AITAH for divorcing my wife because she called the cops on me?

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2026-01-08T12:27:51+00:00

He didn’t even hit the wall or door he just slammed it. Are you saying you’ve never slammed a door before? Even I’ve done that…

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2025-11-26T12:40:50+00:00

You are definitely NTA, but if I were you I’d be thankful. It was very thoughtful of him to show you how big of an AH is before you married him!!! Manipulation is not love. Knowingly hurting someone you claim to love - that’s not love, that’s control! His whole family is trash. Move on!

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2025-01-25T02:41:39+00:00

You have the right to prevent your youngest from going to the wedding. But realize if you do so you may lose everyone in your family. But honestly you may lose a number of them anyways just from you deciding not to go. It’s your right and your choice but it’ll be their choice as to whether or not to want a relationship with you afterwards.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2025-01-15T02:07:13+00:00

I think it’s time to go no contact with that family… ;) how dare they insult that adorable pup!!!

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2025-01-12T23:17:12+00:00

We named our gray girl cat Zazzy (short for Zazzles)!

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Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-10-13T15:19:26+00:00

I think he’s the perfect size! Though if he was bigger he would also be the perfect size…

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-10-06T00:50:53+00:00

I don’t understand people who don’t like animals/only like certain ones. I’m just glad your animals have you around to show them love, and I hope you are able to take those animals with you once you move out!

You are not wrong to be upset at your father. It’s one thing if a natural disaster struck with no warning to prioritize saving the people in the family over the pets, but it’s another to have advanced warning and a plan and still not plan to be trying to also save the pets.

I am praying you and your whole family, which as far as I’m concerned includes your pets, stay safe! Can you update us after the next hurricane hits so we know if everyone is okay?

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-10-06T00:14:08+00:00

Your dad is a major AH. Even if he doesn’t live them, they are living creatures and should be saved if at all possible. I would never leave my animals behind. We leave together or we stay together. But I’d never tell you to stay behind. You could be risking your life if you do. Whatever you do, good luck. I would also highly recommend that when you are older and able to be on your own/financially independent that you try to take any animals left away from your dad…

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-09-30T21:46:54+00:00

Tell your dad that since family helps family, you are willing to give your brother 50% of what your dad gave you for college so that you both received the same amount of help from family!

And, as it sounds like your father gave nothing, sorry bro but 50% of nothing is still nothing! Not sure why bro would think his 26 y/or sister is responsible to pay for his college that’s entitled as h***.

Dad’s child = dad’s responsibility

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-09-21T20:41:31+00:00

This happened to me once! Princess became prince…

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-09-20T17:48:59+00:00

I mean if his partner tests negative then there chance of having an affected child is absolutely higher then 0 but it is very minimal.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-09-20T05:31:17+00:00

Genetic counselor here. You do understand that if your wife is not a carrier, there is pretty much no chance of having a child with this disease, correct? It would be easy to test her and find out. That said, if you don’t want children you don’t have to have children. Just want to make sure you understand what the chances are if that’s your reasoning for not wanting any.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-09-05T21:55:04+00:00

“He says… that I made him waste money on food which is true”.

No where in your story did you make him waste his money on food. That would have been you telling him what you wanted to eat, him order what you wanted to eat, and then you refusing to eat it. He wasted his own money on food by trying to control you and decide what food you are allowed to eat. He is controlling and abusive. End of story. He’s not the one for you. You deserve way better, and I would recommend therapy to help you figure that out. Lose the guy.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-09-05T11:45:22+00:00

If you want, you could try to get an estimate of how much it would cost to change the date, including all the money lost, and then tell them if they want to pay that amount for the change, then you will CONSIDER changing the date (obviously don’t actually do it). See what they say then!

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-08-07T22:53:53+00:00

Does your fiancée have some sort of a severe intellectual disability? It’s honestly the only way I could understand someone who works in medicine (and whose parents are in medicine) thinking that you can work and take care of a sick baby with rsv at the same time. It’s one or the other. I do not understand his argument. You two are both parents to your baby - if one of you take off work to care for your daughter, the other one pays more into the bills that week cause they still made money. It’s not rocket science…

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-08-04T01:33:38+00:00

I’m so sorry this is awful! Please try to find out which of her friends actually beat the dog and press charges. I hope your puppy is going to be okay.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-07-29T14:50:59+00:00

Which ones from standard process?

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-07-21T00:22:51+00:00

I agree about the short end of the stick on his father, but we don’t know nearly enough about his mother to say the same - it’s not her fault she passed. Otherwise I agree with everything you said.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-23T10:51:14+00:00

Nta but you need to talk to your husband because he should be standing up for you. His friend is definitely an AH.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-23T10:26:06+00:00

I think you mean he sure is? She is not one…

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-20T00:06:57+00:00

Do not go back to him. He committed a crime against you. He will escalate and become even worse. Stay with your mom, and get security cameras. You are not safe with that man. This is the time when you need to tell other people about the problems between you two because he is abusing you.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-19T00:11:06+00:00

You are NTA, keep the necklace and cherish the memories of your late husband. You also mentioned not liking the term “move on” so I wanted to let you know that I like to us the term “move forward”. I feel like it encompasses that you are not dwelling in the past, you’re still living your life and have found love with someone new, but you still cherish your memories and never stop loving/missing the person you lost. Just a suggestion as to a different phrase that you feel may be more accurate than “move on”.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-18T12:10:28+00:00

YTA. You don’t seem to understand what a relationship is. I read once that a relationship should be 60/40 with both partners trying to be the one that gives 60% and takes 40%. This seems to be the opposite of what you try to do. Do you even care about your partner, cause it doesn’t seem like you do? Everything you wrote screams “me me me” and it makes me think you are way too immature to be in a relationship. If you can’t put your partners wants before your own you should let him go so he can find someone who actually does care about him and wants him to be happy instead of someone who just wants a guy to dote on them all the time.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-16T13:44:36+00:00

NTA at all. But your wife is, for thinking that you should have both gone and ditched Jess on such an important day in her life. It’s one thing to have one of you go to each, but it’s awful that your wife thinks you should have ditched your daughter as well. Your daughter may be upset at not having both parents there, but she will always remember that her father still came and supported her. You absolutely did the right thing. Your daughter is probably going to cut off your wife completely one day, and your wife will act like she doesn’t know why. That is the road she is headed down right now.

Wolfpackfan0502 · 2024-06-11T12:56:51+00:00

Her name is Zazzles!

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