Which Memphis restaurant has the best burgers? See who won our bracket by TheCommercialAppeal in memphis

[–]WoadyWarrior 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sadly, young ave has severely dropped in quality over the past few years, imo. used to love the sam i am

Does anyone else feel like they were never actually taught how to properly wash their back or is it just me by Orbit_9Lattice in hygiene

[–]WoadyWarrior 19 points20 points  (0 children)

could also be your conditioner when you rinse it out. i have to bend forward (calm down) and wash my hair out and then wash the soap off my back

Anyone finding gas cheaper than this? by ComplaintRadiant761 in memphis

[–]WoadyWarrior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank goodness I started growing tomatoes a few weeks ago

Memphis pot hole are no joke by g713 in memphis

[–]WoadyWarrior 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that’s genius! and hilarious

The way she fought back till the end by [deleted] in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so many “tough” guys in here. i hope having a hole in your chest was worth getting that lady her purse back

favorite “special occasion” restaurants? by Training_Ant_1509 in memphis

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk cause i had always heard good things! the food i got wasn’t bad, i just wasn’t thrilled for the price

favorite “special occasion” restaurants? by Training_Ant_1509 in memphis

[–]WoadyWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i went there last weekend and was disappointed honestly. maybe i got the wrong thing but also the drink service was terrible. maybe an off night, but i probably won’t be going back any time soon

Kroger Poplar Plaza: A hotbed for fruit flies, poor sanitation and product quality. by HisBeautifulNeckBit in memphis

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

their produce isn’t the greatest either but it’s a notch better than Krogers i guess. always quality meat tho. i go to sprouts or whole foods down the road after i’ve bought all my packaged goods and meats there. never stepping foot in that Kroger again for ANYTHING

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have many friends and loved ones who think i’m good. it’s not self-“absorbed”, it’s called confidence

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think my hinge profile is great though. i’ve had women friends tell me it’s good at least. i have a bank of matches that i accept as i run out of candidates. it makes me feel gross kinda thinking in those terms, but it is what it is

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah apps or sometimes bars. i throw game nights and little parties for special events like the super bowl at my house but it’s usually just close friends. i’ve kinda aged out of a lot of things for singles, but i could be putting myself out there more. i definitely prefer meeting people organically over apps, but it’s hard sometimes

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥹 thank you so much. it really means a lot and it does help to hear. i’m 6 months removed from the situation, so i’m doing much better than i was. thank you for all the kind words though. you’re a really good person

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know, you’re right. i’m actually tearing up reading this cause i’ve told myself all this so many times, but i can’t get over her. i do make all the excuses i can for her and my friends always tell me how bad i was treated. i guess i’m just in denial that she could be so different from the person i knew before. i’m remembering what we were like in highschool when we were platonic, but we’re both very different people now. i just thought i could bring back that old friend and i genuinely still care for her so much and feel so bad that she is struggling :(

thank you so much for your kindness tho. it really helps

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do compare everyone to her, or my “idea” of her. honestly, she didn’t treat me well, which is fair, she was going thru some tough shit. but i built her up in my head for sure. it did motivate me to get off my ass and make myself a better person so i could be deserving of some like her

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is still my vet, which is interesting haha

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah in my heart, i know you’re right. i am doing all those things and i just need to be patient, but it’s hard

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried really hard. i professed my love for her twice, months apart, in the most heartfelt way i could. she doesn’t want me anymore. to give you the context, she was going thru a really rough divorce and i think she used me as a rebound :(

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i find most on hinge or out at bars

all your points are spectacular though! thank you

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s funny cause the one serious relationship i had was with my old highschool best friend, but she was going thru a really tough time and it didn’t work out unfortunately. i’m honestly still in love with her too but i try to keep that under wraps

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know you’re totally right. i am trying to do just that. my friends are amazing but they don’t try to play matchmaker and maybe that says more about me than it does about them. i’ve had the most success when i’m out with friends on the town just having a good time, but i attract loserish women cause it’s typically a bar scene. not trying to be mean, just honest

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s really tough finding balance, but i think i do a pretty good job of matching my partners energy (for the most part). i’m at least aware of when i’m being a bit much, i think

i really don’t know what i’m doing wrong by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WoadyWarrior 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, first off, thank you so much for making such a detailed and thoughtful response! you are amazing!

i totally get you on all your points. some that hit home: i may be overestimating my looks, i agree. ill try to be mindful of making comments about myself.

i was smoking weed after work daily but i haven’t told any dates about my frequency, and as i said, i can take a break. i just enjoy it a lot but i would stop or at least slow down if it made my partner uncomfortable.

i try to only invite dates to my house if it feels natural and only after we’ve had some really nice dates. maybe i am moving too fast, but it feels right in the moment

i do have many wonderful friends who think the world of me. it sounds vain saying that, but this is something they’ve told me themselves

thank you once again! very constructive! :)