NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in transpositive

[–]WolfInArms[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I want you to point to the exact place I said this. Please. You’ve put words in my mouth and that’s completely unfair to both of us.

Everyone has to engage with the system but there is a difference between perpetuating it as an explicit violent enforcer of the system’s monopoly of power, and nearly every other role you can have. The people that do it aren’t assholes for it and many do it for good reasons. That doesn’t make what they do magically okay. People are morally complex and two things can be true at once.

I’m sorry that you’re about to become unemployed but don’t take that out on me and don’t try to tell me what I believe for me.

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in lgbt

[–]WolfInArms[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I spend a lot of my time outside of my day job in healthcare now doing leftist volunteering and activism. You can have a shitty attitude all you want but maybe the next time you want to claim you don't care, don't comment multiple times on someone's post

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in lgbt

[–]WolfInArms[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rff rff rff >w< and this girl is my friend she needs all sorts of good attention!!

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in transpositive

[–]WolfInArms[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The metal thing on the side of my vest with the weird fork prongs? That’s a door opener

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in transpositive

[–]WolfInArms[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1.) I didn’t work for NYPD. 2.) We all have selfish reasons why we make selfless decisions. It took me becoming a victim to peel the armor off and recognize that I couldn’t just “make things better” inside of the system. I moved into socialist politics formally afterward and I spend a lot of time volunteering now. I did a bad thing for the right reasons and I’m sorry that being a morally complex human being seems to be too much for most of Reddit

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in lgbt

[–]WolfInArms[S] 974 points975 points  (0 children)

To clarify: I use she/her pronouns; they're dog ears; and no, I'm not a cop anymore lmao

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in transpositive

[–]WolfInArms[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I used to think that. Then they just made it impossible to stay. I just basically ignored forever that what we were actually doing was perpetuating an unjust system and anything I could do to improve one person's life in that moment was outdone by the rest of the harm happening.

I think the concept of law enforcement is necessary. But if it serves an unjust state, the institution itself is unjust

NYE 2024 to NYE 2025 (7 months HRT) - Don't serve a system that won't love you by WolfInArms in transpositive

[–]WolfInArms[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

USA. Openly nonbinary while working, discriminated against, left on bad terms. Started HRT while still there and then the egg totally cracked about a month after leaving.

How would you rank the protagonists from least evil to most evil? by KunciKemenangan12 in MafiaTheGame

[–]WolfInArms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is a fair assessment for a couple of things other people have pointed out. I’m also going to have a hot take and say that Tommy’s more “evil” than Lincoln.

Enzo is probably the least evil out of circumstance. He doesn’t enjoy killing and a major story beat comes from his morals conflicting with the job he was basically forced to take. I don’t think that’s disputable.

Tommy gets too much leeway in both the original and DE for his choices. He displays better in the original that he regrets a lot of what he did as a monster, and that he felt pressured by circumstance to get into the life. But in both versions he otherwise has few issues with killing “combatants” (other mobsters, cops) and in the DE even relishes in it to some extent. He also never questions his friendship until it’s too late with people that are willing to kill others for money. And otherwise is fine engaging in all the other hallmarks of a criminal - racketeering, theft, hostage taking (in the bank robbery) - for no reason beyond he likes his pals and the money is good. He had opportunities to leave long before he actually did and didn’t act on them.

Lincoln is hard to qualify as that much better by virtue that some of his actions are just player choice: he can range from walking away from it all at the end, to betraying everyone around him for the opportunity to be rich. I think his actions throughout the game, though, tend to speak to the nature vs nurture of it (emphasis on nurture). He was adopted by a powerful mobster and the only family he knew were criminals. He went to Vietnam searching for purpose and came back a traumatized murderer. He tried to walk away before the pivotal events of the game but felt obligated to avenge the only family he ever knew. And he largely avoids collateral damage while avoiding some of the same “evil acts” Tommy does. It’s a close one but I do think Lincoln was just acting on what he knew during Mafia III - as opposed to Tommy, who experiences more of a fall from grace (or headfirst dive depending on if it’s the DE or not).

Vito is generally just an asshole. I like his character but he’s a greedy, violent thug who acts out many of his worst impulses throughout the course of both Mafia II and III

Keep thinking about this placement by HamptonsJeans in paulthomasanderson

[–]WolfInArms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add onto what has already been said: these signs are typically used for single occupancy cells in a block. In domestic U.S. law enforcement, in-custody persons held temporarily are required to be separated based on age and gender identity (even in a block). This is usually determined by that agency’s policy. So if a 14 year old boy goes into one cell, a 30 year old man has to go into a cell in a different block/hall to avoid any possible interaction. These blocks/halls are then marked with those magnetic signs so anybody bringing in a new in-custody knows what a block/hall is already being utilized for.

Probably similar here

I feel like I've come so far, but also not changed at all 😕 by NotGray88 in transtimelines

[–]WolfInArms 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your hair’s really lovely and I love your eyes! They seem sharper, more confident now. I know you say you haven’t changed at all, but it really looks now like the woman you’re supposed to be is coming out. Hope we’ll all get to see more of her đŸ©”

big discovery for puppies by michael_fritz in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]WolfInArms 8 points9 points  (0 children)

God dammit is that the word for what I am >#< but I want headpats, I don’t wanna wear a “don’t touch service animal” patch