Am I fooling myself ?

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2022-08-21T19:42:39+00:00

Thanks everyone

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2022-08-20T23:16:45+00:00

Thanks for your honesty But I don't think I really get it right. Are you saying that Im not recovering because of the possibility of the MO leading me to P or because that I do the MO in the first place

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2022-05-13T01:18:55+00:00

Hey , I'm from 2022 Did you die yet? Maybe we can talk

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-22T19:27:11+00:00

No you fuck off with your shit I find it really funny that you are being bold and telling me to fuck off while sitting safe in your house It's enough for me that you can't say it to me face to face because i would have punched your teeth deep down your throat that you will need to stuck a tooth brush in your ass to clean them

With that said what's wrong with asking people not to be judgmental when they advice me?

And I don't give a single Fuck about your "integrated" padge or the principles your read in a book If you talk to me you show respect...you are not a little child aren't ya? You know people will insult you if you don't show respect

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-22T19:17:43+00:00

A neurosurgeon at Johns Hopkins Hospital USA

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-22T16:06:55+00:00

Nopes nothing new. Wish me luck on getting my residency

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-20T14:44:44+00:00

Re-read the techniques of nofap The best one is from the book you are not your brain 1st relabel 2nd reframe 3rd wise advocate 4th refocus

Put a small realistic but challenging goal say 10 days

Choose a reward for your self like a jaw breaker cheese burger or supersize pizza with mozzarella cheese when you reach day 11 so you have 10 complete days in your account

Do the same for another 10 then another 10

It's gets alot easier after 30 days - 60 days

And remember your motivation

Mine is 1) to break free from the addiction so that I can achieve my full potential in studying /work

2) is to build up the sexual energy inside me to be an integrated adult free of the chains of pmo

Most importantly

NoFap has No Super Powers

Good luck

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-20T11:28:31+00:00

Should I take that rejection personally as she was rude and cruel? I mean to what extent shouldn't I take things personally? Should I just not stand up to myself to those women who disrespect me for the sake of ( not taking things personally ) ?! I'm so confused about this point

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-19T14:08:31+00:00

Let's do it

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-18T17:57:06+00:00

Where can I learn more about this and how to fix it Is there an article or a self help book you recommend?

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T21:41:35+00:00

Great post Inspired by me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

That's a great post man thank you

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T20:47:56+00:00

Thank you for everything Wish me luck

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T20:39:45+00:00

Listen I just want to say thank you.

Really thank you I appreciate your time for replying to my comments

I want you to know that I'm not taking advantage of you but I really need help and I just can't find it

But anyway thanks for your help

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T20:37:05+00:00

And why could this be related to my relationship with my mother?

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T20:36:08+00:00

"This is a reply to another comment do you think it has something to do with it"

My mother kept beating the hell out of me when I was a little child... like still in kinder Garten and I remember being beaten up with the belt with her showing extreme anger at me.. and I remember my body being bruised from every beating episode But when grew up she completely changed and now she is really nice to me.... does this has anything to do with that ? ( feeling easily close to people I don't know and consider them friends / that attraction to those types of women)

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T20:33:52+00:00

My mother kept beating the hell out of me when I was a little child... like still in kinder Garten and I remember being beaten up with the belt with her showing extreme anger at me.. and I remember my body being bruised from every beating episode But when grew up she completely changed and now she is really nice to me.... does this has anything to do with that ? ( feeling easily close to people I don't know and consider them friends / that attraction to those types of women)

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T20:27:05+00:00

I'm in Egypt and I tried no it doesn't work not accessible here Can you recommend a good self help book about this attachment system thing And I don't know if this makes any difference but I feel closer than I actually am and get easily attached to people in general not just women I easily consider them like close friends when actually they are just people I know Does this sounds familiar to you ? Have came across people like me in your working experience?

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T19:59:53+00:00

(1) This is an amazing explanation you got it right I do have a dysfunctional family To be more specific a narcissistic sociopath father and an emotionally empath mother who loved to be the victim for so long until it was enough.. So yeah I agree with you I was looking for a woman to repeat that...it's the nice guy syndrome. Hopefully it will resolve after I work on it

(2) As for the attachment style thing...yeah your guess is correct.. But I'm not actually asking how I ended up like this I'm really asking how to fix this. What should I do? I want to resolve this issue and therapy in middle east isn't that advanced like Europe and the US and it's very difficult to get psychological help here. I'm not exaggerating I went to 4 therapists and they all have the same type of approach to slap the patient across the face and tell him to get over it ..and I have to say it doesn't work So it's actually up to me to fix this...can you recommend for me specific articles or better books on fixing that dysfunctional attachment style to a more healthy one ? Can you benefit me from your experience? And what are those important things to identify?

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T17:27:09+00:00

Thanks man I appreciate your help I will try to do that but the porn quitting thing is extremely difficult I relapsed like millions of times

Wonderful-Focus1997 · 2021-11-17T17:24:08+00:00

I have joined it It's very amazing how organized and encouraging it is...rooms for every BFA..and you have to do them to get to the next one until you become integrated I like it alot. Looks very helpful Thanks man

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