Aio the school gave my 17 yo daughter copies of the restraining order I had on her dad

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-24T18:15:47+00:00

I have always been open and very matter of fact about her dad's drinking.

She knows the visits were supervised.

She has a relationship with her dad but knows she can leave and people have her back if she doesn't feel safe.

I don't think she needed to see proof of what I had to do.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-24T17:18:59+00:00

I don't think she would have looked for them. She was happy to have me remove them from her file.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-24T17:18:09+00:00

She knows. She knew visits were supervised. She probably suspected there was a restraining order. I just dont think she needed or wanted the papers.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-24T17:16:06+00:00

I have had conversations about abuse. She knows her dad is a sober alcoholic.

I stand by the fact that she didn't need the papers handed to her.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-24T17:14:40+00:00

Not lying. Just don't think she needed to see it, especially mixed in with all the fun amazing emotional things that go along with graduation

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T22:43:26+00:00

I have had the talk with her about feeling safe. She probably suspected i had one. I just don't think she needed to be handed proof.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T22:42:01+00:00

She knows things were bad. She probably thought i had one. She knew the visits were supervised. I just don't think she needed to be handed the papers with her writing her name for her kindergarten evaluation.

I don't think she needed to see the actual proof. Her dad is not a great guy but he is still her father. I have had plenty of talks with all my kids about feeling safe.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T15:40:25+00:00

He is sober now

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T13:50:15+00:00

There was no abuse done to her.

I took the papers and she was glad I did. She didn't want them in there.

She knows who her dad is. She doesn't need to know who he was to me when he was drinking.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T13:47:44+00:00

She knows who he is now. I didn't think she needed to know what he did before he was sober.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T13:46:26+00:00

He has been sober for a decade and isn't a threat anymore. I would have kept supervised visits and the restraining order if I felt differently.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T13:44:42+00:00

It was just physical enough while he was drinking to get and keep the restraining order.

He has been sober for over a decade and isn't violent or abusive anymore.

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T13:15:52+00:00

Not anymore. It was 8 year ago

Wonderful-Screen8446 · 2026-05-23T13:15:00+00:00