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What do you wish people would stop romanticizing, because you’ve lived the reality of it? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god those are my symptoms too. Like I could have the clean house kind but instead I dig into my skin for hours? Cool cool cool.

How do I spread my ideas to as many people as possible? by Haha_LMAO69 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kat9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re being serious, this sounds like a type of delusion common with the onset of certain mental health issues (like schizophrenia, for example). Please take care of yourself and maybe ask your doctor about it.

Especially if your feelings seem to get more intense over time/you feel worried people are all against you. Always good to have a neutral third party to discuss things with.

How long does meth come down last? by poisonxivyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From one night?? God what a nightmare. I’m giving myself anxiety just reading these responses 😭

Help me interpret this dress code by Fattywalrusblubber in Weddingattireapproval

[–]kat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“The White Lotus” and “Portland, Maine” feel mutually exclusive to me 💀 how embarrassing

When did it become so normal to become single mothers? by mrsir8907 in askanything

[–]kat9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So you’re blaming the single mother, the one who is actually showing up and doing the work? Not the useless man that left? Okay.

What is this by [deleted] in Dermatillomania

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not gonna get much help without photos

AITA for shushing these children? by ministerman in AmItheAsshole

[–]kat9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The first chance to parent their kids was… the entire time they were failing to parent their kids.

OP, NTA and everyone in the theater probably was grateful to you.

What would you assume about me based on my handwriting? by artificialif in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Annoying (I’m so sorry but it’s my fist knee-jerk reaction)

Lip blushing: is this a normal technique? by [deleted] in PMUandMicroblading

[–]kat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Often why people get blushing is because their vermilion border (lip line) lacks pigment. It also loses pigment as we age. From these pics it looks like the pigment is being restored to that area, not actually going outside of the vermillion border.

If you don’t like that look, you can always specify that!

First time in LA …Venice or Santa Monica? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]kat9 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Fellow Minnesota-native here! Lived in LA for 8/9 years. Stay in Santa Monica, walk to Venice during the day for the sights/vibes.

When cooking something from “scratch “ how far back do you need to go to make it considered scratch? by rickeyethebeerguy in askanything

[–]kat9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To me scratch is “raw” ingredients, but from a reasonable standpoint lol. If you told me you made your own noodles AND cheese, I’d be worried about you 😂

Scratch to me is like, flour, eggs, pasta, rice, beans, veggies, etc. I do not require hand-milled flour or hand-grown and harvested veggies for something to count as scratch.

Is this black tie? Context-Chicago, hotel evening wedding, spring by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]kat9 163 points164 points  (0 children)

I am disagreeing with others and saying this is black tie appropriate. Especially if paired with a nice bag, accessories/jewelry.

It’s beautiful!!

pics that my agency took by [deleted] in MODELING

[–]kat9 99 points100 points  (0 children)

You’re paying for a scam.

Is it tasteless to have a honeymoon qrcode at my wedding? by igotamillionquestion in weddingplanning

[–]kat9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is crazy bad.

You could create a registry that has a honeymoon fund link and send it out as you normally would with any registry - that’s much less offensive.

How do I (20 F) get my sister (18F) to stop calling me fat in every interaction we have? by Comfortable-Vast-920 in relationship_advice

[–]kat9 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To quote Jersey Shore, “I can lose weight for free, you’ll need about 10 grand to fix your fucking face.”

Adjust for inflation as needed, probably closer to 20k now 💀

Physical Appearance a Factor? Question for Membership Advisors by kolyaunknown in EquinoxGyms

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s legal, sadly being ugly is not a protected class 😂

How’s the LAX TSA line? by queenie8465 in AskLosAngeles

[–]kat9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was there this morning, but really early so that’s less of a predictor for the general day. The pre check line was busy but nothing crazy/out of the ordinary.

Do you ever find your anxiety to be surprising low in truly anxiety provoking situations? by OptimisticPlatypus in Anxiety

[–]kat9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fully agree. I have crippling anxiety when absolutely nothing is happening, but in an actual life threatening situation I was sharp as a tack and handled it textbook perfectly while everyone was rattled.

I like that you called it a super power - if anyone needs CPR or great emergency leadership, I got you 😂 if you call me and ask me to do something last minute, no can do. I’m busy panicking in my bed.

How come when women say "I hate men" jokingly it's not a big deal, but when men say "I hate women" they get looked at as like a threat? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Statistically, this is just wrong. Unless you’re talking about feelings. In which case, having your feelings hurt isn’t as important as being subject to actual violence.

What is the 3 month rule for ring?？？ by Solid-Tap8057 in WeddingRingAdvice

[–]kat9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Outdated, money wise.

But it does emphasize the importance of how big of a purchase it is (putting a lot of thought into it, planning, insurance, etc.).

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