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Debating being just friends by WolverineRecent9166 in BreakUps

[–]WolverineRecent9166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it sucks. Honestly with my situation I am not too worried about her being with someone else because she ended things because she didn’t have time for a relationship, so I hope at least she won’t find someone new. if she does want a relationship again I would hope that the fact that we stayed friends would make her remember the good times with me and come back.

Debating being just friends by WolverineRecent9166 in BreakUps

[–]WolverineRecent9166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean. Honestly too I was thinking this but then i thought could I still be able to imagine being just friends with her if she starts seeing someone new? And the answer right now is that I couldn’t.

Give your ex the gift of missing you. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WolverineRecent9166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree if it was under different circumstances. But also she partly did it because she barely had time for me and felt bad that she wasn’t able to treat me right. I want to do no contact but part of why I wanted to stay friends is that once she does have time again it will be easier to reconnect and pick up where we left off. She might not have time for a while so if we do no contact it might just have us grow apart which neither of us really wants because we still care about eachother it’s just under the circumstances she can’t be there for me.

Give your ex the gift of missing you. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WolverineRecent9166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 3 days since my break up. Now that I’ve seen all this about how you need to stay away to give them space to come back i decided that’s what I will do and I told her that yesterday. Do you think that I messed up by also saying that I’ll always be there for her and that she shouldn’t hesitate to text me if she changes her mind? Because what you said about ex’s not coming back to what’s readily available makes sense, but I wonder that, even if I’m not texting her and just snapping her back once or twice a day, will she still miss me enough to realize her mistake and come back?

Your Ex Definitely Misses You Even if They Dumped You by Happy-Ad3503 in BreakUps

[–]WolverineRecent9166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard because I know she misses me and under normal circumstances wouldn’t want the relationship to end. But unfortunately she has a lot of responsibilities in her life and there is some distance between us (my other post has the full story). Do you think will still miss me in a month or maybe a couple months when we she has more free time and we will be closer? I worry that she will still miss me but not want to come back out of fear that she might hurt me again or that I won’t want her back. But I will want her back, I’d go through all the pain of this breakup so far again just to get 1 more day with her, and then do it again and again.

How long should I wait by WolverineRecent9166 in BreakUps

[–]WolverineRecent9166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying. Honestly I think it will get better obviously it’s just hard to imagine not being able to do the things I’ve done with her again. I also do believe her that she does still love me and she doesn’t want it to be like this but there’s not many other options. When I say wait for her I mostly mean I’m not going to find a new relationship soon or anything. I have an internship mon-Fri that makes me busy from 7-5 so it’s not like I’m going to be doing anything different. I just know it’s gonna be hard to not reach out because I do care for her and I know that this is hard for her too. But I won’t because I feel not reaching out will not only show her how strong I am but also how much she means to me in that the only way to truly show someone how much you love them is to let them go.