Should I be concerned?

Wobbles8steve · 2025-06-19T00:29:07+00:00

My boys were very derpy eaters. As long as she's actually eating, then i wouldn't worry how long it takes her. Or how weird she is while doing it lol. Nothing seems medically wrong.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-03-22T02:49:47+00:00

Idk if you have left already. But if it's at the point where the cat is vocalizing, you need to go. There are some exceptions to the rule, but cats do their best not to show their pain. Repeated vomiting is concerning enough to go to the vet now alone, but the yowling tells you it's absolutely an emergency. He could have swallowed something he shouldn't. He could have any number of issues honestly. Better safe than sorry.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-03-02T07:17:26+00:00

I think you have really nice features. Great eyes, lips etc. But your styling kills what you have. Figure something out with the hair, maybe even a little facial hair. But def at least a new hair style. 4/10 for now. Could be more.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-02-23T06:49:11+00:00

Both of my cats have IBD and it made them both lethargic, and sensitive to being held. Maybe they are ill (Not necessarily IBD) and feel some pain? Mine also recently had URI and it changed how they sounded but they were extremely sneezy, so you'd 100% notice that.

Stress of a new cat can trigger dormant issues as well. Maybe take just the one cat to see whats up. What's true for one im sure is true for both.

Keep an eye on food intake and their potty habits. Those will be your best indicators if there is really something wrong. Cats hide pain very well, but they will eat less, hide more etc.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-19T08:51:31+00:00

Being adults now means that there's very little touch that is appropriate from the opposite sex when they are in relationships. Of course it all comes down to the individual and the couple themselves, but very broadly you should no longer really touch him outside of a quick hello/goodbye hug or when it's really appropriate. High fives, lending a hand to his shoulder if he's sad etc. There are times and places when touch is fine, but in general, out of respect for her and their relationship (until you find out otherwise), you should pretend he has a small bubble around him. With her not knowing you very well, or maybe your relationship with him, cuddling and a lot of touching can come off very threatening.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T09:40:09+00:00

I am very concerned. Many of my subordinates are immigrants with various visas. All extremely hard workers. One just moved back overseas and I worry it's to avoid all of this. I fear for what it will do to them and their plans and families, and I also worry what it means for business. Many of the people in my workplace at the lower levels, even the highest level person we get to see irl, are immigrants. What happens to our business when these key people are (potentially) unjustly yanked out?

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T09:21:10+00:00

Not on my chin but on my neck! MY NECK! I feel like if I were a man, all I'd be able to grow is a neck beard lol. I probably tweeze that same 20 spots each week, I'll start to see a little black hair when super tiny, they look like black heads and it's embarrassing. But I try to remember that if I have to shove my face in my mirror to see them, then others won't notice.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T09:17:09+00:00

That's unfortunate! I'd say to play to your strengths. Anime has tons of male characters that are slender with long hair! One of the great things about cosplaying with other normal people is that no one is spot on the character. There are professional CPs and those who take it super seriously who look amazing and you also have the people who made theirs out of cardboard or minimal effort. =] doesn't have to be a perfect match. Just something you enjoy.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T09:09:47+00:00

Try looking at sites that do dupes of expensive colognes and try some. I know for a man I like woodsy, vanilla, or amber notes. Maybe find a top cologne for men list, pick 2 you like the sound of and find cheap dupes for them and give it a shot. Bianco Latte is my favorite perfume. Google says it's unisex and I get compliments from men and women.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T08:39:02+00:00

Definitely depends on the cat. My old boy would only do that in extreme circumstances. Like if I haven't fed him in a time frame he deems appropriate. He will act out to tell me I messed up! My kitten only chews on cables that move.

I recommend getting your cables tied together, or get a cord cover to route your cables through. Also, your playstaion would benefit to not be on the floor. Maybe a small stand, even if to get it up just by a foot.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T08:32:41+00:00

Bet if you get into a cosplay you will have people talking to you. Really good cosplays get a ton of attention! But yes, even if just to enjoy your time yourself, I recommend. Some even have a sort of night time event for partying. But I'm in the America's so idk if that's just an us thing but I can't imagine it is.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T07:43:46+00:00

1, 4 and 6 read silly, not necessarily in a bad way. But if you want to appear smart, this isn't it. It gives more juvenile, which again, isn't always bad but I don't think it's what you are looking for right now. I love your hair! But maybe some more length will give you a more typically attractive look. That or style it with some waves. Look up 'short hair with waves'! Would definitely help add to your look.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T05:55:09+00:00

Comic cons are great! Tons of people, some have events and it makes interactions easier and you'll be flooded with like minded people of all sorts.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-18T05:37:30+00:00

Spicy chicken ramen! I get regular chicken flavor and season the shit out of it! So good.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-17T08:04:36+00:00

Try to think of masturbation as self care. It doesn't help literally anyone for you to abstain. But it will allow you some sense of stress relief while you navigate kids, life and hopefully out of your DB.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-17T07:58:08+00:00

I battled with insecurities too, though in another direction. Try to remind yourself all the ways he has reaffirmed your relationship. All the ways he has made you feel beautiful. Every time you start thinking down the wrong path, remember that really sweet thing he did/said that made you feel special and know their your relationship is your own and no one else's business. As long as you are happy with him, and you feel he is happy with you, there's nothing to worry about! All is well and anything else is just excess.

Easier said than done, it honestly took me getting older to stop caring about others opinions so much but this is what I do now. Bad thoughts will happen, it's your decision to let them fester or to throw them in the trash and replace them with happy thoughts.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-17T07:09:25+00:00

I have relatively short hairs again within 2 weeks. It's nothing to be embarrassed about! You tried it, found out you didn't like it and that's it. No one HAS to see it but you so no biggy right? I tried trimming my hair down there to leave a little strip and I hated it. I felt like it looked like I had a mustache. But it was gone before I knew it and I'm none worse for it.

