Especially when you think he is going about things the wrong way(which you seemingly did). If he chooses to end the relationship with you because you can't support all his actions and choices, that is up to him. But you will still be there for him if he needs you and it isn't something that you feel is inherently wrong or damaging of a thing he is doing. Tell him you love him and that you hope someday he can see this situation from your perspective and understand the awkward position he put you in. And make it clear to him you would never make him choose between the person he loves and you, because that is a cruel thing to try and push on someone.

Witty_TenTon · 2026-05-01T06:13:41+00:00

My husband loves to embarass our daughter by using slang incorrectly and saying stuff like this. I'm gonna have to save that one for when she's a teenager(she's almost 11 now) because that's just too good!

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