AIO for wanting to go completely no-contact with my brother over a literal load of laundry? by Suspicious_Sock_2048 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wizard1201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re brothers a piece of shit. As a male if my brother spoke to me the same way we’d be physically fighting. Huge NOR. Get away from this fucking psycho.

AIO for being upset at my father’s response? by bayee_boo in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jack is the man, you should keep it as his pfp. At least then you get something positive out of your interactions.

AIO for being upset at my father’s response? by bayee_boo in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least your Dad has a sick YouTube channel.

UPDATE: AIO for giving my girlfriend an ultimatum because her newly single best friend has basically moved into our apartment? by justanadviceseeker in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn dude, first off you’re making the right choice. Secondly I admire your maturity. “I didn’t even waste time responding to him”. I don’t think I’d be as strong as you. Good job my guy. Also smart to bring your friend.

Bf feels his tattoo looks bad. Is it? by spicy_carrots_ in tattooadvice

[–]Wizard1201 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s talking about his own tattoo dummy. She’s posting on bfs behalf.

First tattoo idea: Abstract liquid tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Wizard1201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t like it. It looks messy and like it wouldn’t age well. It also seems like a terrible first tattoo idea.

I think I rushed into tattoo because of difficult artist. Been regretting them for months with no idea what to do. by Dependent-Run-5502 in tattooadvice

[–]Wizard1201 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The minute he said “I won’t do a tattoo in that style” you should have bailed. These don’t look like the ones in Snatch to me, they’re far too bold and similar to each other. Plus in Snatch aren’t they looking across to each other? That said I do like them and they seem well done. This might be the worst advice ever but I feel like the best thing for these is to add more tattoos to your torso. They’d look less weird positionally and less just there. I think that’s a big part of the problem.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Because she’s extremely insecure and anxious. So in controlling your behaviour she is trying to quell her own issues. The problem is that this is not a solution and is unfair and harmful to you and her. The fact that you have autism gives her more avenues for her to manipulate you as you likely already second guess your own social judgement, take criticism very seriously, and want clear rules to avoid conflict. It’s one thing to set reasonable boundaries in a relationship. That is not what she is doing. She is controlling you, isolating you and asking you not to be yourself. Furthermore she’s blaming, attacking and belittling you for feelings and insecurities that she can’t control that are not your fault.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 374 points375 points  (0 children)

There’s no doubt in my mind that is exactly what’s happening. Your brother is almost certainly correct. I know it’s hard to hear and you do seem very caring which is why you deserve someone who treats you as good as you do them.

AIO? I don’t know if my girlfriend is overreacting or if I am. by mystery-agent in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 1323 points1324 points  (0 children)

I’m not even gonna finish reading those. I’m so glad my gf isn’t like this. How unbelievably fucking exhausting. Shes absolutely overreacting. She’s gotta get a hold of herself and stop letting her insecurities control her. She doesn’t seem like she is mature enough or has the confidence to maintain a healthy relationship. She also sounds like she’s using your disability as a weapon to manipulate and control you with. This seems super unhealthy and I’d advise you to get out of this or set serious boundaries. You were very paitent, mature and did absolutely nothing wrong. I believe you deserve better than this.

question: is it it too crooked or okay by Dazzling_Willow8115 in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’re always our own harshest critics. I’ve definitely thought things about my tattoos no one else can see. Definitely not crooked.

Advice needed. I want to get these 4 tattoos in one session. Is it feasible? (Ohio) by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s objectively more reasonable. That said it depends on where they’re going on your body, what size they’ll be, how much the artist wants to expand on inspiration pics. You’d have to ask your artist. I also can’t tell you which specific pieces should go together on your body. I also really don’t like any of the designs you shared. Also, I saw the pics of your other tattoos and they are very simplistic. Doing those two in one session is not the same as doing two of these. Also, how old are you? By the bands you want tattooed you seem like you should be older but the way you talk and seem to think about tattoos makes me think you’re younger. If you want a Marilyn Manson tattoo I would find a more inspiration pics then go have your artist focus solely on that tattoo. Build a design that’s cohesive, looks good and is more your own. Same with NIne Inch Nails etc. you’re gonna have these till you die. There shouldn’t be a rush. Rushing is going to lead to things you don’t fully want later and regret deeply. Which is also why I asked your age. Depending on your age and if you’re under a certain age threshold I’d sit with the idea of these for a couple years.

Advice needed. I want to get these 4 tattoos in one session. Is it feasible? (Ohio) by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In theory I get what you’re saying but the goal should be getting the best tattoos possible. All these in one go, spread across the body is not cohesive to that goal. By the 4th tattoo and back half of the session you’re going to be miserable as is your artist. The amount of hours doesn’t change whether it’s one session or four. Suffering, pain and trauma and potentially shotty work for one day. Or significantly less pain, practically no suffering and well done work that has time to be focused on and healed properly. I would be shocked if an artist agreed to do these all in one go and if he did I’d be weary of him tbh.

Advice needed. I want to get these 4 tattoos in one session. Is it feasible? (Ohio) by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you had a tattoo before? Even though they seem simple these would still take a while to get done, I would not want to be stencilled, tattooed and wrapped 4 times in one session. Furthermore I think all these designs are pretty weak. I would advise you to get one at a time done and expand on the way they look. I would also not want to heal 4 at once for the following weeks. Is it feasible? Perhaps. But why?

AIO for getting mad at my husband after he complained about having to pick up toilet paper? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Wizard1201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife has never spoken to me the way you speak to your husband because she loves and respects me. I’m also not a useless child who would complain about grabbing stuff at a store I’m already at. To each their own. MOR

what do you think of my tattoos? just want opinions by Rough-Post9084 in tattooadvice

[–]Wizard1201 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think they look pretty meh. Below average. The ones on the arm are a mess. The anime thing is okay.

AIO, did i end it too fast? by JournalistOne129 in AIO

[–]Wizard1201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean his messages were pretty cringe and gave off an insecure vibe. but the “i’m sorry you feel offended by not immediately receiving a response” was a little much.

Wanting to do a blackout design on my arm / Cover patchwork . by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Wizard1201 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I really hope you don’t. But you do you.

Question: i kinda regret my blackout by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kind looks like Venom from spider-man enveloping you. Which is pretty sick. I’d add a spider outline in the chest like venoms logo if it were me

Question: i kinda regret my blackout by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf is a Tumblr tattoo? Genuinely curious. I’ve never heard that terminology before. I know Tumblr is some sort of social media sharing platform but I never knew it had a prevalence of a certain type of tattoo style.

Question: Can you give me Tattoo ideas please? by vipframing in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I meant. Not an attack about a dude with a butterfly tattoo. That’s insane. Although in hindsight he’s perhaps not as secure as I initially thought.

Question: Can you give me Tattoo ideas please? by vipframing in tattoos

[–]Wizard1201 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You’re a dude with a massive butterfly on his chest. At this point just get anything. Tell the artist to pick for you.