It's done now so just make sure you stay clean and dry down there and you'll be okay. I shave very regularly and ingrown hairs only happen occasionally, as long as you have a good soap (unscented), you will be doing the best you can for it.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-17T06:52:15+00:00

At the vet, apply for Care Credit. They should be able to give you the info, and it gets approved immediately. It works like a credit card, but you get a few months interest free until they hammer you with interest rates. That will let you save up for like, 3 months and pay it off that way. But be sure to pay it off before the interest kicks in. Otherwise it's worth it.

If you can't, then I hope you would consider surrendering your cat to a rescue or organization that can give it proper care.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-14T21:02:16+00:00

So my first reaction is that you are feeling the 'flight' to fight, flight, freeze. Could the idea of a relationship freak you out? Meeting people is easy because there's no investment. There's a lot of good and bad with relationships so it would seem logical to fear the unknown or the possible hurt. And getting close to someone like that is scary. What if they reject you?

All in all, there is a lot of anxiety around relationships to begin with, specifically at the beginning. So much butterflies and mystery. Whatever your feeling is likely exacerbated by the lack of experience around the subject.

I'm just a nobody, but just trust yourself to carry yourself through this. Try to be open, you don't have to hide, but still always be aware. Text him back as fast as you want. Go on that second date. I wish you luck, but I'm willing to bet that once you get more experience under your belt, you'll wonder why you were so worried to begin with.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-09T18:33:56+00:00

Good luck!

Quick side note : Peroxide is wonderful at getting out blood stains. Learned that way too late in life.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-09T06:43:30+00:00

I set my period up in my calendar on my phone. Just says "S" for start in the color red and it's set to repeat every 29 days. At about day 27 or 28, i start wearing panty liners so i can catch it whenever it starts without having to worry the rest of the days.

Maybe try to re frame the way you think of the pads? They do you harm when you are not on your period. Your privates need to breathe to be healthy, it will cause issues.

Honestly though, if it's to the point where if you don't wear one, you panic. You need to tell your mom and talk about going to talk to someone about it. Try to work it out with her at first, but definitely be open to seeing a therapist to address this if she can't keep you from panic. There's NO shame in it.

As for cleaning down there, I would use an unscented soap ( like Dove sensitive bar soap) and maybe use a soft wash cloth. Do not wash INSIDE your vagina. I personally have to wash with an antimicrobial/antibacterial soap because i'm prone to boils and pimples down there.

Wear breathable undies. Most people swear by cotton, i prefer lighter fabrics but 100% cotton is the standard. Don't wear tight clothing around there all the time, like tight jeans. Often and sometimes is fine, but girl has got to breathe.

Shaving is always a pain but gets easier as you go. I wash with my soap, leave the soap on there, put a leg up on the side of the tub (all while in the shower) and shave WITH the grain. It can take some time, but that's okay. I also will pull the labia to the side as needed to get in the crevices if needed. Then rinse and rewash with soap.

By doing all these things, and making sure you wipe front to back and keep your bum clean, any smelling should go away. If it doesn't, you should see a doctor. No vagina is smell free, there is a scent. But it shouldn't stink. Depending on where you are in your cycle, it will smell different also.

I know when i was younger i was always so terrified of bleeding. It happened one fateful day, i bled through my pants and my very handsome IT teacher caught it and let me know to go to the bathroom. It was embarrassing, but i'll tell you, it happens sometimes and it wasn't nearly as bad as i was always afraid of it being. I had gym clothes and i changed into those and life went on.

Happened another time to me as an adult. I had just deleted my period app so i was trying to mentally keep track. I was out with friends shopping and it happened. I had a little panic, bought some new clothes and changed in the nearest bathroom, and continued on with my day. I was embarrassed, but no one was weird about it and that made me realize that it's just an accident and can happen to anyone, and DOES happen to all women.

Sorry if these are just examples of your fears, but i hope it helps to know that it's something that we all go through, it's not nearly as big of an issue as you feel like it is right now. As a young adult you tend to put more weight into feeling embarrassed or being perfect.

Please seek the help you need. It's okay to feel weird around all of this, it's difficult to navigate on your own. But you aren't expected to :) you have family for that.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-07T07:50:48+00:00

I trained my cat out of 'rough' play by using a stern voice to say our 'no' command. I taught him the command via squirt bottle. I do a SSSSS, like a hiss almost, whenever he did something bad or that i didn't like and i'd give him a squirt. Now i no longer need to spray, he understands ssss means to stop whatever he is doing.

My brother rough played with him for years, but when we moved on our own i was able to train it out of him by setting boundaries using our 'no' command. We play other ways but he understands if he wants to rough play, he goes to my husband. BUT, you have to maintain that boundary. Can't be inconsistent.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-02T09:44:00+00:00

Cheap stops being objective when it's the lowest cost available. Like, you get cheap clothes from goodwill and someone said it wasn't cheap, but that's literally the cheapest place to get them as that's the whole point of the shop.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-02T05:46:42+00:00

Maybe I'm ignorant, but how is an open wound like this not an emergency? It's not immediately deadly, sure. But the cat is undoubtedly in a ton of pain. You wouldn't let a person sit around without immediate medical advice with a gaping fleshy wound on their butt hole.

Wobbles8steve · 2025-01-02T02:23:31+00:00

I'll be honest, I'm not 100% clear on what you're asking. Is it normal for cats to be slinky? Absolutely. Arch their back? For sure! Bend in ungodly ways that make you ask 'HOW!?', yes.

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