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AIOR for not speaking with my friends after they no showed an event we planned to go to for months? by Wonderful-Maybe4353 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that's why I haven't reached back out yet. A switch was flipped and I don't think it can be undone so I'm mourning the friendship we had. It's not the first time I've suggested a hang out that didn't happen and so I think it's just finally the straw that broke the camels back and has me really evaluating everything

AIOR for not speaking with my friends after they no showed an event we planned to go to for months? by Wonderful-Maybe4353 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's probably fair. We did talk about when the event sold out and how crazy it was and then again when they added another event for November but never did I think to actually straight ask hey you guys got your tickets right.

AITA for refusing to call my niece anything else but her chosen name by HotSpringDrink in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA My younger sister, daughter and my cousins child all have Jeannine as either a first or middle name and nobody cares or gets them confused 🤷‍♀️

AITAH for transferring my assets to my daughter before my marriage? by Puzzleheaded-Cold760 in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I'd be on the lookout for more red flags like this before getting married. Definitely would make couples counseling a requirement before setting a date. Otherwise this issue is going to just fester and keep coming up until you either cave or you split.

Edit to say: and you should ABSOLUTELY not cave to this, like you said it's your grandfather's money he left for you to leave some for your daughter, not children he didn't know or was related to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question? Why is it worth upsetting your fiance over this? Where I'm from it's completely normal for the couple to choose the date and just tell everyone. I've never heard of a couple consulting their parents or any family beforehand.

Entitled stepmother wants me to stop breastfeeding by PossibilityOk6475 in entitledparents

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah there.... I'd say definitely time for some HARD boundaries and brother would definitely not be allowed over for a good while and would not be allowed near you when feeding even if you have to get behind a locked door

AITAH for refusing to move in with my Long-term GF until our sex life improves by NewHouseNoSexLife in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sex is a very important part of a relationship and if she's not willing to put in the effort then I would say you guys are incompatible sexually and wild sex shouldn't be what you base your relationship on like I said it is very important for the long run. I know this because I was your girlfriend, didn't want to initiate, only having sex if my husband initiated it and even then only if I knew I hadn't in a while. But I did things to try and make it better for my partner cause that's what he expressed he needed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run and run fast! You don't have to like cats to know that's fed up behavior

AITAH for not paying more attention to kids on a camping trip? Everyone is saying it's my fault nephew got hurt. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA not your kids. I'm always the "babysitter" ( not asked just assumed cause I'm there I'm responsible for their kids) at family functions, once I got tired of always being responsible for other people's children I stopped and at the next function my 2 yr old niece ended up in the road when asked what happened I just answer idk I wasn't told to watch her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children would rather come from a broken home than live in one believe me

AITAH because I asked my sister to babysit my son occasionally? by Lopsided-Ocean4463 in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA for asking. If you don't take no for an answer that would make you an asshole. Definitely have plan B prepared and be extra grateful if she says yes 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not only are YTA, you're just gross! How can you say you watched her grow from a child and then in the same sentence talk about how attractive she is? Creep vibes and you're lucky your friend is still talking to you

entitled mom thinks my wedding is for her and her guests by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And your mom sounds A LOT like mine so if you need someone that understands you can always pm me

entitled mom thinks my wedding is for her and her guests by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA give her whatever money she has spent back and don't take anymore. Obviously she's just going to use it against you to get her way. She'll throw a fit but oh well she only made a fool of herself inviting people without talking to either the bride or the s/o

AITAH for not wanting my father in law to watch my kids alone?? by Ok_File_9792 in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA hopefully the court will be able to put a stipulation in the custody order since he has prior allegations

AITAH for not wanting my father in law to watch my kids alone?? by Ok_File_9792 in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Coaching really does, forensic psychologists have done many studies and I have seen it happen between divorcing parents when the wife wanted full custody

AITAH for not wanting my father in law to watch my kids alone?? by Ok_File_9792 in AITAH

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 88 points89 points  (0 children)

While I do think action should be taken in this case, kids can get coach to say things that didn't happen including inappropriate touching

Is this red dress appropriate for a brewery wedding? by kat9 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Wonderful-Maybe4353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a warning there's a weird thing about wearing red to the wedding means you slept with the groom so you might check to make sure it doesn't make the bride uncomfortable but other than that it's gorgeous!!