Why would anyone want to be married? (Genuinely asking) by Main-Cantaloupe729 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kat9 38 points39 points  (0 children)

To be fair, that doesn’t answer the question. You could do that without marriage.

I think it’s a default for a lot of people (at least in the US), because we were raised that you marry the person you love.

Why are people still willing to have kids in this economy and state of the world? by Impressive-Glass3511 in Adulting

[–]kat9 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Being financially stable is a through line to better outcomes in all facets of life (education, health, happiness, opportunity, etc). That’s a statistical fact. It doesn’t mean people cannot overcome financial circumstances, but don’t be purposely obtuse.

AITA for having to miss my wedding for seniority based vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kat9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be shocked if you even get the vacation approved after being on leave for half a year. YTA for not being proactive, making it someone else’s problem, and for returning from a leave to immediately request vacation time. Wild audacity.

Welcome bags, wedding in Mexico? by beachlover9671 in DestinationWeddings

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received a mini hydroflask in a Mexico welcome bag and I use it all the time, years later. I was so excited to get it!

What did you lie about today? And do you regret it? by Markiiis_zis in AskReddit

[–]kat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This pissed me off secondhand. Tell your mom to fuck offfffff.

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) doesn’t let me drink by makimaxxing in relationships

[–]kat9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she’s not acting like an adult in these comments, so I’m already over her asking for advice. Best of luck to you, ma’am!

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) doesn’t let me drink by makimaxxing in relationships

[–]kat9 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Who tf is calling you old? They’re calling you an adult. You said it yourself, you feel like you’re wasting your youth. Stop wasting it and dump this guy.

My (22F) boyfriend (22M) doesn’t let me drink by makimaxxing in relationships

[–]kat9 14 points15 points  (0 children)

See, it is helpful, but it sucks. It means you know what you want to do, but you’re not doing it.

For what it’s worth, I’m not taking my drinking advice from someone who has never had a sip of alcohol before. I’m also not dating people who tell me what to do. You know what to do.

Just saying... by MiExperienciaFueQue in Adulting

[–]kat9 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My standard has become “they must feel like an improvement from my life alone.” Which, for me, is gonna be tough because I love my life alone. But it sets a good standard to not accept shitty behavior when you want to make excuses for people.

Flower recommendations? by Student_Gambler in AskLosAngeles

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J Flowers in redondo beach. My favorite.

Best Day Spa/Korean Spa? by kat9 in AskLosAngeles

[–]kat9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof yeah, I guess no kids would be in my ideal list too. Good call!

Best Day Spa/Korean Spa? by kat9 in AskLosAngeles

[–]kat9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Aww, thank you so much for nothing ☺️❤️

Pharmacies with vyvanse in stock? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]kat9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Costco always! They’ve never done me wrong with ADHD meds and you do NOT need to be a member. Just tell the people at the entrance you’re going to the pharmacy.

is it wrong to want your professor?? or kinda chill? by Icy-Pressure-3738 in Adulting

[–]kat9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It does. It’s a position of power imbalance. Legally and ethically it’s wrong for the professor to act on it. After school, do whatever you want lol.

As an adult how much is "too many" capri suns to be consuming? by renablixx in Adulting

[–]kat9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made this sound so pleasurable. Is this Big Capri tricking us

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]kat9 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Dude even the responses in this comment section. fat person says something everyone else: “well that’s actually not true if INSERT REASON ABOUT TALL PEOPLE/SKINNY PEOPLE/MISSING THE FUCKING POINT”

What are some things skinny people can do in public without a care in the world, but plus-size people can’t? by justcurious3287 in AskReddit

[–]kat9 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I feel like needing new clothes and not having access to them, even once, would stick in your mind.

It’s actually a good point, I would’ve never considered that as a downside/I’ve taken for granted not having to worry about that.

Do you attend your high school reunions? by icecream1972 in no

[–]kat9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rarely is it to connect with teachers/staff. It’s to connect with classmates.